posted May 02, 2021 08:19 AM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
Hello Dear.

The first chart you post is ok. Your significator is Mars and his is Venus. Venus is leaving the combustion by the Sun and in his twelfth house. Are you 100% sure he isn’t hiding being with someone else or just hiding something pretty important from you? You are receiving just by Face to Venus and in fall (you are def not good at all). He is Venus in Taurus, just thinking about himself and exalting you the Moon and triplicity of night (so it’s a good thing). Moon, your heart in this case really loves him. But Venus in Taurus receives you in detritment so he is having doubts about you (thinking). This are just receptions. I saw aspects and there is nothing. I wish I could tell you it would happen, but No, it won’t happen, and if it does, nothing will come from it.

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Thank you so much for your response! Would you mind answering some questions for me? I’m so baby new at horary and question charts. I’ve been reading a lot but my way of learning is by practical application. Why am I Mars and him Venus? Wouldn’t it be the other way around since I’m female and he’s male? A lot of the terms you used I have no idea what they mean so I’ll have to look them up to understand better LOL. Can you dumb some of the terminology down for me if it’s not too much to ask? What do you mean “I am not good at all?”

posted May 02, 2021 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by AmberMoon:
Thank you so much for your response! Would you mind answering some questions for me? I’m so baby new at horary and question charts. I’ve been reading a lot but my way of learning is by practical application. Why am I Mars and him Venus? Wouldn’t it be the other way around since I’m female and he’s male? A lot of the terms you used I have no idea what they mean so I’ll have to look them up to understand better LOL. Can you dumb some of the terminology down for me if it’s not too much to ask? What do you mean “I am not good at all?”

He very well could be hiding something from me. He is extremely private and I really don’t know him extremely well. We are both married but VERY unhappily. His wife is a serial flirt and has been unfaithful to him. My husband has hurt me emotionally so many times in the last 13 years that I’m ready to be done.

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Hey, so let me see what you are asking hahah
1. You are Mars because you are the one who did the Horary Chart, you are the Ascendant. You are the querent. (Or the person who is asking the question and wants to know the answer). He is 7th house, this is a love horary question. He is Venus.
2. Look in Google for dignities of planets in horary chart. You are Mars in Cancer, you are in fall, it shows clearly you aren’t feeling well with yourself and the situation in general. And I think now its clear to me you aren’t feeling ok. He is Venus in Taurus, he exalts the moon (your emotions) Moon is always the heart of the querent if isn’t taken by the quesited. but he also care a lot about himself. The thing about exaltation in love horaries is that are the first stage of love, but it lasts? No, he will move to Venus in Geminis, ruler is Mercury, just Mercury, I wonder who Mercury is in this case. He also right now it’s having doubts about you and “rejecting” you. Venus in Taurus “receive” by detritment to Mars.
3. Im about to think Mercury is the wife because it’s close to him and Mercury in Taurus, the ruler is Venus so she receives in love to Venus.
4. Did he has some kind of affair flirting situation with you? Probably that’s why he was combusted and in his twelfth house (of his 7th, the 7th house is represented by him). But uhm, thinking clearly now probably the 7th house isn’t him but your husband. And he is the 5th house. Damn! I was so wrong all the time. I’m probably reading this in the wrong way. Have you caught your husband being with someone else???

Im sorry for reading this in the wrong way, but I just noticed you are both married. So he isn’t your 7th house, your 7th house is your husband. :S

posted May 02, 2021 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
Hey, so let me see what you are asking hahah
1. You are Mars because you are the one who did the Horary Chart, you are the Ascendant. You are the querent. (Or the person who is asking the question and wants to know the answer). He is 7th house, this is a love horary question. He is Venus.
2. Look in Google for dignities of planets in horary chart. You are Mars in Cancer, you are in fall, it shows clearly you aren’t feeling well with yourself and the situation in general. And I think now its clear to me you aren’t feeling ok. He is Venus in Taurus, he exalts the moon (your emotions) Moon is always the heart of the querent if isn’t taken by the quesited. but he also care a lot about himself. The thing about exaltation in love horaries is that are the first stage of love, but it lasts? No, he will move to Venus in Geminis, ruler is Mercury, just Mercury, I wonder who Mercury is in this case. He also right now it’s having doubts about you and “rejecting” you. Venus in Taurus “receive” by detritment to Mars.
3. Im about to think Mercury is the wife because it’s close to him and Mercury in Taurus, the ruler is Venus so she receives in love to Venus.
4. Did he has some kind of affair flirting situation with you? Probably that’s why he was combusted and in his twelfth house (of his 7th, the 7th house is represented by him). But uhm, thinking clearly now probably the 7th house isn’t him but your husband. And he is the 5th house. Damn! I was so wrong all the time. I’m probably reading this in the wrong way. Have you caught your husband being with someone else???

