posted January 03, 2012 05:44 PM
Ok, I met a Virgo man on line 6 months ago Im a taurus. He came to my state, we hung out and had great time. Yes we were intimate after our third date. When we hung out, we had a little disagreement, and I believe they were the test of time. Anyways, he made it clear that I can travel to his home town anytime I wanted because When i do, i dont want him to think im needy or clingy buy visiting him on a frequent basis.
So, i needed to ask him how he feel about me seeing him every few weeks. anyways, I met his family members, We have went out with his kids. He still calls and text me every day and I do the same. One day He kissed me and said love you, i never said it back until recently. hes mentioned he told his mom we have many things in common. Hes told me his kid was like, i like such and such, im protecting my identity here.anyway, recently he said he didnt get me anything for christmas, and since i kept asking what he got me, he said he was thinking about getting me a ring, and i kept quiet after that. so, i dont know if he just said that so i can stop asking what he got me, or if he said that just to say it. anyway, to blow smoke.
when we first got together he did mention he was looking for marriage oneday, cause hes over 40 years old. hes told me before he likes the simple fact that i am me and not pretending to be no one else. he dont make that much on his job so when i go up there i spend most of the time, but he does treat me when he has it.
im trying to make sure i give yall all the details so you can help me determine if this is moving in the right direction, and what that case was about with the ring. so anyways, i had let him know that i felt he was texting on a slick tip buy slanting his phone. i paid close attention if he would change and i have ntoiced that when he text now he doesnt slant his phone so i cant see and he hasnt been texting much.
he not affectionate like i want. so i would say little things like, i like when he layed on my lap because i like that kind of affection. then i was like i dont know why some men dont like kissing their girl, hugging there girl, etc etc. so when we left the restaurant he kissed me. and he has said thanks for taking him out a few times too.
also, his back was hurting and i wanted some, and he did it while his back was hurting, i would to. but it showed me he did what he did to please me and he did. anyways, please help with any opinion in what you think or how u see this relationship going, and what was his reason for saying he was thinking bout getting me a ring, is that an excuse for not getting me something for christmas. o also, it has been determined im his lady
he went with me to dc to visit my relatives as well. we also talk openly, we get along and barly never fight. he tells me about his past, and other things. its just so smooth when we together
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Lindaland
posted January 03, 2012 05:44 PM
posted January 03, 2012 07:49 PM
