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Astrid Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Aug 2003	posted July 27, 2004 01:08 AM I need help in understanding my son's natal aspects, his strengths and weaknesses. Also, any transits that are making his life a living hell right now. This soul just turned 6. He's a very bright, precocious lil man. But he's seen alot and is VERRYYY intense. His daddy is borderline/narssisistic, and has spent the better part of the last 2 years in jail or work release. My son is VVVEERRRYY angry that his dad can't see him, and he's acting out in all sorts of ways. I feel for him, I've been practically a saint putting up with him. all my friends say he needs medication, I say he needs meditation. My fear is. . . that if my son doesn't learn how to control his anger (and I'm not saying repress it, he's got every reason to be angry), well, my fear is that he will self medicate when he's an adult, or sooner. His dad, I believe, has some undiagnosed mental illness, and is in denial about it, and is extremely verbally abusive (to me). He self medicates with all sorts of things, especially since our divorce over 3 years ago. I don't know too much about astrology, and that is why I'm writing. I'm laid back, for the most part. Easy to be with. My son is getting me to a breaking point. He's got Mars/Sun and Asc/Pluto, opposing each other. And an Aries moon. OY! This little person is FULL of power, and I just do NOT want it to implode on him. He's been raging at me, in fact, quite abusive! I am at my wits end! I want him to have every chance to channel that power to something really great, as I'm sure he has the potential. I am no astrologer, but my hunch is this power could also cause him to act out or self destruct, too. Or even hurt someone else. Not the least, me, once he's big enough to. I would be EVER so grateful if any astrologer could give me some words of wisdom. I need to be cognizant of what he's made up of, natally, and what I may have to watch out for. Thank you for listening!! Thank you thank you. Here's his info: Planetary positions planet sign degree house motion Sun Gemini 27°30'30 07 direct Moon Aries 17°46'42 04 direct Mercury Cancer 07°51'58 07/8 direct Mercury is technically near the end of house 7 and is interpreted in house 8. Venus Taurus 23°26'21 06 direct Mars Gemini 18°06'17 07 direct Jupiter Pisces 26°43'21 04 direct Saturn Taurus 00°54'26 05 direct Uranus Aquarius 12°19'59 02 retrograde Neptune Aquarius 01°38'45 02 retrograde Pluto Sagittarius 06°07'03 01 retrograde True Node Virgo 03°53'36 09 retrograde House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Sagittarius 05°38'39 2nd House Capricorn 08°29'36 3rd House Aquarius 17°16'43 Imum Coeli Pisces 24°14'13 5th House Aries 23°37'08 6th House Taurus 16°26'56 Descendant Gemini 05°38'39 8th House Cancer 08°29'36 9th House Leo 17°16'43 Medium Coeli Virgo 24°14'13 11th House Libra 23°37'08 12th House Scorpio 16°26'56 IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 18503 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000	posted July 28, 2004 02:04 PM ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 18503 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000	posted July 31, 2004 06:53 AM He's acting out his anger and needs a more creative release. ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
lalalinda Knowflake Posts: 606 From: nevada Registered: Feb 2004	posted July 31, 2004 04:50 PM Astrid, You have your work cut out for you. I wish you a mothers good luck. I have a child with anger management problems, and normal punishments just don't work in his case. If I send him to his room he'll just start destroying it etc. What I have found that works is sentences. I give him 1 page, (about 25 sentences) They have to be legible and not one word down the page at a time. If I have to I will stand there. I don't get upset and remain firm. If he gets mad and tears the paper up he starts over and this time the back side also. By the time he finishes (about an hour) he has calmed down and I try and discuss the problem with him. I just never give up.And he knows this. Its not easy raising kids on your own or with thier fathers away. It does things to them. But as mothers we can turn this into a positive and raise little men we are proud of. If your son is 6 and doesn't write yet maybe you can make him draw you whatever it is that has him frustrated?? IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 18503 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000	posted August 01, 2004 03:55 PM ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 18503 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000	posted August 15, 2004 02:05 PM Any updates? ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 18503 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000	posted August 22, 2004 11:20 AM bump ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
LibraSparkle Moderator Posts: 1306 From: Vancouver USA Registered: May 2004	posted August 24, 2004 12:00 AM My kids don't have anger control issues, but sentences work great for them too. I usually try to think of positive phrasing for the sentences. Like, instead of: I shouldn't hit my sister. I would have them write: I should use my words instead of my fists. Kinda like telling them to "Remember blah blah blah" instead of "Don't forget blah blah blah" IP: Logged
DeenSam Knowflake Posts: 3 From: Gardiner, Me. U.S. Registered: Jul 2004	posted August 24, 2004 01:25 AM Dear Astrid, I am new to this place, but I could not help but reply. I have been studing astrology for around 11 years. I am an aries sun, gemini rising, and cancer moon. I would say, exercise, calming herbs at night, and communication. I had rage issues as well. Catnip is good as is homopathic calm pills for children. But get him into competitive sports. It worked for me. I have aspects with my sun and mars as well. Good luck. My prayers with you. and remember, don't forget discipline, discipline, discipline and follow through. P.S. I don't spank Light and Love, Dee IP: Logged

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