Im sorry for reading this in the wrong way, but I just noticed you are both married. So he isn’t your 7th house, your 7th house is your husband. :S

Please let me know so I can read this in a better way.

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1. Ok, I’ve read a few things saying that your significator is your natal chart ruler. I’m Taurus rising so I thought I was Venus. I’ve heard other things too just not sure what to think or what’s most accurate.
2. Ouch okay. I just don’t understand. Our synastry and composite shows mutual desire, love, infatuation and also good marriage potential. It must just be where he’s at in this stage of his life - not in a place to even consider “us” right now. I’m not feeling well with myself because I’m just SO confused.
3 It’s my understanding that there is not much if any love in their marriage and are hanging on because of money and children. Although she has a roving eye, I haven’t heard the same about him.
4. Okay here’s where it gets hairy. He is my husband’s coworker and friend. When we met, I didn’t think of him as anything more than a friend although he is attractive and sweet. Then, he said something to me that accidentally crossed the line (in a good way LOL) and I could tell his control on his feelings had slipped and he had accidentally bared them to me. It opened my eyes and I was struck by lightning. I haven’t been able to get him off my mind since and he has tried multiple times to get us together to hang out but it’s never worked out. It’s like this simmering but strong attraction. I’m told for him it’s more physical and me it’s more an emotional attachment. We have not had an affair, he hasn’t with anyone that I know about and neither has my husband. Only person is his wife who has actually stepped out.

posted May 02, 2021 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by AmberMoon:
1. Ok, I’ve read a few things saying that your significator is your natal chart ruler. I’m Taurus rising so I thought I was Venus. I’ve heard other things too just not sure what to think or what’s most accurate.
2. Ouch okay. I just don’t understand. Our synastry and composite shows mutual desire, love, infatuation and also good marriage potential. It must just be where he’s at in this stage of his life - not in a place to even consider “us” right now. I’m not feeling well with myself because I’m just SO confused.
3 It’s my understanding that there is not much if any love in their marriage and are hanging on because of money and children. Although she has a roving eye, I haven’t heard the same about him.
4. Okay here’s where it gets hairy. He is my husband’s coworker and friend. When we met, I didn’t think of him as anything more than a friend although he is attractive and sweet. Then, he said something to me that accidentally crossed the line (in a good way LOL) and I could tell his control on his feelings had slipped and he had accidentally bared them to me. It opened my eyes and I was struck by lightning. I haven’t been able to get him off my mind since and he has tried multiple times to get us together to hang out but it’s never worked out. It’s like this simmering but strong attraction. I’m told for him it’s more physical and me it’s more an emotional attachment. We have not had an affair, he hasn’t with anyone that I know about and neither has my husband. Only person is his wife who has actually stepped out.

Does that answer your questions?

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posted May 02, 2021 03:40 PM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
No, when you do a horary chart, you are always the ASC. Yes, you answered my questions. now my question is ¿What do you really want to know with this chart? You have to be very clear. Just if you will tell each other how you feel or if he will drop his marriage and you too for being together? or what is your real intention here. I need you to be the most sincere possible.

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Good question, it got a little drowned out didn’t it! 🤣

My question is if either of us will confess/hint at our feelings when we see each other next. That was the exact question I asked when I made the chart. Is that a simple yes/no answer?

If the answer looks like yes, then I’m wondering if you can tell from the chart who it may be. If it’s no, then it’s no haha.

posted May 03, 2021 01:10 PM            

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Originally posted by AmberMoon:
Good question, it got a little drowned out didn’t it! 🤣

My question is if either of us will confess/hint at our feelings when we see each other next. That was the exact question I asked when I made the chart. Is that a simple yes/no answer?

If the answer looks like yes, then I’m wondering if you can tell from the chart who it may be. If it’s no, then it’s no haha.

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Sorry for my late reply, I need to inform myself before giving you an correct answer. I wasn't sure if he should be consider 7th house but in this case, it should.

Your significator is Mars, his is Venus, again. Mars in his fall and in your 8th house, you are having lots of doubts. Mars in 8th house kind be relative to be a little bit obsesive with the topic and just in pain for some situation or fear in general.

