posted June 20, 2023 05:57 AM            

my sig Mercury next applying aspect is sextile to Mars 1.7°

the cafe my crush works at is in my neighborhood (Mars rules my 3rd House of short journeys; 5 min walk from my house)

mars rules the 2nd House from 7th, placed in his turned fifth. his resources (coffee)

1.7 days (mutuble/angular) is 41 hours from now, so assuming the answer to this horary is I should go to the café this Thursday.

i am not anticipating that either of would to “come forward” directly to each other now, hence there being no aspects between sigs, rather, i prefer to tease out this crush energy.. by simply continuing to occasionally hang out at the cafe, unassumingly.

it’s curious to see my sig in his 4H. perhaps i’ve been on his mind. 4H is the heart/emotional core. regarding this question, me in my own 10H, to be in the public eye—being a prominent “character” around our neighborhood. i do walk around enough (especially past this cafe)

his sig Jupiter, in the decan of Mercury, in my 9H, he’s a different culture than me. he’s from france, i’m from north america

Venus conjuncts Mars in 4.8 units. maybe he’ll actually ask me out (exchange phone numbers) in like November lol

my coolheaded crush on him (5R Saturn) is hidden from him. whereas he becomes clumsy and dumbstruck whenever i stop by, he drops trays, trips on the ground and gets tongue tied. it’s been cute to notice and exciting to experience… but i’m not very receptive to this style of behavior. i can see why my own 5R of romance is in the sign of my debilitation (also under his lordship)—i literally don’t know what to do with it. 6H, kind of troubling.

my tarot had said, well before i even casted a horary today, that it’s possible he has a toxic relationship that he is needing to decide to let go off (tower+justice over and over). Saturn in his Pisces lordship in my 6H. also has been a reason i’m will not be making any sudden moves; its just not the time to act-on this attraction between us—simply enjoy the crush for what it is: a cappuccino with a side of butterflies.

when i ask the tarot when would he hypothetically be completely single; baggage-free: available. 5 of Pentacles, five months from now, interesting, the same 4.8 unit mark of November

his sig Jup just separated 0.1° from that Saturn Rx. it was a mutual-application aspect. interesting, i wonder what he QUESITED “did” to my 5R. (besides turning me onto him very recently)

0.15 unit of 1 month = 4.5 days ago. Dang. That’s exactly last Thursday, last time I went to the cafe. excellent that this confirms he was crushing on me (literally aspecting 5R) that day, because shiiiit i felt it.

— this question, “when should i go to see him next?”, the Moon is in Cancer 11H (his 5H), exalts his Sig, and sits in the decan of Moon. i gather he (7th Ruler) hypothetically really likes (“invigorated by the presence of a planet in his exaltation”) this crush question… about coming by again.

posted June 21, 2023 09:21 AM            

I can’t see anything in this chart and without aspects it doesn’t give a ‘will?’ or a ‘when?’

posted June 21, 2023 11:41 AM            

the reason i casted this horary is because i had randomly asked my girlfriend this over the phone, and after musing, we “decided” Thursday seems like good day to actuallt stop-in, rather than just walk by, which i do often for the market. i saw him in the distance today, looking back at me; god… he looked so hot just standing there idly in all black on a sunny morning.

later i casted this horary to see what the chart said, to exercise my horary eye a bit. found it interesting to see the 1.7° unit there since i had already decided on Thursday before casting the chart.

6H is not cafés, unless you’re talking about coffee enemas. 😂 idk about where you are, but here in europe, row after row of cafes line every neighorhood street (especially in spring), and the streets themselves becomes a neighborly social spot for people-watching, reading, etc. everyone is served outside. there’s even old phonebooths that have been retrofitted into free public libraries, at each corner or so.

posted June 21, 2023 12:30 PM            

you’ve now inspired me to consider coffee enemas as a potential kink with this barista. cafés as 8H matters. 😏 i have wondered whether he’s a virgo…

jokes aside.. all that talk about the Venus-Mars transit dance means they will be applying-conjunct 1° in my 2024 Solar Return. nice !

«These are the kinds of horaries you have complete control over so just go to the café! » i dont have complete control over my feelings 😉 i cast horary to check myself

lol you’ve never? cast a horary and only to see a Scorpio moon (via combusta), and then thought twice about your reasons?

i frankly enjoy looking which houses/signs the sigs and moon fall into when any question comes to mind

posted June 22, 2023 05:47 AM            

i went and had a coffee. Ascendent Lord aspecting 3rd Ruler

He wasn’t there: no applying aspects involving Jupiter