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LMB
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posted April 27, 2001 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LMB     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey folks, remember in "Star Signs", I think, Linda mentioning the use of the word "cancel" when someone curses or says something particularly defeating? I say cancel all the time and even have my friends doing it. I know Eternal got her friends doing it, too.

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Randall
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posted April 27, 2001 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It works! Much of what happens to us is the result of our thoughts. We can negate these thoughts and the power we grant them by BEing aware of what we are both thinking and saying and striking the bad words and thoughts by refusing to give them power over us. I sometimes say, "White that out!" (like liquid paper white-out) to let my subconscious k-NOW that I do not want such negativity to come back and bite me in some way. CANCEL works!

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posted April 27, 2001 11:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know, I forgot about that little "cancel" thing I think it's really good advice. I like the "white out" suggestion too Randall

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posted April 29, 2001 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"White that out!" also has other connotations, as in White Light.

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posted June 01, 2001 09:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The main thing is to let your subconscious Mind k-NOW that you are not serious when you inadvertently say something negative. It takes everything literally. It has no sense of humor!

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posted April 11, 2002 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted May 19, 2002 07:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you LMB and Randall... forgot about the beauty and magic of that word "CANCEL", and for "White that out", I promise to re-member them. How easy it is to forget... and hard to re-member... I will try, my Higher S-elf can help me.

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posted June 20, 2002 04:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They don't call them "curse" words for nothing, D*A*M*N*I*T! Oops! CANCEL!

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posted June 29, 2002 11:43 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I forgot about that! I think after reading "Star Signs" I used it for about 2 days. I must admit though, when Im at work, I swear like a trucker. Im trying to get better though.
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LMB
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posted June 30, 2002 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LMB     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yes, I still use it. Tried and true.

Quite!

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posted July 01, 2002 04:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Think of a world where we all canceled our negative thoughts! *sigh*

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posted July 07, 2002 02:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for that reminder, LMB....I had forgotten about using the Cancel word too..*sigh*...and I was doing it all the time, after reading about it,in Linda's book....but somehow, using it, elusively escaped my psyche, at some particular point in time....*sigh*....

It's good to have our memories refreshed...

Luv,
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posted July 08, 2002 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted February 02, 2003 06:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for morgana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey I'm glad I found this thread!

This is what I always wanted to know: do you HAVE TO say "cancel" (or sth similar) out loud or is it enough to THINK IT? I myself think it because I'm embarrassed to say it out loud b/c I'm afraid that people will think I'm crazy, but I know Linda said that words have to be sent out into the universe in the form of sound to be "heard". But at the same time I can't help thinking that THOUGHTS alone are enough, that your Higher Self hears you if you just think what you think (it's logical, isn't it). So I'm just a little bit confused now. Why did Linda say that you need to SAY IT?

What do you all think?

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posted February 02, 2003 07:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Morgana, thoughts are deeds... so for our higher Elf, I believe thinking it will tell ours-elf that we didn`t mean it.

Speaking out loud sends the vibrational meaning of the word into the ethers to blend with the negative... better yet, to over - ride the negative because the positive intent adds power.

Anyhow, this is my personal belief & why I speak out loud; as an Aquarian, I don`t give a rats patooty what folks think

Happy St. Brigids, Imbolc, Candlemas and Ground Hogs day

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posted February 02, 2003 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Grasshopper     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Further on saying it out loud:

It gives you the opportunity to cancel what somebody else says (although this isn't as potent as deleting your own sarcasm). When my good friend, a parent, says "Ohhh, I just want to tie up my child and lock her in the closet," I say, "Cancel." Yes, she gives me that look, and yes I am being a bit of a snob by not validating her frustrations right away ... but after the look, she says what she really means. "Oh, I would never do that ... but she can be so exhausting to me." Ahh, true communication of emotions rather than hiding behind brash words. Shouldn't it always be this way?

In a different scenerio: when I say "cancel" in my mind, I would say that most of the time it's half the potency or less. It's far too easy for me to roll my eyes and mutter in my mind, "cancel." There's not always committment in the words.

Saying it aloud gives it the stamp of willpower (the power of my will .. bwa ha ha ha). And it's not like it's particularly hard.

Hmmm, lately alot of people have been commenting on how snobby I am .. and reading this post, I think they mab be right. And if any of you want to comment further, well, you can just go suck an egg!!!!!

OH.

I mean .. "Cancel."

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posted February 02, 2003 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted February 02, 2003 01:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
grasshopper

Cool I can't wait to incorporate this "cancel" word into my life. Sounds like it could help if one has a self-defeating or fear-based thought to, just cancel that right out, nip it in the bud

I am glad to see this thread to Morgana

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morgana
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posted February 03, 2003 05:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for morgana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey I'm glad, Fajita!

Juniperb,
thanks, that makes a whole lotta sense to me. I thought so myself - if you think it, to your Higher Self it's the same as if you said it, and if you say it out loud, you send it into the ethers. I just like to think sometimes that my thoughts alone are powerful enough to be sent into the ethers...

Grasshopper,
when I think it, I concentrate and really think it, it's very intentional and I incorporate all my will into this act which lasts only for a second or so, but it's none the less powerful. I don't ever do it casually because I know that if you don't give it your serious concentration, it won't work. I think that if you say it, it can also be very casual and absent-minded even. What matters is the amount of concentration you give into this.

I often say it out loud (but in other words, not "cancel") when someone is being negative or speaking badly about anything. I say sth like "god forbid" or "I hope not" or something, to negate the effect of their words, but when I'm alone, I say it out loud very rarely, only if I think that my thoughts are particularly negative or harmful.
When I do this, people often find me very boring as in being so virtuous, it sometimes bothers me, but what the heck (cancel? ), what I think is more important.

Howgh, I have spoken.


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posted February 11, 2003 01:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was reading this, and I was thinking how much more powerful words are when either written down or said out loud. If you have negative thoughts, whether about your self or other people, it's worth writing them down on a piece of paper and then burn the paper. If you actually DO this, and not only VISUALIZE it, you can really feel how the negative thoughts dissappaer in smoke.
Here in Greece, people might pay you a compliment, and then hurridly say "skordo", "garlic", and pretend to spit on you afterwards...The "garlic" functions very much as "cancel" - and it's said to protect you from getting the "evil eye" (a spell) thrown on you because of jealousy...

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posted February 11, 2003 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for morgana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, it's like knocking on wood. I do that constantly... If there's no wood around, I knock on my head, it's just as hard...

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posted April 26, 2004 04:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It does work!! I use the word CANCEL all of the time. It's become a habit for me, and I have other people saying it too.

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posted July 20, 2004 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*bump*

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posted August 16, 2004 11:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like many here, I had forgotten to say "cancel" when something negative was said or happened. When I did say it consistently, I was compelled to say it twice: "cancel cancel". Don't know why, but it worked!

Thanks for the reminder!

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