Posts: 888
From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003

posted September 10, 2003 09:58 PM         

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ok, here goes! Here is a summary of it: I had been great friends with a leo, "steve" (not real name) in Janaury. We worked together, and started dating the end of march. Things were great until he moved away. I went there to visit him and things had changed. He broke up with me in july, in the worst way possible (in a cowardly, and down right rude email!), and completely threw me away like trash...ignored my emails, letters, and phonecalls. So I had given up. I had not heard from him in almost 2 months, so I did my best to get on with my life. Pink Angel's tarot reading predicted that he still cared about me. Turns out she was right. The other day I received and email from "steve" apologizing for his behavior and asking if we could salvage the friendship. I believe in forgiveness, so I said I thought he deserved another chance (as a friend). So we have been emailing eachother once in a while. The thing is, I haven't told my family or sisters or friends or anyone, because they don't like him because of his past actions. I just needed to get that off of my chest. by the way, I still have some feelings for steve, but don't want a long-distance relationship. Any advice would be appreciated.

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From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003

posted September 10, 2003 10:28 PM         

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God, please forgive all the immature, self absorbed, inconsiderate and bone-headed actions of my loser male counter-parts. They know not how strongly they effect others.

Oh, yeah..and give us all enough patience to not kick them in the ouchies.

Sorry to hear about his not so happy departure, PZ, but apparently you got under his skin, so yay for you I guess.

What exactly are you wondering? What to expect next? What would you LIKE to see happen?

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posted September 12, 2003 06:09 AM           

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My only word of advice would be dont let em string you along emotionally

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From: India
Registered: Jul 2003

posted September 12, 2003 06:32 AM         

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hi purple )
im so happy for you.....
Dont we all love surprises?
The similar sort of thing had happened to me.
It was 'the end' and after 15 days hes back, but oh i love him so much,i can do anything for him.I believe in the power of love and that if it is strong enough it can shake mountains.
i think,as of now you should be friends, understand each other and accept him as he is. just dont nag him and expect him to change.
im sure there must be some valid reason why he behaved like that, so dont worry, just believe in him.
also some advice, GUYS NEED SPACE.. so try not to call more than once in a day...

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From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003

posted September 12, 2003 02:49 PM         

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lioneye, I don't really know what I was asking, lol. I just wanted to get it off of my chest. I told my little sister and I feel better. I don't want a relationship (right now) with steve, but I do want to remain friends. PinkAngel, I don't call him at all, we just email eachother, since we live in different states. I'm glad your soulmate came back to you! Thanks everyone

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