Venus in Taurus rejects to Mars, if you check the dignties I told you about, Venus in Taurus receives in detritment to Mars. Many people will consider it like he rejects - or hates you - but I don't think its like that. Detritment in most of the cases should be doubts, fear, or rejecting his own situation so he is having doubts about you too. It can also mean he knows you arent right for him, and same feeling goes for you and he isn't in the same page. I don't see an applying aspect between them so nothing will happen.

Moon is in Libra, you def have feelings for him, but moon and venus arent making any aspect neither, so nothing will happen.

Venus is Taurus cares about himself, and can feelings about you but without applying aspects nothing will come from it.

I'm pretty sure Mercury is his wife, Mercury in Taurus loves his husband, Although I'm not quite sure of his feelings because isn't mutually receiving to Mercury, but is about to come to her terms (liking her a bit). Conjunction is strong and is Taurus, I don't see them ending in the foreseeable future. Venus then will move to Mercury (her wife). Im pretty sure he is hiding you the situation with her for some reasons. He isn't totally honest and "hiding" from you because of his relationship.

posted May 03, 2021 02:52 PM            

I can't help but feel from the beginning that the things he's telling my husband - like how unhappy and miserable he is in his marriage, how unfaithful and flirtatious his wife has been, etc. - might not be the whole truth. I don't know her side of the story at all. I casted a chart asking if he is being untruthful about the situation. Would you mind taking a look at that? Again, his name is in Taurus and mine is in Cancer.

posted May 03, 2021 06:03 PM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
Amber, please post the chart in the first format you did with the first one. I'm pretty bad with this format haha. You really won't see the difference between one or the other. They always give you the same answer but its easier for me the tradional one. Thank you. I would have done it but I can't see the date, hour and city. Sorry

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No problem! Thanks again!

posted May 04, 2021 02:09 PM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
Hey, the first chart clearly show that their relationship isnt that bad how he have said. He is the 7th in the first chart, he is Venus and the relationship with his wife is also represented here, is Venus, his family and core, is in Mercury (again), 4th house of the 7th. Mercury loves him and the relationship. If we want to see their romance, we can see the 5th house, in this case is Libra, boom, Venus again. Where is Venus? in Taurus, she is strong there and in fixed sign. They are in 12th house, so it shows some doubts, maybe fears, hidding things, but the relationship itself isnt bad.

hTe second chart you sent me. Look where his significator is, is in Saturn, in his 12th house. He isn't being totally honest. Again, you are the Sun, Saturn "rejects" by detritment to the Sun. First chart shows very clearly all the answers.

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What the h3ll???......I just don't understand, I'm so confused. Why would he start incessantly telling my husband about how unhappy he is and how unfaithful his wife is now? He's known the guy for 2 years and he never said anything about it to him. Then after he meets me and accidentally shows his attraction to me, then he starts with the supposedly untrue sob stories? And why would he be doing that, if he's only going to reject me anyway!?! Do you see why I'm confused by this????

posted May 04, 2021 02:16 PM            

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Originally posted by AmberMoon:
What the h3ll???......I just don't understand, I'm so confused. Why would he start incessantly telling my husband about how unhappy he is and how unfaithful his wife is now? He's known the guy for 2 years and he never said anything about it to him. Then after he meets me and accidentally shows his attraction to me, then he starts with the supposedly untrue sob stories? And why would he be doing that, if he's only going to reject me anyway!?! Do you see why I'm confused by this????

Are you good at reading synastry and composite charts as well?? I feel I may need another perspective.

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Venus came from a combustion, so probably it wasn't that good in that time, there was propably a time where things werent good at all.

posted May 04, 2021 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
Venus came from a combustion, so probably it wasn't that good in that time, there was propably a time where things werent good at all.

Sure, post the synastry and the composite, also progressed composite. Natal transits probably is also important. You can post the dates if you like, no names needed, I just like to play with that and see what were doing before, and what is now. If you have her date, we can check things with him. <3

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Interesting....so maybe last summer right after we met was when things were bad between them and when he was telling us all about his bad marriage and trying like heck to get together. But maybe now things are a lot better between them? That's why he would reject me? That makes more sense. Seriously, I just want him to be happy. It made me sad and angry to hear all the things he was going through. Although now I'm not sure how much of it was exaggerated.

Here's our synastry. I'm blue, he's red. Our names are crossed out in light blue. In my chart, my name is conjunct my Venus and his Vertex, and his name is conjunct my Vertex. In his chart, my name is conjunct his Ceres and opposite his name.

This is our composite. Again, names crossed out in light blue, but mine is in 9 degrees Pisces and his is in 13 degrees Scorpio.

As far as progressed composite and transit charts, like now or when we met?