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posted September 24, 2005 05:32 AM         

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Alright I am going to change my job and I have been planning this from soooooooooooooo long that I have lost my patience. Seeing job ads,taking interview and so on.It goes on and on.Ultimately I am where I should be and I should be starting my work soon but only thing is left is I have to sign a contract with the Boss. Since boss is out of town I have to wait for 2 more days till we sign the contract and start working. Normally I sign the contract as soon as I reach the destination where I am going to work but I have been in the new place for almost 4 days and I have not sign the contract.

I am getting so desperate and there is no peace of mind that atleast I am at right place and at right time. I am getting afraid of loosing this.Insecurity and Uncertainity is making me crazy.

At the same time I have another options but I want to stay here as it's good opportunity but I don't want to be here too because I don't want to miss the other opportunities and I find people around to be not -so friendly.

Other than that I thought that my senior in HR department is Taurean but it turns out he is Libra.I have no idea of the main boss.

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posted September 24, 2005 02:11 PM         

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logical answer would be , be where u are but instinct might be different as u already have the feeling that colleagues are difficult .

i have been in your position , i have gone for the second option but its real difficult in such a situation . so , better think if u can cope .
on second thoughts , with the same designation and salary and probably (u atleast have a benefit of doubt ) good colleagues , there isn't anything wrong to go for the job offer that u have .

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posted September 25, 2005 02:08 AM         

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CG : You just said what confusion I have

Actually the other job offer is from my old Employer where I was working lastr to last year but only problem is that now they aren't offering the same perks like before so I think it's kinda insult for all the
hard work I did before.

This place where I am about to work I just feel too lonely. I am new and all.Anyways I am hoping everything to be alright by tomorrow.

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posted September 25, 2005 02:56 AM         

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Awww...I hope things get better for you. I'm sure they will.

Nice to see you here.

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posted September 25, 2005 12:59 PM         

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dont go for the offer . once u show someone that u can be used , they'll try it again . so ask them if they can give u more if not better be at the new one u atleats have a chance of growth here . dont u?

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posted September 26, 2005 09:46 AM         

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ah, one more point that needs a consideration , whetther u are looking for growth or stability .

the offer would give u stability and may be very late growth but the new job might not give stability ( as the colleagues are not very likeable ) but it might give u growth .

indeed , qa very difficult situation .
a cancer would have gone by his heart , i can't say about u.

hope the advices weren't boring . even if it wasn't i wont stop

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posted September 26, 2005 11:09 AM         

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Ag: Thanks! They did.

Cg: I am cool with all the advices I am getting from my cancer friends.Today I got a big sermon from my new cancer colleague on how to be in that place,about feelings and so on.I am like I know but..you know sometimes to get everything perfect is so difficult.Adapting to enviornment is what humans are made for.

Ultimately I signed contract and started working today and I am looking forward to be here. Actually presently it seems both something which would give stability and growth because I was already there and wouldn't like to go to my old Employer.
Ofcourse there is this little feeling of being new and all.Crossing my fingures and hoping everything goes well till I get used to here.

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posted September 26, 2005 11:40 PM         

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Do you have any 2nd house planets, Freebird?

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posted September 27, 2005 11:24 AM         

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i dont have any but what does that imply?

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posted September 28, 2005 12:58 AM         

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2nd House placements generally indicate a greater need for financial security. I don't have any either. SG has a few, and she's financially secure. One of my friends has a few and he is the first of my friends to buy a house (they're VERY expensive here).

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posted September 28, 2005 12:08 PM         

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but then i had my own house . bought from my own money . no help .
but then something happened and i lost everything .
though i lost everything that i had collected in the last six years ( i lost everything around that time too , so its the second time actually) but i am not really bothered b'cos i know i have the ability to make money ,the first experience taught me this and second one made me realize i can do it again too , not bothered if it all goes wrong again .

and i am living in one the costliest city here so i can understand .

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posted September 28, 2005 09:44 PM         

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I don't think people with 2nd house placements would be prone to loss like that. Actually, your description of what happened sounds very much like an Aries.

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posted September 29, 2005 01:33 AM         

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My 2nd house capricorn.Anything else would say need of the financial security.

CG : Just wondering are you into gambling or what ???? ...smiles.Why so much losing and gaining ?

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posted September 29, 2005 09:03 AM         

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That means ,all ok on the finanacial front.

yeah , actually i got inspired after i saw ' the great gambler'.

ag: how does it lokk like more of aries ? what does that mean ? how has been your financial scene .

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posted September 30, 2005 01:15 AM         

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I'm terrible financially. I think it's because I haven't fully given in to my creative energies. I need to market my creativity in some way I think. The other road to success for me may be humanitarian work, which I feel is another area I need to explore further.

Cancers are typically VERY into security, and not generally gamblers. Aries are natural gamblers.

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posted September 30, 2005 10:46 AM         

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we can talk about these aspects ,if u feel like .

would u need suggestions ?

btw, i am not the gambler -aries sort , i take more of a calculated risks but yeah i am more open to risks than the normal cancers .

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posted September 30, 2005 12:02 PM         

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We could talk about it, but I'm not sure if it will really do anything. I feel like it's just something I'm going to have to figure out for myself.

I've been seeing a lot lately in Astrology and numerology that suggests I'd be successful as an artist, so I think I need to discover an art I can market. It's true that I play music, but something tells me that music isn't a good place for me to start.

I've also been trying to figure out an entrepreneurial enterprise I can start. I've got a couple ideas.

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posted October 01, 2005 11:56 AM         

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when ever u feel like . i am there .

what are u looking for - money or fame ?

you got to figure that out .

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posted October 02, 2005 09:15 PM         

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"There is no use trying," said Alice; "one can't believe impossible things." "I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast." Lewis Carroll

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posted October 03, 2005 02:20 PM         

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Ah, RANDALL, i always wanted to thank u but never did . thank u so much for creating sucha beautiful place for all of us to come togetther and get to know such wonder ful people. thanks ( thats straight from the heart )

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posted October 03, 2005 11:38 PM         

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I like money and fame, but as soon as I had either I'd probably be mostly private.

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posted October 04, 2005 08:08 AM         

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You're welcome, cancerrg.

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posted October 04, 2005 01:11 PM         

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what do u mean by 'i would probably go private'?

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posted October 04, 2005 05:34 PM         

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I mean that I'd like the fame, but would get sick of it quickly and probably hide out.

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