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posted November 10, 2021 09:50 AM            

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Hi guys,
we've separated ten years ago because of circumstances which didn't allow us to be together, however, not only have I never forgot about him, but he has in all the time always inspired my creativity and my life purpose. Now he has moved to my hometown again, with his wife and kid . Of course I don't want to meddle with his family. Also with his being aqua/cap heavy, he will stick to what he has established and in no way show me possible emotions from his side. In fact, if he wants, he can appear exceptionally cold and detached. However, although our synastry/ composite may be difficult, I see and feel a heavy karmic load, at least from my side.
My question is: What do you see? Could he still have feelings for me? Will he share his feelings in the future? When will be the best time to reach out to him again? At them moment we even live in the same street and bump into each other frequently, however, he does not open up. I know he has a bad conscience, because once ago when we were intimate, there were other people involved.

His birth dates: 6.February, 1992, Darmstadt, Germany, 6.30
Mine: 2.May, 1981, Mannheim, Germany, 13.45

Thank you for your help, Jessi ❤️

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posted November 10, 2021 11:15 AM            

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I cast the chart when I read your question: 10 Nov 2021 TZ = -1.0 5.0600 P.M. 20e28 44n49 ASC=6Ge49
So he is Jupiter, you are Mercury and Moon. His ruler Jupiter is in triplicity of Mercury and in face of Moon.
Triplicity means firendship is key word for him: warm and comfortable, but with no grand passion. Face - this dignity is not so much a positive, but is better than nothing, that is minor interest, better than indifference, but not too much.

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posted November 10, 2021 12:18 PM            

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Thank you very much for your answer!
May I ask:
Will I be able to change his feelings again, at least partly, in the future?
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posted November 10, 2021 02:05 PM            

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I just have a question:
when I myself create the chart for the moment I posed the question (12.18) here where I posed it, there is Saturn for the 1st house und Cancer for the 7th. Saturn and Moon are both placed in the 1st house in conjunction (orb 3) in Aquarius, Saturn following the moon.
So this would be a good sign, wouldn't it?

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posted November 10, 2021 02:15 PM            

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I have one more question:

when I create the chart for the time and place I've asked the question (12.18), there is AC Cap/ DC Cancer and Saturn/Moon in conjunction (3degree) in the 1st house in aqua (Saturn following the moon). This would be promising, wouldn't it?

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posted November 11, 2021 01:55 AM            

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Just check out if Moon before conjunct Saturn has no other aspect, to me it seams Moon first aspect Mercury and Mars before conjunct Saturn and that would be No answer.

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posted November 11, 2021 07:43 AM            

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Thank you Goca

You are right, it is moon (7.08), mercury (7.12), mars (7.18) and Saturn (7.38).
However, moon is the fastest planet and is still going toward Saturn? Could that mean us getting closer in the future/ him approaching towards me?
Who could mercury (ruler of 8/5 and 6) and mars (ruler of 3 in domicile) closely conjunct in scorpio square moon (7 house ruler=he (and myself??) and square Saturn (1st house ruler= me) represent?

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posted November 11, 2021 07:48 AM            

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Thank you Goca!

You are right, the first aspect is moon (7.02=him) square mercury (7.09)/ mars (7.12), then comes the conjunction with Saturn (7.39= 1st house ruler/me).
However, moon is the fastest planet and will finally conjunct Saturn exactly, could that mean us getting closer again/ him turning towards me in some future time?
What could mercury (5/6/8. house ruler) and mars (3 house ruler, in domicile) closely conjunct in scorpio in the 9th square the moon (= him/ and also me?) represent?

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posted November 11, 2021 11:42 AM            

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Hey
before you answer, I messed it up with "my" chart 😔 The one with the Saturn/cancer axis. Somehow I saw "12.19" for the time I posed the question, but it was in fact 9.50. Thank you again for your response. Is it too bad a sign what you saw (triplicity and face), could it signify I still mean something to him and he ist just focussed on something else?
Jessi

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posted November 12, 2021 02:21 PM            

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You’re 40 and you’re interested in someone my age (29)? You last dated him 10 years ago when he was 19 and you were 29? That is gross.

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posted November 12, 2021 09:08 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
You’re 40 and you’re interested in someone my age (29)? You last dated him 10 years ago when he was 19 and you were 29? That is gross.

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I know, right?

She states:

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Now he has moved to my hometown again, with his wife and kid . Of course I don't want to meddle with his family.

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But she is asking about:

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Will I be able to change his feelings again, at least partly, in the future?

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In other words: instead of getting therapy, I am going to be a predator again and seduce/break this man’s family.

Had it been the other way around, she a man and the younger adult, a woman, I highly doubt this thread would be around.

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posted November 13, 2021 02:09 AM            

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Hey No, I will definitely NOT intrude in his family. The question of him having feelings for me in the future is or was just one of sentimentality. So a state of feeling I am or was just having and expressing..
I have my own life, the thing with him has always simmered in the background and more to do with my inner growth which is my I've stick so long to it internally. No that he has moved here again, of course, this feeling has broken out from down there inside of me to the surface and I just wanted to know.
Age difference, I think, guys, is in this case completely up to us (since we had then both been adult), as would be a case of being gay, transgender, whatever.

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posted November 13, 2021 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
You’re 40 and you’re interested in someone my age (29)? You last dated him 10 years ago when he was 19 and you were 29? That is gross.

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That’s discrimination. When many men date younger women, it’s is all over and social acceptable. It’s legal.

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posted November 14, 2021 02:55 AM            

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Thank you

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posted November 17, 2021 06:17 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
You’re 40 and you’re interested in someone my age (29)? You last dated him 10 years ago when he was 19 and you were 29? That is gross.

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You're supposed to judge the question not the person. Just because you have a limited belief system there is no need to impose it on anyone else.

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posted November 17, 2021 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by chocogold:
In other words: instead of getting therapy, I am going to be a predator again and seduce/break this man’s family.

Had it been the other way around, she a man and the younger adult, a woman, I highly doubt this thread would be around.

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Jeez you people! My husband's parents had a 20 year age gap and were married for over 45 years before he died aged 87. Love has no age barrier and if you ever really fall in love you will find out it has no boundaries whatsoever - so get over yourselves!

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posted November 18, 2021 09:15 AM            

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hey horaryfairy,

I've seen other posts from you, you are always so positive and "you can reach everything if you really want to".
Saggie moon?😉

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posted November 18, 2021 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by elise11:
hey horaryfairy,

I've seen other posts from you, you are always so positive and "you can reach everything if you really want to".
Saggie moon?😉

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Lol Thank you! I believe you can achieve anything no matter what it is. Everything is down to how you think - what you believe to be true will be, it's as simple as that but people like to make excuses and have someone else to blame rather than look at themselves.

I'm a Pisces moon.

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posted November 18, 2021 02:23 PM            

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Oh, wow. Well, so is HE
(Me: Aries! I have to aact!!!)

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