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From: garland texas usa
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posted July 14, 2004 09:06 PM         

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Hi,
I don't know if any one remembers me, But how exactally does a libra girl atract an aquarian boy? Linda says its a hard one but he's soo attractive and mentaly stimulating. I'm not going to die if we don't get together but Dang, he is great. Older but not too old. Funny, and playfull, not exactally Mr. RESPONSIBILITY but he pays his bills and is a great dad. I don't know should I? And how should I if I do. Can I just come out and say hey I think you are hot lets hook up? He is my daughters best friends dad, I would hate for things to get awkward, but he did say call, but he's never home and doesn't return messages( well one message, I don't want to come off like a needy confused person.)He lives 4 hours away and can't really afford long distance calls. aaaagh. sorry any aqua boy's with advice, or people with aqua experience?

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posted July 14, 2004 09:13 PM         

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Of course I remember you! Silly!

Long time no see.

Aquarians? Be a friend.. do not be clingy or needy... Tell him that you have a new gadget for the barbeque, and think it is the coolest thing ever... be sincere.
Let him lead the course, don't be surprised if he backs off and then inward again, and pretends that nothing ever happened. Be interested ( I hope that comes naturally) in his ideas. Spiral with him on them..... What about email? Is he very verbal? Giving mixed signals?
Be open and friendly, but don't actively pursue. Pursue a friendship, let him determine if it will lead into a love affair.. remember, to be in 'love', they must be in 'like'. So be likeable.. should be easy for your charmingh Libra self! You will probably have great conversations!
If it is your turn to choose a date? Do something memorable.. like Murder Mystery dinner, something to get him thinking.. no movies though.. he needs participation! Go to the Science Centre or something.....

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posted July 14, 2004 09:45 PM         

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Shouldn't be too hard for you. You're a Libra . I get along very well with pretty much all Aquarius folks. They're all a little nutty though ... way ahead of the rest of us on this mundane plain.

I would say, above all, LISTEN. They always have something interesting to say.

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From: Colorful Colorado
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posted July 15, 2004 02:38 AM         

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Rule number one. DO NOT BE A LEO. My mom and me dad got hitched. Leo and Aquarius. What a bloody divorce that was...

Since you got that not being a Leo going for you, It should be a breeze... catch this Pisces's drift?

Out of all the Aquarians I know... Be a straight shooter... Learn an Aquarius’s patterns. They are so easy to read, almost as easy as an Aries... Then move in for the kill. AKA, Conform to there patterns, and hop on the train, when they are intrigued at your intrigue

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posted July 15, 2004 11:34 AM         

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First you put a female aquarium on the window sill, wait 7 days after a full moon and with water...
Ok that was stupid, I'll go now.

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posted July 15, 2004 12:54 PM         

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Aquarians LOVE wine - S*d Water-Bearers, they ought to be called the Cup-bearers - and be ruled not by Uranus but Bacchus. Talk wine. Talk about anything. They love to talk.
Seriously though, you have got a good chance as a Libra, Libra and Aquarius make good pals.
They don't tend to chase in the conventional way - or so they say. But I did The Rules with my husband - at the end of our second date (which I had suggested we go on), I said, "well, see you around", when I really didn't think he was all that interested. THEN, he started chasing me. They can be as traditionally masculine as you like if you push the right buttons!

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posted July 15, 2004 09:42 PM         

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I think Prox can probably offer a word or two here....Prox?

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posted July 15, 2004 09:51 PM         

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no to nasty aquarians

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posted July 15, 2004 10:17 PM         

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No to nasty Anyone! But the good ones can stay, of which there are luckily more of!!!

Yin and Yang in everything.. dark and light. Passive and active. One or both, depending on the experiences.

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posted July 16, 2004 03:24 AM         

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Aloha!

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posted July 16, 2004 04:02 AM         

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Indifference works also
And don't be an open book

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posted July 17, 2004 12:04 AM         

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All I can say is that most likely if you teel him: "you're hot lets hook up", it's a surefire way for you to NOT get him. He'll probably flee in the other direction, if he's a typical Aquarian. As a rule, they don't focus much on the physical side of a relationship (I'm with one so I know), so if you're really into that, then maybe it would be better to look elsewhere. You might end up getting disappointed...Let us know how it goes....

