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Topic: Question for you Scorpio and Scorpio moons
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silverbells
Knowflake Posts: 1506
From: The second star to the right (which shines in the night for'eer)
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted March 28, 2004 03:12 PM
 
I wanted to know if Scorps and Scorp moons here have found that they are exremely possesive with people that they are dating. Not just boyfriends and girlfriends but people they are dating - to the point that they feel even a little put out if the person if having fun elsewhere. Just asking.
 or maybe  or maybe neither.
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juniperb
Knowflake Posts: 6830
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Mar 2002
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posted March 28, 2004 03:48 PM
Not a smidgen of Scorpio in my chart, so Scorps, whats the scoop  ------------------
If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. ~James Herriot IP: Logged |
Harpyr
Knowflake Posts: 2255
From: land of the midnight sun
Registered: Dec 2002
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posted March 28, 2004 04:15 PM
I find my Sag Sun and Scorp Moon in a constant battle over this issue.
I haven't done alot of casual dating, really... I'm either involved in a "relationship" or I'm totally single, not dating anyone. Okay, that's not totally true.. during those times that I'm totally single, there have been a few instances where I'm spending time with a 'friend with benifits'..if you catch my drift..  Someone I loved as a friend but wasn't 'in love' with and yet with whom I had an intimate understanding.. if that makes any sense. I didn't find my self being jealous of them, generally. I was able to maintain a light touch with the relationship. However, when I have a boyfriend (someone I'm deeply in love with and seeing exclusively) I am instinctively jealous when they go out and have fun without me.. Not as much if I have ample opportunity to go out and have fun on my own too, though.. I think that is my Sag Sun being placated and thereby being able to more easily rationalize away feelings of jeslousy. ("We trust eachother. We both need time to ourselves to spend with friends. It's healthy. shush! You crazy Scorpio Moonus You! {Monus= my pet name for my exact Moon/Venus conj.} ) It's when I have too much time to myself to brood over things that jealousy really takes hold of me. Usually this happens if my significant other is going out alot more than I am. It's not even like I'm neccesarily jealous of them spending time with other people, like I'm worried about cheating -though there are plenty of instances of just that- I have found myself at times in the past of being jealous of a stupid poker table or a video game that I felt was getting more attention than me. This jealousy struggle has gone on within me for a long time. It's one of those things I learned to indentify within myself when I started studying astrology. I intuitively knew it about myself prior but gathering a knowledge of astrology has greatly aided my quest to better understand my motivations and desires. IP: Logged |
TINK
Knowflake Posts: 3831
From: New England
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 28, 2004 09:25 PM
*sigh* yup. Not really "put out" more like ... nervous. I have 5 planets in Scorpio so sometimes it gets a bit rough in the jealousy department. I'm fidgety right now because my husband has a new female assitant starting Tuesday. I try to access my Saggie moon and just get over it - sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. I must say that I'm quite adept athiding it though. OK not with my hubby - he knows me too well- but men I've dated have accussed me of being distant and unemotional. Hah! If they only knew.  A moonus conjunction harpyr? that sounds nice. How does it feel? IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted March 28, 2004 09:46 PM
Heck, I have a Scorp Asc. and I get that way sometimes.
My Pisces Sun and Aqua Moon rail against it, but sometimes it completely overtakes me. It's such a visceral, wild thing. Much of the time, when it strikes all I can do is remove myself from the situation in order for it to subside.Actually, though, I think it may be a Scorp Asc thing in general, too.
My husband has that placement as well, and he's stayed up nights worrying, eaten by jealousy. In many ways, it's good to have another who understands what it's like - when it overwhelms the other, you can sympathize with the torture it's causing them more than get defensive. IP: Logged |
Oxychick
Knowflake Posts: 2626
From: neither here nor there
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted March 28, 2004 09:59 PM
Yes, I think generally speaking, Scorps and other water signs tend towards jealousy and possessiveness in relationships. The Scorpio in my life gets that way, but hides it very well and does not act unreasonably, and mostly finds jealousy to be a waste of his time. He's good like that. Could be that Aqua Moon and Libra Rising. ------------------
I like this language
it's so honest
and simple
and pure We've spoken it with our eyes since the beginning -Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Tuesday
Knowflake Posts: 243
From: Kansas
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted March 28, 2004 10:31 PM
No Scorp placements here, but I have a Venus/Pluto opposition and I surprise myself with how far my jealousy will go. I NEVER show it though, I'm too ashamed. A Scorpio moon/mars boy I was in love with once really brought it out in me. I'd get anxiety attacks and would lose sleep. Everything was just intensified.
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silverbells
Knowflake Posts: 1506
From: The second star to the right (which shines in the night for'eer)
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted March 29, 2004 07:30 PM
Yes if I go out as much as the guy that I am dating I am less likely to be as jealous but I do get at least nervous either way. And my jealousy is like a hurricane. And I feel comletely justified in my silent demands that no fun is to take place without me. because if he really cared about me he couldn't have any real fun without me therefore why even bother with the charade of going out unless he calls me while he is out or comes home and calls and says that he really wishes I was there and then offers to take me to the place that he was (that shows that the whole night he was thinking about how I would like the place and that would show the joy he gets from me)- that is what my emotions say. But I think that perhaps that is not right. I think that I only have about two prominant Scorp/8th house placements so I don't know what the problem is. I'm a Libra with a Sag. rising no less where is my placating influence? I think that it causes a real problem especially because I don't say anything and then have an attitude for a while because the emotions are violently simmering.I'm able to have a "light touch" in friendly situations too, as long as my "friend" doesn't push their luck. As far as dating/relationships I'm either in or out every step of the way and they better be too. I'm also always accused of being cold and unemotional (in relationships). Soooo opposite of what's really going on.
