posted July 26, 2019 07:26 PM            

the only reason to do that is because you like looking at someone but not actually being around them

posted July 26, 2019 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
going to be real with you, without looking at that chart, if i didnt want to see a chick again and told her as much but she'd still send me pictures id be more than happy with just looking and not actually dealing with her

the only reason to do that is because you like looking at someone but not actually being around them

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posted July 26, 2019 08:42 PM            

if you told him and he told you that back though that's not promising, just saying

being real the kind of guy who's going to say "send me pics but i don't want to see you anymore" probably isn't worth ******* around with whether he changes his mind or not you could probably do better even just for a friend with benefits situation

posted July 26, 2019 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
oh it's that guy, i remember seeing you mention him

if you told him and he told you that back though that's not promising, just saying

being real the kind of guy who's going to say "send me pics but i don't want to see you anymore" probably isn't worth ******* around with whether he changes his mind or not you could probably do better even just for a friend with benefits situation

unless the sex is amazing i guess

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posted July 26, 2019 09:03 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
He said that before I told him I only wanted to be friends and have sex. But afterwards he replied telling not to stop sending the pictures. I don’t know what that means though.

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i assume it means: i'll jerk off to your pics but i dont want to be involved any further

posted July 26, 2019 09:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i assume it means: i'll jerk off to your pics but i dont want to be involved any further

but that's how i would mean it if i said something like that and it'd probably be because i thought the chick was lying about what she wanted since her parents had been involved

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posted July 26, 2019 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Well I’m not lying though that’s the point. They met him where he works and sometimes they talk to him. I just didn’t want him to be caught of guard. In case if they said something to him. Because they always joke with me about him when he’s not around. I told them that he and I are only friends and that’s it. They understand that now so I wish he would believe me. I wouldn’t have asked him to be friends with benefits if I wanted something more.

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well of course you know for sure you aren't lying lol but he can't, you can never know 100% whether or not someone else is being honest about something that cant be verified other than through their words

posted July 26, 2019 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
well of course you know for sure you aren't lying lol but he can't, you can never know 100% whether or not someone else is being honest about something that cant be verified other than through their words

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posted July 26, 2019 09:33 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
That’s where trust comes in I trusted him enough to tell him personal things that happened to me. Things that I don’t share with people. Yet he can’t trust me about something like this. That’s what really bothers me the fact that he doesn’t trust me.

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i get that, but you can't make someone trust you if they won't give you the chance to even show them you're trustworthy

i honestly think whether he comes back or not you'd be better off with someone else, even a friend with benefits situation requires communication and trust for it to actually be worthwhile

posted July 26, 2019 09:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i get that, but you can't make someone trust you if they won't give you the chance to even show them you're trustworthy

i honestly think whether he comes back or not you'd be better off with someone else, even a friend with benefits situation requires communication and trust for it to actually be worthwhile

unless the sex is really good or theyre just there and youve got nothing else going on and no other potential partners i guess

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posted July 27, 2019 02:22 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
He told me awhile ago that it takes him awhile to trust people. So I assume he has trust issues for whatever reason. But I haven’t gave him a reason not to.

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people with trust issues dont need reasons to not trust people, it's just their default

posted July 27, 2019 05:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
people with trust issues dont need reasons to not trust people, it's just their default

they need a long period of unbroken trust to feel safe instead

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posted July 27, 2019 12:10 PM            

So which is your qn - Does he hate me? Or will we have sex again?

posted July 27, 2019 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I'm really confused with the story. So you told him you just wanna be FwB but he doesn't believe you. He thinks you want to have a real r/s... and so he doesn't wanna see you now but wanna continue receiving your sexy pics?

So which is your qn - Does he hate me? Or will we have sex again?

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Will we have sex again I do have someone else I started talking to a Scorpio recently. He lives in another state he wants to come see me. But I’m not trying to do the long distance hookup thing. I only want to do it with the Virgo because I’m use to him and I trust him. I said I’d never hookup with someone I met online again.

posted July 28, 2019 02:47 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Will we have sex again

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posted July 29, 2019 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Venus applying a conjunction to Sun so I see it's likely you'll hook up again.

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