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Topic: Lessons on Raising Boys
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proxieme Knowflake Posts: 5671 From: Southern 'Bama Registered: Aug 2002
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posted November 01, 2005 03:30 PM
My father-in-law sent this to us:The following came from an anonymous Mother in Austin, Texas... Things I've learned from my Boys (honest and not kidding): 1.) A king size waterbed holds enough water to fill a 2000 sq. ft. house 4 inches deep. 2.) If you spray hair spray on dust bunnies and run over them with roller blades, they can ignite. 3.) A 3-year old Boy's voice is louder than 200 adults in a crowded restaurant. 4.) If you hook a dog leash over a ceiling fan, the motor is not strong enough to rotate a 42 pound Boy wearing Batman underwear and a Superman cape. It is strong enough, however, if tied to a paint can, to spread paint on all four walls of a 20x20 ft. room. 5.) You should not throw baseballs up when the ceiling fan is on. When using a ceiling fan as a bat, you have to throw the ball up a few times before you get a hit. A ceiling fan can hit a baseball a long way. 6.) The glass in windows (even double-pane) doesn't stop a baseball hit by a ceiling fan. 7.) When you hear the toilet flush and the words "uh oh", it's already too late 8.) A six-year old Boy can start a fire with a flint rock even though a36-year old man says they can only do it in the movies. 9.) Certain Lego's will pass through the digestive tract of a 4-year old Boy. 10.) Play dough and microwave should not be used in the same sentence. 11.) Super glue is forever. 12.) No matter how much Jell-O you put in a swimming pool you still can't walk on water. 13.) Pool filters do not like Jell-O. 14.) VCR's do not eject "PB &J" sandwiches even though TV commercials show they do. 15.) Garbage bags do not make good parachutes. 16.) Marbles in gas tanks make lots of noise when driving. 17.) You probably DO NOT want to know what that odor is. 18.) Always look in the oven before you turn it on; plastic toys do not like ovens. 19.) The fire department in Austin, TX has a 5-minute response time. 20.) The spin cycle on the washing machine does not make earthworms dizzy. 21.) It will, however, make cats dizzy. 22.) Cats throw up twice their body weight when dizzy. Those who pass this on to almost all of their friends, with or without boys do it because: a) For those with no children - this is totally hysterical! b) For those who already have children past this age, this is hilarious. c) For those who have children this age, this is not funny. d) For those who have children nearing this age, this is a warning. e) For those who have not yet had children, this is birth control
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Svetlana Knowflake Posts: 254 From: USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 02, 2005 08:05 AM
What is this mother doing while her son endangering his own and others lifes? Writing funny stories on the computer to send to others? ------------------ Watch me! I have many skills. IP: Logged |
proxieme Knowflake Posts: 5671 From: Southern 'Bama Registered: Aug 2002
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posted November 02, 2005 09:15 AM
...Do you have children???It would be impossible (and unwise for the mental health of all involved) to glue oneself to the sides of three boys. IP: Logged |
Svetlana Knowflake Posts: 254 From: USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 02, 2005 11:54 AM
I do have children. It's just as a mother and a teacher I see some parents too involved in their own world and not enough in their children's. But I do agree on been "glued" to one's children - not healthy ------------------ Watch me! I have many skills.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 3177 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted November 02, 2005 05:56 PM
quote: What is this mother doing while her son endangering his own and others lifes? Writing funny stories on the computer to send to others?