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posted July 17, 2004 12:53 AM         

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YEP

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posted July 17, 2004 10:49 AM           

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Well, I don't know how atypical my Aqua dude is (wait...is there such a thing as a "typical" Waterbearer...?), and I don't know how much help I can be since so much of our early interaction was so effortless - probably owing in part to my Aqua Moon conjuct his Sun to the degree -, but here's what I've noticed:

* As others have said, first and foremost, be their friend. You've really gotta *like* an Aquarian before anything else'll happen.
And remember, as Linda said, "He does what he does because he is what he is,"...or something like that.
* Talk at length and with great intellectual passion about ya'll's interests. If your views are idiosyncratic, that's a plus. Being a little (or a lot) odd will win you points as well.
* Don't lie (or fib) and don't play emotional games.
A large chunk of a Scorpio or a Pisces may get off on such drama, but not an Aqua.
* When they said that Aquas in general don't take a great interest in the physical, they weren't tellin' tales.
Even mine, with a Taurus Moon and a Scorpio Asc, will forget about sex for long stretches of time (when he remembers, though, watch out ).
A couple of weeks into our physical relationship, he pulled me aside for a *serious talk* because he was afraid that I only was interested in his body.
No lie.
Really, though - is sex once or twice a day too much to ask in the first fires of relationship?
"No!" says my Scorpio Asc, Taurus Venus, and Leo Mars, "Certainly not."

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From: Colorful Colorado
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posted July 18, 2004 03:33 AM         

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Pisces? Get off on Drama? HA... that was funny. I like theater, but when it comes to emotional drama. I'm in the woods! "Leave me alone" I don't like drama. It kills my energy. Don't ever make that assumtion again.

Yea, I'm sure you like that Scorpio Asensing and Taurus Moon in your Aqurian man... Sounds like a bit of a conflict though

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posted July 18, 2004 11:08 AM           

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Dude, I'm a Pisces.
My Mom's a Pisces.
My Step-Mom's a Pisces.
Probably roughly 1/3 of the people that I've come across in life have had some major Pisces influence.
I'll make assumptions about 'em til I'm blue in the face.
I'm surrounded.

I, myself, can say that I don't get off on drama, but I've known many (many, many) who do.
Heck, even my drama-rama averse self has had to stop myself from poking on occasion.
It's not in the overt way that I've known some Leos to do so, but Fish do it.
They needle and quietly manipulate situations and until other people just want to scream. Then when the actual consequence comes down, they (we) flit away, hurt and confused.
So, perhaps, they don't get off on drama - it's just the play that does it for them.

Note: Thinking about it, Scorps (as a "negative in general", don't jump on me if you don't) kinda do the same:
They needle and manipulate a situation until the other person goes nuts, and then steps back as the "rational one" tut-tutting about the insanity of the other.

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From: garland texas usa
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posted July 19, 2004 12:02 AM         

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Great advice thanks, I had a feeling that being blunt was out. I just like talking to him, its great we talk for hrs at a time every few months. We find our kids saying "hey it's 8:00 we're hungry" then we relunctantly say goodbye prommising to keep in touch. Three months later we do it again. Astro.com predicts either spectacularly great or fabulously horrific. Tarrot reading was great though ace of cups in the basis (celtic cross)2 of cups in future,sun in distant future, and 9 cups final outcome. As for being genuenly interested in what he says thats a go, it's like he's reading my mind. As for not being a leo, my asc is leo is that bad? As for the no sex thing his ex wife used to brag that she had regular spectacular sex. ( I did'nt think it proper dinner conversation, but hey whatever right?) He is comming to dallas on aug 15 to bring his daughter to my daughter's b-day party, and has expressed an interest in comming more often, as well as offering the use of his couch if I wanted to bring my girls to visit his. ( He is very honerable I don't think the offer was you know "like that")the point is he is open to greater contact.
If any one is interested
Me:
Sun- libra
Moon- taurus
Asc- leo
9-26-72
chicago, ill
3:30 pm

Him:
Sun-Aqua
Moon-pisces
Asc-sag
jan 20 1969
Del Rio Texas
4am-ish

asrtodienst says
sun in second house( doesn't specify who's)
sun opposite venus
sun conjunct neptune
moon in 2nd house
moon opposit uranus
moon opposit ascendant
venus in 8th house
venus opposit neptune
mars conjunct asc
uranus conjunct asc

life changing to be sure but for good or ill in the air. Leave it to a libra to have immages of longterm relationship before the guy even thinks "hello"

I think I have a mental checklist and I keep tally of every one I meet( good provider good, recovering alcholic not again I don't) I must be some sort of wierd girl keeping track of the potentiality of every man I meet. But this one so far passes all tests is interesting and attractive.

will continue to be available when needed without being pushy, have interesting conversations whenever possible, and as far as possible not be an open book with out playing games.