Panic attacks? Sometimes I would feel one coming on when I would think that I was not getting the love or the love was not felt for me. Oxychick- where is that Linda G. quote from? It's very nice. Thank you guys for telling (especially with your Scorpio influences). IP: Logged |
2tailscorp
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: Grand Canyon State
Registered: Mar 2004
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posted March 29, 2004 11:35 PM
5 planets in 1st hs--to me jealousy is insecurity and I have no time for that game. 
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Oxychick
Knowflake Posts: 2626
From: neither here nor there
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted March 30, 2004 07:22 AM
Hi silverbells The quote is from "Scorpio Silence is Golden" which can be found in Venus Trines at Midnight.Scorpios are very passionate creatures. It's that passion that drives them to only be involved with/own something wholly and not just partially. I think that's where jealousy comes from-when they think the person they're so intensley involved with (because it always has to be intense) breaks away from them at all, the jealousy sets in. It's different say for Air Signs-Aquarius for example. For me, I don't mind the person breaking away to do other things or spend time with other people. The Scorpio that I mentioned says I "pull away completely" when something is bothering me and this bothers him-it's the Scorpio need to know everything about someone. ------------------
I like this language
it's so honest
and simple
and pure We've spoken it with our eyes since the beginning -Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Isis
Knowflake Posts: 1922
From: CA
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted March 31, 2004 12:32 PM
Actually I have 5 planets in Scorp myself, and I've never really been jealous - I've kind-of viewed myself as above that (which is probably moreso an aversion to the feeling of jealousy, really), I've always figured, if you wanna be with me, you're with me, if not, buh-bye. If I have to worry than you're not worth my time. I've been fortunate to date faithful men as a result - I've had plenty of other relationship problems, just not of the philandering kind. With friends I'm probably a bit more possessive; I can get hurt if I'm not included in something that everyone else is, which to me seems more just plain human than Scorpio-influenced. ------------------
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Rainbow~
Knowflake Posts: 5927
From: The Little River Indian Reservation
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted March 31, 2004 02:10 PM
Scorpio Rising with a Mars Scorpio in the first house...*sigh*Yes, I used to have those feeling in the past (when I was younger), but hopefully have transended them...(since I'm NOT in any romantic relationship now, I've really not had the opportunity to "test" this...) On the other hand, maybe I've "avoided" getting involved with anyone, to provide
a "safety net" from those intense emotions...*sigh*... Not really sure....  LOve,
Rainbow
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Jazzebel
Knowflake Posts: 343
From: Georgia
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 31, 2004 11:28 PM
well, I noticed that most Scorpio Moon people project the jealousy onto their partners. I have seen a large number of occasions where the wife/partner of a Scorpio Moon man is Extremely jealous! Even if that same person wasn`t known as jealous before. My very good girlfriend - Aqua Sun/Venus, Virgo Moon - never seen her green with jealousy before until she married this Scorpio Moon man - oh boy how she canged. And she`s jelly jealous 24/7.
.. just one of the examples.....IP: Logged |
gemini girl
Knowflake Posts: 607
From: south africa
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted April 04, 2004 10:33 AM
im xtremely jealous but i think it has to do with the fact that i like to control things dont know if its due to the following i a have scorpio rising + moon and its in pluto i also think cancer can be a bit possesive my mer. and mars is in cancer all the scorpio sun signs i know tend to be jealous people IP: Logged |
Motherkonfessor
Knowflake Posts: 1140
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Registered: Oct 2003
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posted April 04, 2004 03:58 PM
All I need to say is "YUP"..................
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Sun_Scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1768
From: UK
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted April 08, 2004 05:26 PM
I'm a Scorp and can somethimes be possessive, but only with things/people that I care about deeply, and after analysing it I sometimes think its an insecurity problem, not giving people freedom means they rely and depend on you, or leave you, so its not a good thing really. But fortunatly I have a happy, free, analysing Gem moon which often reins in the naughty Scorp and stops me being silly.
I did know a double Scorp girl who was really possessive of her ex, a flighty charming Libra, although he adored her, she was still jealous, insecure and always wanting him to be something else. So I'de say reassure the person but if they are still jealous, leave them! It may sound harsh but its not worth it, it'll only make you unhappy. I hope thats helpfull silverbells, I got quite into this!!!IP: Logged |
silverbells
Knowflake Posts: 1506
From: The second star to the right (which shines in the night for'eer)
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted April 10, 2004 07:45 PM
Yes, thank You guys. I think that I really destroy relationships with my suspiciousness, it might be the Scorp moon but it is probably coupled with general relationship insecurity but the up-side of that is, so far the relationships that I have messed up are with people who are exposed as the poopy-butts that they are. Hmphhh.IP: Logged |
Lynnie
Knowflake Posts: 1
From: Sykesville, MD USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 10, 2004 11:18 PM
I am a Scorpio Sun & Moon. I just discovered this group today so it is intresting to be answering a question so soon. I think my jealousy depends on the circumstances. I have noticed when I have been extremely jealous & this is because I was not sure about where I stood in the relationship. When the relationship is something I feel secure about I have no jealousy at all. I have been married many years but I remember once telling my husband that if he could find someone better than me then I would understand if he left me. I said this because I know how passionate & extreme I am so I was confindent that no one would love him as much as I would. IP: Logged |
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