I think some people shouldn't flex their opinions on funny emails. I mean really... write a letter to the editor if you have so much to say.This was funny and entertaining. Some people's children are more energetic than others. If you were my friend I wouldn't ever visit you so you could judge me as a 'teacher and mother'..... Get over yourself or more forgiving of the small stuff. Or possibly take up that job as a judge you would probably love. We can watch your many skills at slander. If you were my kids teacher, I would transefer him/her for fear that he might spill his soup on his shirt and that you'd condemn me for it. Pardon me for making you a poster child, but I cannot stand flippant judgements. With no grounding. My possibly rude twenty five cents. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4767 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted November 02, 2005 06:36 PM
Those were funny. Boys are fun. My best friend growing up had only two brothers, and my honest opinion is that boys make a mother fun. I've never seen a mother of all boys that wasn't fun. IP: Logged |
Svetlana Knowflake Posts: 254 From: USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 02, 2005 06:52 PM
Hi pixelpixie! Thank you so much for your rude remarks! I'm flexing my "courage" muscle in posting some stuff that might ruffle some feathers. And for the first time in my life somebody called me that (judgemental I mean)! And I'm still alive, even though I'm shaking and my heart is pounding like crazy. Of course I get it that it was funny e-mail and I chuckled about the waterbed stuff and baseball and the toilet flushing.Kudos to the mother who can have a sense of humor about it. But the child hanging himself to a ceiling fan, sorry,not funny. And that's the one that got to me.------------------ Watch me! I have many skills. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 3177 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted November 02, 2005 08:10 PM
Glad you flexed those courage muscles.I think the ceiling fan thing is to be taken with a grain of salt. Cringeworthy indeed. I wanted to say something, and I said it rudely.. I tried not to say it too rudely.. but anyway, no harm done here. I just think there is a middle ground, and all types of parents.. fun ones, permissive ones, strict ones, regular ones... and all sorts of kids. I am a middle of the road one, and at some point you have to ask yourself.. Do my kids love me? Do they think I am doing a good jiob? Am I proud of them? So what if I could've done something more, where there is knowledge, there is opportunity. *My brain will always think there is something more* Bath/bedtime for my kids.
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Svetlana Knowflake Posts: 254 From: USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 02, 2005 09:05 PM
Hi dear Pixelpixie, I do have a confession to make. In order to flex the "courage" muscle I had to go against my own nature and that phrase was speciphically "dezigned" to provoke a kind of response you've given. (But I didn't lie about the fan thing.)I had to see that I can post something that people won't like and still come back here and post and be OK. I am very non-confrontantional person but it doesn't mean it doesn't hurt when people assult me. I actully expected more attacks but I guess it just speaks volumes about people in LL In all fareness I wouldn't make a good judge I am so passionate about children, the best people in the world. And I really don't care if they spill soup all over my new dress ------------------ Watch me! I have many skills. IP: Logged |
TINK Knowflake Posts: 2513 From: New England Registered: Mar 2003
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posted November 03, 2005 07:19 AM
That did take a bit of courage, svetlana. It always does to go against the grain. You didn't offend me, but I don't have children. (in fact, i thought your post was funny too) If I did, I suppose I might possibly have taken it as a personal condemnation. Please don't be afraid to speak. I thought the e-mail was funny. But I can't believe half those things happened. But again, I don't have children, so maybe I'm being naive. I think there's a lot of truth to that observation, AG. IP: Logged |
Svetlana Knowflake Posts: 254 From: USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 03, 2005 07:50 AM
TINK, I can't express enough the gratitude I feel for your words of encouragement. Just know that you made somebody's day today!!! ------------------ Watch me! I have many skills. IP: Logged |
proxieme Knowflake Posts: 5671 From: Southern 'Bama Registered: Aug 2002
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posted November 03, 2005 09:15 AM
TINK - Oh, believe them.I posted this on another site that I frequent (with mostly Moms), and many of those with boys (and serveral with girls) were going, "Check, check - had that one, that one, not that one - but I know someone who did - yep, yep...uh huh; we had something like that one happen..." IP: Logged |
TINK Knowflake Posts: 2513 From: New England Registered: Mar 2003
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posted November 03, 2005 09:20 AM
*gulp*Really? Even the ceiling fan?! Jello in the swimming pool? I didn't have any brothers or male cousins. I do have a 12 year old step-son and a 7 year old nephew and none of the more extreme things have happened. I realize that's quite different than having your own, but it gives me a peek, you know? Maybe it's different when there is more than one. I've always held the opinion that 2 is a good place to stop. Otherwise they out number you. *shivers* Svetlana is a nice name. Russian? IP: Logged |
proxieme Knowflake Posts: 5671 From: Southern 'Bama Registered: Aug 2002
