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iheardanoise
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posted September 11, 2021 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iheardanoise     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So my friend and I were playing around with horary charts and she convinced me to ask the question of “will we get married”. I don’t know enough about horary that maybe I should NOT have done this. 🤣🤦‍♀️

However, I do find it INCREDIBLY interesting that the ascendant is to the exact degree and near minute to my natal ascendant in Gemini.

The relationship as a whole has been incredibly transformative and healing for both of us, although definitely not the most easy.

You won’t hurt my feelings by giving it to me straight, so lay it on me… please! 😅

https://imgur.com/a/M4xwFz2

I’d also like to add that neither of us want anymore children, he has 2 and I have 1. Neither of us are also particularly concerned with getting married in general so if it does happen, it would likely just be a courthouse wedding. Nothing big. I feel like those details may perhaps play a role in how this is read.

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Randall
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posted September 12, 2021 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Horary Fairy
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posted September 17, 2021 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Horary Fairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello!

There are no applying aspects and not enough reception between your planets - 1H Mercury, Venus and Moon and his 7H Jupiter and the Sun so I would say no you won't get married. The only aspect that is applying is Moon sextile Sun but it's a bit wide for anything to happen and again little reception.

Hope that helps!

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posted September 17, 2021 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hikaru29
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posted September 27, 2021 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mercury and Jupiter are applying trine with mutual reception (Mercury in Jupiter’s Term and Jupiter in Mercury’s Triplicity).

Moon is weak but applying sextile to Sun with mutual reception. Angles are mutable.

I would say marriage is possible but things can be unpredictable due to the weak Moon and mutable angles.

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maleja.rangel
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posted October 19, 2021 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maleja.rangel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
is this a question you really wanted to know about? or you just were playing around?

I agree with Hikaru, but Moon here is too weak to perform, in cadent house and in via combusta, not good

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iheardanoise
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posted October 20, 2021 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iheardanoise     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
is this a question you really wanted to know about? or you just were playing around?

I agree with Hikaru, but Moon here is too weak to perform, in cadent house and in via combusta, not good


We were “playing” around with other horary charts and she brought up that I should ask this question. 😅 lol. There’s a deep seeded part of me that wanted to know, but I definitely would not have asked this question without the nudge from my friend. 😬

Really, I’d just like to understand the dynamics of our relationship and rather or not it’ll ever really go anywhere to be honest. 🥴🤦‍♀️

I definitely would say Hikarus assessment sounds pretty spot on considering everything else surrounding this connection. Kinda funny, really…. Everything about our synastry and composite pretty much says it could go either way as well.

Thank you all for your replies! I appreciate it.

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maleja.rangel
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posted October 27, 2021 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maleja.rangel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I understand, things like will we ever ... will i ever ... or questions like that, it's something you probably shouldn't ask to the chart, maybe you need to formulate better your question like ¿does this relationship have potential for long term? Jupiter and Mercury will make a trine, and it's a night chart, so he receives you by triplicity, it might not be love but it's strong enough to bring something to conclusion. The moon in via combusta probably show that you were feeling very anxious when asked the question, but here is also cadent, so that isn't a good thing to show something like marriage can come.

How long have you been together? do you have feelings for him? are you together or is he in another city/country? i would like to know more

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iheardanoise
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posted October 29, 2021 11:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iheardanoise     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
I understand, things like will we ever ... will i ever ... or questions like that, it's something you probably shouldn't ask to the chart, maybe you need to formulate better your question like ¿does this relationship have potential for long term? Jupiter and Mercury will make a trine, and it's a night chart, so he receives you by triplicity, it might not be love but it's strong enough to bring something to conclusion. The moon in via combusta probably show that you were feeling very anxious when asked the question, but here is also cadent, so that isn't a good thing to show something like marriage can come.

How long have you been together? do you have feelings for him? are you together or is he in another city/country? i would like to know more


That makes total sense tho honestly. I was anxious. 😅 and I think I immediately regretted asking such a personal question like this. 🤦‍♀️

I’ve still got lots to learn and not really familiar with triplicity yet, could you possibly expand if you don’t mind?

We are not “technically” in a relationship. 🙄🤦‍♀️ Even though we talk on a daily basis, typically spend at least 3-4 days a week together, and are overly involved in one another’s lives, we’re intimate, etc. Anytime I’ve brought up establishment of boundaries and expectations he shuts down though. 🙁 We’ve been seeing each other for about 1.5 years now and yes, I definitely have feelings… and they are STRONG. 😅🥴

Our synastry, composite, and meeting chart are all super intriguing. We have a mystic rectangle in our composite that I’ve been trying to interpret and understand. It seems very karmic and there seems to be a lot of emphasis on the vertex throughout all the charts. It’s been a hell of a ride this far, he certainly challenges the weakest parts of myself to grow and although I doubt he will ever admit it… I believe I do the same for him.

Honestly, I have very realistic expectations that this will never progress more than where things are currently… but I’m an overly optimistic person too. 😅

Regardless, I think I’ve just been having fun learning about astrology and how things have been playing out in comparison to what the charts show. It’s super interesting, that’s forsure! 😁


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