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Topic: Will we have sexual relations?
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kirki
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posted November 22, 2018 06:28 AM
  
I think you are trolling ...anyway good luck!IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted November 22, 2018 06:47 AM
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I think you are trolling ...anyway good luck!
Trolling? I have no reason to do so. You said he's involved with someone else (mars). I'm just agreeing with what you are saying but whatever.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted November 22, 2018 07:26 AM
A few days ago he said that he knows it seems like he's playing games. But that he's not he's just really busy with work. But that he'll be able to hang out soon. I told him that I've met someone else who I want to date. But that it's not nice for him to lead people on. That he should just be honest and direct if he's really not interested. That was my reply to him based on what was said about the charts.IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted November 26, 2018 12:19 AM
Sorry I was really busy.You always take the 7th house for the people that you are interested in. When I said the quesited is more into him than him into her, I didn't mean that he is not interested in you, this chart showed that you ( the moon) goes in the 7th house in her own detriment sign,even though you are interested in him you can't do anything about it and that makes moon unhappy, whereas he as saturn in his own house is at the time that this chart was erected is most concerned about himself, he is in own sign,with his domicile status he has the ability to change the whole dynamics of this relationship by giving moon what she wants but he won't, as per this chart.Although he is in terms of Venus, that rules the 5th house, she is retrograde lying in her own sign, but right on the edge, Saturn will move into terms of mercury so whatever interest he has for you, he is not as emotional as you are. You erected this chart by asking whether you will have sexual relations, so moon in the 7th house means you want to have more than just sexual relations with him, venus in the 5th squaring moon means that the sexual intentions that you initially had would clash with your emotional needs. I've noted that with moon-saturn dynamics in horary charts, it almost always doesn't work out, moon is too emotional for Saturn and Saturn is too cold and rigid for moon. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted November 26, 2018 12:24 PM
Well he said he's still interested so I am just going to go with what he's telling me. I think real life is more important than what a chart is saying. I can understand why he may not be emotionally involved we don't really know each other. I guess I should have mentioned that we are basically acquaintances. I asked if he and I would have sex not if we would be in a relationship. He said he's interested in having sex with me. So why would he say that if he really wasn't? What am I lying to myself about? I want us to be friends and yes sex. But I don't mean romantic relationship. I don't know him well enough to be in a relationship with him. I don't rush into relationships I like to be friends first thats how it is for me. And this is with anyone I have to be friends before getting in a relationship. I have Venus square Uranus friendship always comes before romance. Not only that though I am somewhat involved with someone else. I'm not in a relationship with this person. But we do have sexual relations from time to time. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted November 27, 2018 12:33 AM
Ok, on a side note you should bear in mind that horary charts should only be cast when the matter is of utmost importance in your life.I've noted that people ( and I don't mean you personally) cast charts for every topic under the sun and then complain that it is not reflecting their reality. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 28, 2018 09:48 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Ok, on a side note you should bear in mind that horary charts should only be cast when the matter is of utmost importance in your life.I've noted that people ( and I don't mean you personally) cast charts for every topic under the sun and then complain that it is not reflecting their reality.
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Randall
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posted November 29, 2018 05:00 PM
Thanks, Jessica.IP: Logged |
HelixID
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posted December 06, 2018 12:30 PM
@ChildofVenus
You say that you have Venus square Uranus. People with such a natal aspect usually like people who are unattainable and their relationships end suddenly.Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think you brought this on yourself. First the guy showed interest, asked you out and then you pulled away for no obvious reason from what I can tell from your posts.
You liked him as long as you didn't see a chance to be with him. He got closer and you chickened out - he became unavailable again. Now you want him because he is unattainable again.
I bet if agreed to meet, you'd find a reason not to.
This is all very Venus-Uranus like and you're sending the guy mixed signals. Anyway, since this is an horary question, I'll say that you could get your answer in approximately three time units.
Moon is applying to a square with Venus. Both are in cardinal signs but in succedent houses, so maybe three weeks or three months from the day you erected the chart you'll know what's on. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted December 06, 2018 02:22 PM
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Originally posted by HelixID:
@ChildofVenus
You say that you have Venus square Uranus. People with such a natal aspect usually like people who are unattainable and their relationships end suddenly.Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think you brought this on yourself. First the guy showed interest, asked you out and then you pulled away for no obvious reason from what I can tell from your posts.
You liked him as long as you didn't see a chance to be with him. He got closer and you chickened out - he became unavailable again. Now you want him because he is unattainable again.
I bet if agreed to meet, you'd find a reason not to.
This is all very Venus-Uranus like and you're sending the guy mixed signals. Anyway, since this is an horary question, I'll say that you could get your answer in approximately three time units.
Moon is applying to a square with Venus. Both are in cardinal signs but in succedent houses, so maybe three weeks or three months from the day you erected the chart you'll know what's on.