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posted November 03, 2005 09:42 AM
The ceiling fan one(s) actually struck me as the most believable...all Mom would have to do is go to the bathroom for those to happen.The swimming pool one...I'd bet on a distracted Dad watching a couple/few boys while Mom was out. A little out there, but doable. I bet my Grandmommy would get a kick out of this list...she had three boys born in three consecutive years and no father in the house for some of that (her original husband was an abusive alcoholic who abandoned them when my dad, the youngest, was like two; her Mom moved in watched the boys while my Grandmother worked). She was a *really* good Mom, but there were broken bones among the boys... IP: Logged |
Svetlana Knowflake Posts: 254 From: USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 03, 2005 11:37 AM
"2 is a good place to stop. Otherwise they out number you." Svetlana is a Russian name. It's actually my sister's name. BTW. Happy Birthday! I think I saw it on another board.------------------ Watch me! I have many skills. IP: Logged |
TINK Knowflake Posts: 2513 From: New England Registered: Mar 2003
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posted November 03, 2005 12:26 PM
Thank you. You're Russian then? Wonderful! One of my favorite places. IP: Logged |
Svetlana Knowflake Posts: 254 From: USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 04, 2005 07:46 AM
I am Russian! Have you been to Russia? IP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 2177 From: ohio Registered: Aug 2004
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posted November 25, 2005 09:26 PM
AG, I think you're right... little boys do tend to bring out the adventurer in a mom!Here's what my son has taught me: That pushing the cat in the bathtub is a good way to clean him. That if you're changing a male infant's diaper, it's a good idea to be prepared to take cover... they will pee on you. Also, a male infant can urinate on his own face. (horrible, yes, but I didn't know he could do it until it was too late.) I think it surprised him too. That jumping down half a flight of stairs will not kill you. That an action figure can provide hours of excitement by dropping him from various heights and seeing how many ways he can die. That you can too pet fish! That peanut butter sandwiches make an excellent breakfast, lunch, dinner, and bedtime snack... all in one day. That mommies and daddies should have locks on their bedroom doors, and that no hour of the day or night is a safe hour to forgo this precaution. Do not tell your child that your boss is a mean man unless you want him to point him out the next time he visits you at work and ask, "Mommy... is that the one you said is mean?" If you are alone in a room with your child and a man with only one arm, praying that your child won't say anything embarrassing can backfire. If you do this, also pray that he won't pull one arm inside his shirt when no one is looking, then announce, "Look! I only have one arm, too!" And perhaps the most important thing I've learned is that little boys need lots of hugs and kisses, too... especially if he's got five planets in Taurus, including his sun, and Cancer rising. Boy looooooooooooooves his mommy! IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4767 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted November 28, 2005 07:56 PM
Taurus' do love their moms! (Even the girls) Big time! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 23161 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000
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posted November 29, 2005 07:05 PM
------------------ "There is no use trying," said Alice; "one can't believe impossible things." "I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast." Lewis Carroll IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 756 From: nevada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted November 29, 2005 07:10 PM
sounds like my house robert-13 vincent-11 andrew-9 daniel-4 (do we have a smilie pulling their hair out) ba bub ba bub ba bub (from the movie Overboard)IP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 2177 From: ohio Registered: Aug 2004
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posted November 29, 2005 08:33 PM
Lalalinda~ boy, oh boy, oh boy, oh BOY! I'm sure there's lots of laughter and fun (and hair pulling out!) under your roof!Wow! IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 756 From: nevada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted November 29, 2005 09:59 PM
future-uncertain,daniel is my grandson but I include him because hes here 24/7 I actually have 3 more that are grown 2 are girls so it wasn't that bad unless you count the time our huge, massive Rottweiler Rocky kept walking around the house with a mini-pad stuck to his hind-quarters compliments of my then 3 years old daughter Roma. IP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 2177 From: ohio Registered: Aug 2004
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posted December 01, 2005 02:47 PM
Heehee! That's funny!You must be something of an expert by now! IP: Logged |
26taurus Knowflake Posts: 9869 From: the stars Registered: Jun 2004
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posted December 02, 2005 02:48 AM
quote: If you are alone in a room with your child and a man with only one arm, praying that your child won't say anything embarrassing can backfire. If you do this, also pray that he won't pull one arm inside his shirt when no one is looking, then announce, "Look! I only have one arm, too!"
future!!!!! Your son sounds so cute! Thank you for sharing those. I laughed out loud. ......Makes me want one. IP: Logged |