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posted March 10, 2003 11:55 AM         

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Hi everyone!
Well I am a capricorn female, Jan 3 , 1981 and I am a college senior at a well known university here in America. Anyway, lately I have been stressing about my taurus boyfriend and us and his female friend instead of really concentrating on school work. I am a bit scared of law school because many people said that it will take over my whole life and may affect my relationship. I am very scared and wanted to know if there's anything in my birthday that warns me about it? Lately I have been very confused Thank you, Melissa

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posted March 10, 2003 12:12 PM         

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Cappies make great lawyers. Whether or not it affects your relationships is entirely up to you and them.

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posted March 11, 2003 01:36 PM         

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Would you be moving a distance away to attend?

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posted March 12, 2003 02:41 PM         

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No Randall, I wont. But he feels inferior to my field and career and he says (in so many words) that he is not at my level. This is truly starting to affect the relationship.

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posted March 12, 2003 06:11 PM         

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Hi!
Guys always need to feel either one step above or atleast in the same level to the woman that they love, thats just guys don't worry, you can encourage him to go for a better career so that he could feel better about himself.If he loves you he will
If he doesn't then just think that if your relationship is breaking becuase you chose a career or in other words a better life then I guess it was meant to break.
You are just in your senior year you have a whole life in front of you don't give up your career, down the road you will not regret.You can always find love for you are a beautiful person

Just a thought
Nikky

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posted March 14, 2003 12:04 PM         

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Trinity,

if he loves you he'll stand by you, even if you choose another planet as a place of your study.
If law is your LOL, go for it! An if he's your LOL and you are his, he'll agree and support your desire to improve your life and let it flow in directions you choose!

I wish you all the happiness!

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posted March 15, 2003 06:16 AM         

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Great advice guys.

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posted March 16, 2003 12:18 PM         

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Keep us updated!

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posted March 18, 2003 07:23 PM         

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Thank you so much for your advice..everyone!

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posted March 18, 2003 07:31 PM         

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Hi Everyone!
Well, to be honest, this whole mess was really affecting my self esteem and causing me to question (for the first time) my future. After reading your responses, I felt a lot better and decided that I am going to persue corporate law regardless of what anyone thinks. I changed my attitude and praised him on his career while reminding him that I am going to go straight to law school with or without his support. I said "No man is ever going to stand in my way!" When I said that, he cried. We decided to stay together , but now I am more concerned about myself and my own future above anything else. Plus ...I figure...love shouldnt be that hard ...you know? Gosh...I'va always loved Linda Goodman and I am so thankful that I found this wonderful website with loving people Trinity

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posted March 19, 2003 06:01 AM         

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Trinity, sorry, but I had to laugh when you said to your boyfriend that no man would stand in your way!

You two can still stay together, no matter which school you choose!

I thing you're taking it all too tragical, and if this physical distance make emotional distance even bigger, be sure the Universe is making the best for both of you.
It will end if it has to end, and it will go on if it has to go on!
Just, please, be smart! One thing doesn't necessarily have to excluce the other!

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posted March 19, 2003 07:48 PM         

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Trinity I support you with your difficult decision. Just remember, had you not done it for him, you may have always resented him for that, not fair to the both of you. I recently had to make a very hard decision. One thing that pushed me was I decided to stop fantasizing and just do what I wanted. I am learning so much about life. More power to you! Go get the corporate law

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posted March 20, 2003 10:26 AM         

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