posted December 21, 2020 02:33 PM            

This isn't new however. I always seem to be slower about these things that everyone else around me. For example , I didn't date until my early 20's and most of my attempts at that never went anywhere.

I've been voluntarily single since 2017. So that's four years going on the fifth and honestly I'm getting anxious about it. I used not to care at all, focus on furthering my career and higher education (PhD) but I do feel like I'm missing something and it's depressing me.

I tried flings, mingling and meeting other people but it went nowhere and at this point ,I stopped looking all together.

So what's wrong, astrologically? Am I going to be single forever?

I've attached my basic Verdic chart using Astrodient.com
I would be grateful to anyone who spares it a glance.

posted December 21, 2020 05:58 PM            

It's true that you can know the degree and sign of your Vedic placements using a Sidereal Chart wheel... What you're asking for by taking a look at this wheel would not be Vedic astrology, but Sidereal Astrology.

The Vedic charts look like little squares (or diamonds) in a rectangular chart formation. Vedic Astrology uses multiple charts (Divisional) to compare with your main chart {rasi, Lagna} to form an answer to your question.

Each planet, in the various divisional charts, have strengths and weaknesses. Also, the Vedics break apart a person's life into phases and Time Periods, where certain planets dominate or types of areas are highlighted during those chunks of years. Called 'dasas'.

There are some dasa periods that may bring you closer to finding a partner.

{I'm a beginner at this. sorry.}

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Congrats on your working towards achieving a PhD. Another 3 or 4 years to go? Which field?

Being in university {especially if you are taking full-time load each semester} is a full-time responsibility.

I was aware of how some people started feeling nervous that 'this is their last chance' to meet someone, to marry and have babies, as they approached ~2nd semester Junior year. It was like 'the pressure's ON'! .. And you need to think about applying to jobs, etc.

posted December 21, 2020 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
Hi SilverFeather

It's true that you can know the degree and sign of your Vedic placements using a Sidereal Chart wheel... What you're asking for by taking a look at this wheel would not be Vedic astrology, but Sidereal Astrology.

The Vedic charts look like little squares (or diamonds) in a rectangular chart formation. Vedic Astrology uses multiple charts (Divisional) to compare with your main chart {rasi, Lagna} to form an answer to your question.

Each planet, in the various divisional charts, have strengths and weaknesses. Also, the Vedics break apart a person's life into phases and Time Periods, where certain planets dominate or types of areas are highlighted during those chunks of years. Called 'dasas'.

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Thank you. Is this correct ?

posted December 23, 2020 07:04 PM            

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Originally posted by freakout:
Your Saturn is placed in the 7th house - this is the main reason of delays in relationships this will change when You will turn 30 - after first Saturn return

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posted December 23, 2020 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by freakout:
Your Saturn is placed in the 7th house - this is the main reason of delays in relationships this will change when You will turn 30 - after first Saturn return

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