posted September 19, 2003 03:35 PM           

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Why was I so forgiving! arg!

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posted September 19, 2003 11:24 PM         

A few years ago, my old love and I split. He's a Leo too. And ever since, he's done the same thing-tried to get back into my life, pleading for second chances and saying he wanted to be my friend, that he just wanted to be a part of my life. Well, that's very hard to do when your trust is broken. And of course, it's always easier to see these patterns in hindsight, but when someone you love tells you what you want to hear, it's often difficult to see clearly. So I fought the idea-and him-pretty hard, but in the end I always ended up trying to build a new friendship with him. Each time it either hurt too much or I became disappointed. This was the song and dance for years. (That's just giving a quick summary. ) I don't know what your history is like, but if you don't mind me sharing personal experiences, I recently came to a point in my life where I've let go of the hurt and he and I have found a new understanding. We've grown up so much. I'm not saying it's right or anything like that, just wanted to share how it worked out for me.

You opened your heart to him because, like Andy said, you are a good person. So ultimately, it's his loss.

posted September 20, 2003 03:53 AM         

It's the Leo's loss -- because you're going to find a good true love to match what you can give.