Oh ps he doesn't drink at all, he orders hot tea, Iced tea or water at the bars. is that unusal for aqua?
thanks again, will keep all posted.

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posted July 19, 2004 12:17 AM         

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Nothing is unusual for an Aquarius!!!!

Good luck!!!!

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From: garland texas usa
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posted July 28, 2004 11:24 PM         

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Another conversation with my handsome aqua. Full of soft voices, speachs of lonlieness,the joys of parenthood, raw deals from x's(without wishing them harm)and personal insite that made my spine tingle.Lots of communication, and once again pulled apart by the children. I was looking forward to my youngest daughters b-day because I was going to take us all to medieval times, but his ex-wife (also my friend, we all went to school together. I introduced them because I was attracted to him but dating someone else. I know soap opera. Does this violate the never date your friends ex husband rule?)invited herself along to, he is still awkward with her still so he clams up and we don't talk like we could. I love her dearly but she did him so wrong and she's not the same person she was, she's a husk of herself. anyway thats another whole story. Good stuff, bad stuff. This is slow. Like staying outside in the texas heat for 15 hours and then walking into an air conditioned house. The wanting is as sweet, I am willing to wait years, or just remain friends. He facinates me, like bubbles or inscense in a laser projector. Controlled lust god it's better than chocolate.

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posted July 29, 2004 01:12 AM         

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Umm, my question would be, why would you want to (attract an AQ)

Just kiddin' (Well, not really, but I'm a Scorp, AQ and SCO don't generally do so well together). I love AQ as friends, but find them to be unreliable though well meaning.

I would think it would be natural for you, both being Air signs and such -

My advice - don't expect a lot - not because you won't get it, but because AQ don't like emotional expectations put upon them. Stay interesting. Someone else already covered the 'don't be needy' thing. Always be a friend. But like I said, you're a Libra so attracting him should come easily

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posted July 29, 2004 12:59 PM         

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I have found that an Aqua will do the honorable thing in terms of treating you right, but go along with what has been said before in terms of their not liking emotional dependency or expectations of them. Aquas, especially men like to run the show, or at least direct it . Being quick-witted will keep their attention, as well as being unpredictable - not manipulative, as Aquas don't like being controlled in any way. Be up to date on what's going on in the world, or at least with local events - they like someone who is informed and resourceful.

I have found with my Aqua man that the physical side of the relationship is important, but he can be a little detached in this department - he very much likes his physical space...

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posted July 31, 2004 12:39 AM         

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Why attract an aqua? Well I am an independent woman with alot of interests and activities, I kinda like the way aqua doesn't get all up in your buisness. I like the idea of hanging out when it's convienent and not having to rearange my schedule to reasure an insecure man that I dig him. I like his intelect, and I have an attraction to strangeness. I am far, far ,far, from normal myself. If thoughts were art, he would have facinating pictures.I'm not jelouse if people are honest. Have all the woman friends you want just don't sleep with anyone else, and ocasionally when there is time pay me a bit of attention. I am perfectly capeable of saying,"I need some attention, Got a min?"Besides I am quite mysteriouse myself. I think we have a lot to teach eachother, It would be cool if we wound up together, but I value his friendship as well. I sure as Heck don't need anyone. I waited for my prince for 30 yrs, he never came, so I got off my tush and got the job done myself. I don't need alot. As for the sex, his ex wife says he rocks Once again if I want something I know how to ask, and sometimes the waiting is almost as good as the getting.I usually can charm my way into most beds when I want. I am not really worried. I was just kind of curiose if there were certain things. Thanks for all the help. It has been invaluable.
P.s. If he does what I want, he can direct all the shows he wants. GIGGLE!!
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