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posted September 30, 2006 01:57 PM         

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I am in delimma. I know that I should never wish bad things for anyone because it comes back. I hope I can convey what I am trying to say in my next paragraph.

Please solve my problem. It is related to my work. I just started a new project in my workplace which someone else was supposed to do. That person always spoke lies that it can not happen. With my all enthusiasm, I said that I can do it. I started it, the moment I was about to get some light/path. The other person who was supposed to do, intervened that I stepped on his toes and it is his area. Now he took all my emails which contained lot of things how to do the stuff. He is proceeding and I am feeling too bad/frustrated.
Though my boss didn't stop either of us and he said both of you can continue and let us see who gets success. But the other guy already took clues by reading my emails(which is unethical) by forcing management.
I don't want to curse him and neither I want to leave this battle. I want to do what I started and the same time I don't want him to contact the people with whom I am dealing for the work. He has already stepped to contact those people by saying that don't talk to me.

I am so sorry but I have no idea how to handle this situation except I am getting too many fluctuations in my mood. I am feeling terrible.

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posted September 30, 2006 06:49 PM         

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I usually don't ask for specifics from the universe. In a case like yours I'd say something like 'Give me what I need to see this project through and accept whatever the outcome maybe.'

To me having the ability to handle the outcome of a situation is more important than having something go the way I want it to. What I want and what is best may be two different things. (smile) And don't forget sometimes when we do get what we wish for it is not what we had in mind.

Hope this helps

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posted September 30, 2006 09:05 PM         

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Thank you The Virgin!!

Any words at this time will help me!!
Even I am also not demanding person.
I am looking for peace of mind as being ambitious I have invited all these outcomes myself.

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posted October 06, 2006 12:35 AM         

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Just wish that the best happen for all concerned.

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posted October 07, 2006 04:19 PM         

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Thank you Randall!!
I am feeling better now.

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posted October 08, 2006 10:58 AM         

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posted November 03, 2006 08:51 PM         

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i'm wasted

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posted November 03, 2006 11:20 PM         

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I am not wasted.
I just quit myself from that work and let him do.
Today my boss came to me and said who stopped you to do it. So do it.
So now I got again chance to do it.

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posted November 04, 2006 09:12 AM         

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"There is no use trying," said Alice; "one can't believe impossible things." "I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast." Lewis Carroll

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