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Topic: Pls help with my friend's Horary - Is he cooling off and should she break up?
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2099 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 24, 2019 02:30 AM
My friend's boyfriend has a tendency to cool off once in awhile and it bothers her as she feels that he's trying to slowly distance to a breakup. Recently he did this again (went silent for a few days) so she casted a Horary asking if she should just break off with him.I told my friend I don't see a breakup happening as the angles are fixed with arabic part of Love on the ASC + the 2 main sigs are coming to a conjunction. Both sigs exalt Mercury her 5th ruler so it seems they're still interested in the romance. But Mars in Venus' Fall so it seems he might be pulling away as he's thinking something negative about her + Moon coming to a conjunction with Uranus (emotional detachment). However, Moon will also trine Saturn, square Mercury then trine Pluto and I see this as emotional ups & downs - strengthening follow by disagreements, then intense emotional bonding. Moon though weakened in 12th house but strong in essential dignity so I think while they can't do much about this, they'll be able to manage it. ------------------------------------ A day after casting this Horary, my friend's boyfriend contacted her and they hung out. Things still seem good, she says, and he saw her again the day after (so it doesn't seem like he's pulling away). However, my friend still wants to know what the chart says. What do you think? IP: Logged |
kirki Knowflake Posts: 509 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 24, 2019 07:34 AM
In horary i follow the rule to keep it as simple as it can be ...here venus conjuct mars,and moon making its last aspect to sun ,makes me think the relationship is good...in her 4rth house /his 10th,adds to it by showing the relationship is serious for both...IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2099 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 24, 2019 10:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by kirki: In horary i follow the rule to keep it as simple as it can be ...here venus conjuct mars,and moon making its last aspect to sun ,makes me think the relationship is good...in her 4rth house /his 10th,adds to it by showing the relationship is serious for both...
Thanks, kirki. I mostly read that 4th is the house of endings. Is this true? IP: Logged |
kirki Knowflake Posts: 509 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 24, 2019 10:49 AM
When a chart is hard for me to read ,i take a look at 4rth house,taking it as an ending ,but in a chart like the one you posted ,i take 4rth house as i take it in natal.IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2099 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 25, 2019 12:43 AM
I think Moon will not be able to aspect Sun because Sun is changing signs soon, so Moon's last aspect is a trine to Pluto.IP: Logged |
kirki Knowflake Posts: 509 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 25, 2019 05:23 AM
I dont use outer planets in horary ,unless they are on cusps of the houses im interested in...also ,since conjuction of mars/venus will be in virgo,i take a look at the condition of mercury...but that is a rule i made up by myself...anyway in my opinion ,chart looks good.Update if news come up...IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2099 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 25, 2019 11:03 AM
Things still look good but he feels insecure... thinks she'll meet someone else so over this they had a tiff, but they've made up. Anyway, it's only been a few days so we shall see. I'll update again. Thanks. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2099 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 28, 2019 07:04 AM
Sorry, another qn - how would you interpret Mercury on the IC in this chart? In fact, are significators on IC/MC a good thing? I rarely read about it. How would you interpret them?
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kirki Knowflake Posts: 509 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 28, 2019 07:31 AM
Although i havent read much about it either,when i see significators in 4,10 house ,i take it as a positive placement.Respect and sense of family and love...mercury as her 5th house ruler ,could mean she could get joy from their relationship and troubles will go soon...how are they getting along now?IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2099 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 02, 2019 09:26 AM
There were some ups and downs over the past week but they're still loving. You're right their feelings seem serious.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 117687 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 03, 2019 01:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: There were some ups and downs over the past week but they're still loving. You're right their feelings seem serious.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 117687 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 14, 2019 12:37 PM
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