Yes I know you are right I hate having Venus/Uranus in my chart. He did ask me to meet up with him again last week. I told him that I needed to be on birth control before we have sex. And he keeps telling me I don't need birth control and that he'll use a condom. I don't understand why he keeps saying that. Condoms are not a guarantee if it breaks I can get pregnant. I'm going to the doctor next week to get the shot I missed in September. I did tell him just forget about it because that kind of upset me. The fact that he doesn't think I need birth control and that a condom is good enough. But I still want to meet up with him. I hope we do because I do want him.
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HelixID
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posted December 07, 2018 12:59 AM
You're so funny, ChildofVenus, haha.
Just go ona a date with him already and at least get to know him a little better but don't make silly excuses for not meeting up with him if you're really interested.I have the Venus-Uranus square myself, so I know how it feels. It's easy to blame major forces that keep you apart from the person you like but don't invent a major force when there is none.
Go on a date with him, you'll survive.  One more thing, your horary chart is for Nov 12, right?
You said he asked you to go on a date last week. Which day was it, do you know?
I'm asking because of the three time units I mentioned before.  IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted December 07, 2018 02:38 AM
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Originally posted by HelixID:
You're so funny, ChildofVenus, haha.
Just go ona a date with him already and at least get to know him a little better but don't make silly excuses for not meeting up with him if you're really interested.I have the Venus-Uranus square myself, so I know how it feels. It's easy to blame major forces that keep you apart from the person you like but don't invent a major force when there is none.
Go on a date with him, you'll survive. One more thing, your horary chart is for Nov 12, right?
You said he asked you to go on a date last week. Which day was it, do you know?
I'm asking because of the three time units I mentioned before.
I think it's too late for just a date now. Since I've mentioned sex so now he'll want it. Yes I do remember It was on December 1st. Someone said that Mercury square Mercury in synastry can keep two people from meeting up. Since Mercury rules time but I'm not sure if that's always the case though. IP: Logged |
HelixID
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posted December 08, 2018 01:58 PM
You erected the chart on Nov 12, he asked you out on Dec 1, so 19 days have passed from the horary question chart. This is almost 3 weeks, which corresponds to the Moon applying to Venus by a orb of 2°51' or almost 3 degrees.
That you blew him off is probably explained by the square between Moon and Venus - it showed contact but a difficult one.The only contact the Moon makes to a traditional planet before it leaves the sign is a sextile to Mars.
The orb is 5°36', this means five and a half time units and this time I believe it's going to be five and a half months rather than weeks before something happens again. Have you started talking to each other somewhere around mid September? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted December 08, 2018 02:24 PM
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Originally posted by HelixID:
You erected the chart on Nov 12, he asked you out on Dec 1, so 19 days have passed from the horary question chart. This is almost 3 weeks, which corresponds to the Moon applying to Venus by a orb of 2°51' or almost 3 degrees.
That you blew him off is probably explained by the square between Moon and Venus - it showed contact but a difficult one.The only contact the Moon makes to a traditional planet before it leaves the sign is a sextile to Mars.
The orb is 5°36', this means five and a half time units and this time I believe it's going to be five and a half months rather than weeks before something happens again. Have you started talking to each other somewhere around mid September?
We've been talking since the beginning of this year maybe February. He replied to my message today but I haven't replied. I'm kind of involved with someone else too. Someone I've been talking to since 2014. But he lives in a different state. He and I hookup sometimes so that's another reason why I'm hesitant about this. I don't want to stop talking to the other guy. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted December 09, 2018 03:52 PM
Keep us updated.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted December 16, 2018 03:52 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
No he is not venus.he is saturn in his own sign, he is focused on whatever is happening in his life at the moment,could be work or work related he doesn't have time for fun or for any fun activities. His sig is so closely conjunct the dsc, was wondering whether he is not more focused on establishing stable relationships rather than 5th house matters or whether he is committed to someone else. The quesited is more into him than him into her. As for sex, no I don't see it, probably because you would be second guessing everything. Anyways please let us know what happens.
In horary I thought the 5th house was related to sex so in whichcase the significator of the 5th would become the significator of the person you're hoping to f*ck. Right?
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HelixID
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posted December 18, 2018 12:18 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
In horary I thought the 5th house was related to sex so in whichcase the significator of the 5th would become the significator of the person you're hoping to f*ck. Right?
I read somewhere that if you ask about another person in an horary question that H7 and its ruler signify that person. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted December 19, 2018 05:42 AM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
In horary I thought the 5th house was related to sex so in whichcase the significator of the 5th would become the significator of the person you're hoping to f*ck. Right?
Yes the 5th house is sex when asking about sex it's a fifth house matter. It's ok though he and I have been talking and he wants to. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted December 20, 2018 05:38 PM
Good to hear. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 08, 2019 05:24 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yes the 5th house is sex when asking about sex it's a fifth house matter. It's ok though he and I have been talking and he wants to.
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Randall
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posted February 05, 2019 10:16 AM
How are things going?IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted February 09, 2019 02:15 PM
We are going to meet up next week.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted February 14, 2019 10:45 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
We are going to meet up next week.
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