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Topic: Pisces-mooners working together
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moonshine
Knowflake Posts: 389
From: UK
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted May 27, 2005 06:16 PM
 
Hmm.... not sure about this. A colleague & i both have pisces moons and whenever we have the slightest disagreement, it causes upset that lasts for hours. Neither of us say anything - my colleague tends to sulk when she's upset (she's younger than me) while I tend to give the cold shoulder on the surface but inside I'm literally stewing for hours. (I am older and also her boss) i think we can both sense when the other is p*ssed off but tend to not approach matters head on. I personally cannot make myself react out loud as I am her boss and will probably make any situation worse by doing so. But my tendency to give the cold shoulder is probly not good either... I dont want to appear a cow, but Im clearly not v. good at handling conflict situations! The pisces moon is pretty much the only thing we have in common....how much is it contributing to this, does anyone know? Also has anyone else experienced similar? (BTW I am virgo sun, cancer asc, and she is Scorp sun, leo asc,if that helps) IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 1096
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 28, 2005 09:30 AM
Hi there Moonshine,you said "I am not very good at handling conflict situations". One of the loveliest people I have every known is pisces moon with scorp sun (like your friend). He never gets involved in conflicts - he is what I would call a real "soother". When we are in the pub (he is my mysic teacher) and if anything happens, like some difference of opinion etc, he never gets involved. I said to him last week "where you in the same room as me or what" and he laughed. I would speak out and assert myself (taurus moon), but he never does - I actually think with his placements he would be very intuitive, but chooses not to react - I hope that helps - love and peace Sue xxIP: Logged |
wildflwrs
Knowflake Posts: 312
From: Albuquerque
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted May 29, 2005 04:36 PM
I have a Pisces Moon and a Scorpio Sun. You both are probably just so sensitive to each other--emotionally and psychically. Scorpios are very touchy about power plays or power issues. If you're her boss maybe there are patterns established between you that relate to something of a power struggle. (Scorpio probably wants to be boss--hah hah hah.) Anyway....I tend to distance myself from a person when I get my feelings hurt and I'm a sulker--but I usually go home and do that on my own time and keep up appearances in front of others. Giving the cold shoulder is just your way of distancing yourself and sending a message that might be difficult to convey verbally. Maybe you could get to the point of letting it roll off like water off a duck's back....and keep the focus primarily on the business at hand. It's hard to not let personal feelings get in the way of the business at hand--but its worth striving for.
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DayDreamer
Knowflake Posts: 571
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Registered: Jul 2003
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posted May 29, 2005 10:03 PM
I agree with you guys...I've got a Pisces Moon too and I'm way too sensitive to my environment than I'd like to be. I give people the cold shoulder or act like I dont' know what's going on as well. I guess it's a way to protect myself from feeling anything negative that may come out of the situation.IP: Logged |
moonshine
Knowflake Posts: 389
From: UK
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted May 31, 2005 06:43 PM
Hi Sue g, wldflwrs, Daydreamer  I relate to what all of you are saying. "I actually think with his placements he would be very intuitive, but chooses not to react" yes I can be like that as well. In fact my colleague (the same scorp) says that about me - that I come across as shy, or not quite "with it" but in fact I am "choosy" whether to react or not. She's right too (damn intuitive Scorp that she is) I do put on an act sometimes. I AM shy though! Strangely for a Scorp, she is a total open book - everything is there on the surface, all her thoughts, opinions, feelings, life history etc, while I am the total opposite. Its nice but sometimes a bit smothering! I dont get involved in situations, not becuase I can ride over things but because I let things get to me too much and fear I would not be able to control myself - esp when angry. I do not like myself when I'm angry!! wldflwrs: she and I do clash and there is most defintely a power struggle there! That was how the whole tension between us started. I think our pisces moons do clash and can for the most part be the cause why our struggles last too long - we're probably too similar under the surface Daydreamer: "I've got a Pisces Moon too and I'm way too sensitive to my environment than I'd like to be. I give people the cold shoulder or act like I dont' know what's going on as well. I guess it's a way to protect myself from feeling anything negative that may come out of the situation." Daydreamer I relate to everything you said!
Btw: I'm not obsessed with this person! We sit together at work and more and more frequently she makes me feel insecure about my abilites thats all.. I dont know if she's doing it on purpose, but its working. :/
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wildflwrs
Knowflake Posts: 312
From: Albuquerque
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted June 05, 2005 01:32 AM
I was in a meditation group with 2 other Piscean Moons....we got along fine....but then when I was in a period of transition the one let me stay with her for about a month. I kicked in money for rent....but living under the same roof even for that short of time kind of ruined the friendship.
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geminstone
Knowflake Posts: 294
From: Golden, CO
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted June 07, 2005 01:08 PM
... hehehe, ... Moonshine, you perfectly described myself and my hubby... we reflect both the cold shoulder and, sulking. I have, however, been given the medal with regard to the cold shoulder,... he awarded it to me after he tried to give it back but, folded after days had passed... I have Scorpio Rising and his North Node is conjunct, exact degree. We both have the Moon at 26*Pisces, 4th House.... In as much as I can hate him, I could not find Love in any other... he is my home, my whole.~ geminstone IP: Logged |
DayDreamer
Knowflake Posts: 571
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Registered: Jul 2003
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posted June 08, 2005 12:10 AM
Hey what degree is everyone's moon at?I have my Pisces moon at 15 degrees (11th house) IP: Logged |
moonshine
Knowflake Posts: 389
From: UK
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted June 09, 2005 06:46 PM
mine's at 21° (9th house)IP: Logged |
wildflwrs
Knowflake Posts: 312
From: Albuquerque
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted June 12, 2005 03:11 PM
Mine is at 2 degrees....I have the North Node in Pisces too at 7 degrees.IP: Logged |
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