posted March 17, 2003 05:39 PM         

Best,

posted March 17, 2003 07:58 PM         

Eek, not a fun situation. I like what Aphrodite and Cat have said. I wish I could say more, but some things are just experiences we have to learn from and go through. The best would be to completely let go and get away from the obvious mental torment you are experiencing.... and definitely leave him be, for sure.

On the Astrology side of things, I can empathize with you a bit from experience and from research that Taurean men are not at all a desirable sign to break up with. They are sensitive and warm when things are good, but when they put on their coat of armour and get bullish, it can be the cruelest experience. Plus they have a hard time letting go themselves and may unwittingly make it seem like things are ok again when in reality they are still deliberating about the relationship. When they finally decide it is over, it seems cold and stubborn. All you should do is take it in stride and concentrate on YOU and find things you love to do to fill up your time. It takes determination, but eventually you will wonder why you ever put yourself through it in the first place.

Much love and light to you!

posted March 17, 2003 10:00 PM         

Just went over to the other string to read letter/poem and now I understand what is going on. Somehow I thought it was a relationship, but that may be the intensity you have in you

He may not be ready for a love/relationship/girlfriend, but I somehow don't think he is doing this intentionally. And I would definitely let him persue you if he chooses to in the future. You never know, he may... Taurus's are strange that way. I'm sure you will be seeing him around still, so if you still want to flirt, it might be fun.... just do it coyly from a distance, no directness... oh, and be ultra-feminine in appearence and manner, Taureans love that. Of course, if you have decided you are done with him... well, have fun flirting with someone else!

posted March 20, 2003 06:07 PM         

I can really feel that you are trying to find a concrete answer here to this dilemma. You know, sometimes things are as they are and we don't necessarily get what we want. Most of the time when things don't go our way it is because there is a real lesson sitting there waiting to be learned. If you choose not to learn it, it will still be there. The goal in enlightenment is to learn and move on to the next thing, all the while staying in the NOW with forgiveness being a priority. As well, letting go of situations is an important part of this and will guarantee happiness.

In a way, I am happy to be saying this to you as it is reminding me of some things I am learning and letting go of in my life right now.... even though painful. I truly believe that with each lesson learned, the greater your ability to enjoy life for what it is. Also, when you let go of negative attachments, it will free up alot of energy that you can use for goals, dreams, fun and experiences that you may not have had otherwise.

You spoke in your post about something I said regarding making your appearence and manners feminine. Now, I have never met you or seen you and I meant this in only the most surface of terms. Basically, yes it is true Taurus's are inclined to like this, but the entanglement you have going on here may be more than astrological inclination preferences. If you feel the need to make him respond a certain way, then the situation is already negative and you need to let it go. That is all there is to it. You must rise above this.

One last thing I would like to suggest is to study your own astrological chart and try to use it to help you determine where your lessons may lie. The goal is to rise above your chart and become unbound by it, which is possible only through rising above karma, learning lessons and gaining insight. So try thinking about this a bit more, you'll be better for it, trust me

Much love and light to you