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Topic: Does he love me or only wants sex?
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Hikaru29
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posted July 15, 2019 11:11 AM
  
We just reconciled but I wanna know if he loves me or only wants sex.His sig in Capricorn is in my sign so it shows he loves me, right? Venus my co-sig is also in its triplicity. But in 12th house means he hides his feelings from me? However, Venus in Sun's Term with Saturn in its detriment means he both loves and hates me?  IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted July 15, 2019 03:16 PM
considering the ruler of both your 5th houses are in his turned 1st, connecting again has been through those house matters. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted July 15, 2019 04:10 PM
My qn is whether he loves me. We have reconciled that's already established.IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted July 18, 2019 06:37 AM
To the Q - does he love me - the answer is no.IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted July 18, 2019 09:46 AM
Can you explain the answer? Moon is in Saturn's sign, why is it no?IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted July 19, 2019 01:28 AM
I apologize I don't have time to write a long response albeit when I do I sometimes don't get a response whether OP has read my post or not.But coming back to this specific horary, many reasons why it's a clear no. As for your query above, Moon is in detriment in Capricorn. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted July 19, 2019 02:30 AM
Thanks for explaining but I don't understand your interpretation of reception. I quote this from John Frawley's Horary book:
"The planet loves the planet that rules the sign it is in. Simple and Straightforward. The Moon (or any other planet) at 3 Aries loves whatever is signified by Mars."Capricorn is ruled by Saturn which means Moon in Capricorn likes Saturn. Moon is also receiving Venus (my co-sig) by Triplicity. You read it the other way which I don't get. Someone from another forum also said Moon loves Saturn. But anyway, thanks for your help. 🙏 IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted July 22, 2019 04:09 AM
No, moon is not happy in capricorn, this is most significant since this is a relationship horary. She is in detriment and in the 12th quadrant. You are Saturn retrograde in the first quadrant conjunct SN doesn't bode well, this union may cause you a lot of pain. But the right question would be why are you Saturn retrograde in the first house so close to the SN? My take is that you already know the answer. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 23, 2019 12:30 PM
Thanks, Jessica.IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted July 25, 2019 07:04 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
No, moon is not happy in capricorn, this is most significant since this is a relationship horary. She is in detriment and in the 12th quadrant. You are Saturn retrograde in the first quadrant conjunct SN doesn't bode well, this union may cause you a lot of pain. But the right question would be why are you Saturn retrograde in the first house so close to the SN? My take is that you already know the answer.
Ok, I realised you follow Lily's method of reception. I'm using Frawley's. Yes, I was in pain because I was confused about his feelings, but no, I didn't know the answer for sure. If I did, I wouldn't be posting this Horary. I felt he didn't love me but friends have been telling me he does. I wasn't convinced because he sends me mixed signals. Anyway, we recently met and he said he still feels uncontrollably attracted to me (his own words)... he heard that I was with another guy during our breakup and he felt very jealous so I thought he hates me now and doesn't wanna be with me anymore. He said he was jealous but doesn't hate me because it's his fault that he pushed me away, and then he kissed me. If he doesn't love me or have some romantic feelings for me, then why he came back to me, said all these things to me and even kissed me... very perplexing. IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted July 25, 2019 10:30 AM
Hi haiku, is this the relationship you have Pluto in the 4th house with?IP: Logged |
kirki
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posted July 25, 2019 03:17 PM
Seems like he does love you,and youll understand it soon.IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted July 27, 2019 11:40 AM
@vansio, yes.@kirki,
Thanks for your response. The Horary was right. He finally admitted he loves me and became very affectionate thereafter so I believe he's not just saying. He indeed has been hiding his feelings as he felt vulnerable (Moon in its own detriment). IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 27, 2019 12:34 PM
Yay!IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted July 28, 2019 03:07 AM
^ Thanks, Randall ! It took him 1+yr to tell me he loves me. I hope this happiness lasts...  IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted July 29, 2019 03:14 PM
✨🐛🦋💞🌈☯️✨Ahyes, and this is the relationship that also has 5th house NN. From what I recall... your relationship and mine have a few similar placements. 😏 Have you checked transit aspects to your composite? Curious 🙏 IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 30, 2019 04:28 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
^ Thanks, Randall ! It took him 1+yr to tell me he loves me. I hope this happiness lasts...
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Hikaru29
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posted July 31, 2019 06:57 AM
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Originally posted by vansio:
✨🐛🦋💞🌈☯️✨Ahyes, and this is the relationship that also has 5th house NN. From what I recall... your relationship and mine have a few similar placements. 😏 Have you checked transit aspects to your composite? Curious 🙏
Yes, you have a good memory!  Ah... transit NN started passing through our Cancer stellium (Sun/Venus/Mercury/Psyche) since May but things didn't improve till July. In fact, we broke up in June and I thought it was all over but we patched back when Mercury turned Rx. This transit will last till Sep. I was told tNodes square cPluto in Nov will either deepen our feelings or cool off which I supposed it's dependent on how strong a bond we build during this period. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted July 31, 2019 07:39 AM
I'm very happy to hear that Hikaru!All the best! IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 31, 2019 10:28 AM
He wanted to make sure he meant it.IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted August 01, 2019 12:34 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I'm very happy to hear that Hikaru!All the best!
Thanks, Jessica! IP: Logged |
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