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Topic: if a guy likes you
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Ariesrocks!
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Registered: Dec 2003
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posted August 28, 2004 07:26 AM
 
When a man is really interested in a woman, he is less inclined to laugh at her jokes, or laugh in general, I read this in some mag a long time ago, this is in the early stages of dating, is this true? IP: Logged |
Aquarian Girl
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Registered: Aug 2004
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posted August 28, 2004 08:41 AM
I don't know about a generalization like that, I think it just depends on the personality and I don't think it's a guy thing because I'm a bit like what you described. If I like someone, and we're in a group setting, I might get a bit shy to laugh at his jokes or respond to the things he's saying just because I feel really conscious of laughing TOO loud or being over-responsive because I like them  Juvenile, I know! I'm not like that if I know the person likes me too or if we're in a one on one setting though, then my little anxieties are calmed and I don't have to act cool or whatever it is I do otherwise, lol. IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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posted August 28, 2004 10:11 AM
So if you like someone you try to not let them know? even act uninterested? (aquarius trait?)IP: Logged |
ghanima81
Moderator Posts: 1762
From: MAINE! :)
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted August 28, 2004 10:28 AM
Ariesrocks!,YES. Act non-emotional when feeling emotions. Eh, it just happens that way with us. We're too busy watching bees buzz around. IP: Logged |
trillian
Knowflake Posts: 4050
From: The Boundless
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted August 28, 2004 11:37 AM
I can't stand, nor can I play, that sort of game with myself or others."I'll pretend to like you less, so you will like me more." How is this higher love? How is this spiritually evolved?  IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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Registered: Dec 2003
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posted August 28, 2004 11:42 AM
it's just aquarius! gotta love them. The guy I'm in love with has his venus in aquarius and I swear he's so distant and quiet, I keep asking myself if he cares or not (all my pisces influence) Sigh!IP: Logged |
26taurus
Knowflake Posts: 14898
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Registered: Jun 2004
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posted August 28, 2004 12:36 PM
I'm with Trillian. I prefer a guy who doesnt play childish games. A real man will tell you exactly how he feels, no matter where the planets were when he was born. Not string you along making you wonder what his feelings are.I would only try to guess for so long.........before I said, "So long!". Good luck. IP: Logged |
26taurus
Knowflake Posts: 14898
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Registered: Jun 2004
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posted August 28, 2004 12:55 PM
I've seen a few postings by you involving this guy and wondering if he cares about you. I feel bad for you that you let him treat you this way. It may just be his nature, but you deserve more, and you can't change people. How long can you let him be "distant and quiet" with you, it must be hell. I suggest just coming straight out and asking him his what his feelings are for you. You deserve to know. But maybe a part of you likes the whole game. If he can't open up and tell you, ask yourself how long you want to put up with this. Don't settle for less than what you deserve. Sorry, I just think he's playing with you, and that's not cool. If things don't change soon, move on. Live and learn.IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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Registered: Dec 2003
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posted August 28, 2004 01:15 PM
Well I've only known him three weeks and there is no intention on my behalf to get together right now, since we live together we're gonna see a lot of eachother for a year and I would like a slow seduction that builds up over time, whilst waiting I'm keeping my options open! don't worry! he's not treating me bad at all, I'm just being sappy because I'm an aries and I hate to wait. But thanks for your concern! it's great that you guys care.IP: Logged |
LibraSparkle
Knowflake Posts: 6034
From: Vancouver USA
Registered: May 2004
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posted August 28, 2004 02:22 PM
Did someone say Juvenile?  Lemme pour some more hyp and hennesy in ya glass... Would I be violating, If I grabbed me handfull... I'm knowing whats happening, all I want is a sample IP: Logged |
pisces-girl
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Registered: Jun 2004
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posted August 31, 2004 05:58 PM
n/m.... damn aries asc. and mercury of mine. i can't finish a thought process. once i'm in the middle of it i go back to the begining of it to re-arrange what i thought... must be the Rx....  IP: Logged |
writesomething
Moderator Posts: 2271
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted October 26, 2008 11:11 PM
weird...never heard of that.IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 1728
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted October 27, 2008 12:30 AM
I agree! quote:
I'm with Trillian. I prefer a guy who doesnt play childish games. A real man will tell you exactly how he feels, no matter where the planets were when he was born. Not string you along making you wonder what his feelings are.I would only try to guess for so long.........before I said, "So long!".
No games here!------------------
It is not about waiting for storms to pass...it is about learning to dance in the rain!
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sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 767
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted October 27, 2008 11:59 AM
i think if they really like you, they will laugh at all of your jokes, be in your space so to speak, smile often. body language is evident. I do it myself. get closer, smile more. touch more casually of course. I think they lean in when they speak to you, touch your elbow or arm while talking. that kind of thing. IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 767
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted October 27, 2008 12:02 PM
if they act like they don't like you in public and yet want to do you in private don't expect much. maybe a closing time call every so often. forget that! unless thats what you want. IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 7483
From: Grafenwohr, Germany
Registered: May 2002
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posted October 28, 2008 04:01 PM
WOW.. Super OLD thread...But, I must say.. from my experience a man that laughs with a woman or at her jokes his showing more vulnerablity that one that does not. I am with an amazing Leo (duh.. you all know that)and he has always been known for his tough exterior and a sense of humor that doesn't show up as much as many of us Saggies would like.. Hee hee.. until he met me... I know I make him happy.. his family has told me that he has changed almost full circle. He went from that somber lion the one that actually goes to work and sees his friends / family with a big ole smile on his face. What I LOVE the most, is when I make him laugh so hard I hear that deep Leo thunder.. I think you all know the one I am talking about. It is that deep laugh that no one can contain but it just comes out. Although he refers to me as his queen... deep down I know I am his jester. I make him laugh like no one else has and that MAKES me so happy.
Long story short... to make a man laugh is love in itself.
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sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 767
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted November 11, 2008 03:44 PM
sag and leo is like peas and carrots or mac and cheese....they just go togetherIP: Logged |
Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 905
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted November 11, 2008 07:58 PM
quote:
When a man is really interested in a woman, he is less inclined to laugh at her jokes, or laugh in general, I read this in some mag a long time ago, this is in the early stages of dating, is this true?
Yes, if the joke is not funny. IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 767
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted November 11, 2008 08:30 PM
that was.
funny.
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