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taylor90
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From: Minneapolis Minnesota U.S.A
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posted December 10, 2004 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
Hi im only 14 years old and there is this girl at school who keeps looking at me in class I think She might like me And I didn't know before but I like her to and
I just want to be sure that she likes me before I talk to her any advice ladys?

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Sheaa Olein
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posted December 10, 2004 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome taylor90!

Well sweetie you can't be sure till you find out!

How well do you know her - have you spoken to her before?

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taylor90
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posted December 10, 2004 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
no im to scared of rejection or embarassment I guess.

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Sheaa Olein
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posted December 10, 2004 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
OK, no worries. Tell you what, she may be feeling the same!

Just try saying hi when there's a natural moment you're sitting or standing together. Spark up a common interest.. music is always a good one.

Don't be afraid! Body language and confidence will speak volumes. She can't reject you for saying hi - if she does, she's not very nice anyway hon

Try it one step at a time, it'll be fine.

Think of things to talk about. What are your interests for example?

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taylor90
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posted December 10, 2004 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
I like techno,videogames,comedy movies horror movies,getting knowledge,and skateboarding,

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taylor90
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posted December 10, 2004 09:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
lol not every girls dream am I?

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Sheaa Olein
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posted December 10, 2004 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
Why not?

Most guys are into these things

I'd say try not to form an opinion of her, until you get to know her. She may be a tomboy at heart - I was as a kid - well still kinda am

OK, the trick is to make the first step with confidence. It'll come naturally after a while and you'll realise there's nothing to worry about.

So you approach her and say, "Hi there **** (use her name), I'm Taylor.." and follow it up with something neutral - and natural.

You'll think of something

When you get talking, (because you will), then your interests like techno, videogames, comedy movies horror movies, getting knowledge, and skateboarding - will come naturally because you know your own mind!

She may even have knowledge of skateboarding, or has the same video game as you - bonus!

Take it one step at a time, taylor.

What's the worst that can happen? She ignores you? I doubt it! More fool her if she does. How long have you known her now?

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taylor90
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posted December 10, 2004 09:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
ive known her for about three years
but have never talked to her so I kinda don't know her but I can't think of why she'd be looking at me in class and stuff.
she just started this year.

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taylor90
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posted December 10, 2004 09:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
started looking at me that is shes been at the school as long as I have.

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taylor90
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posted December 10, 2004 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
thank you for the advice I'll be sure to talk to her this monday...

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Sheaa Olein
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posted December 10, 2004 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
So she's starting to notice you now, huh? Could be a cool thing.

If you've been aware of her for three years now, you've got a pretty good idea of her personality.. how she is with her friends etc. and if I'm guessing right, then you're approach to liking her must be OK since she seems like a good person in your eyes?

If so - excellent. We have a good base already taylor. It's cool, you have loads to go on when you start talking - the same school pattern for three years with mutual school interests makes it even territory.

Steady yourself and approach her. It's only talking to another soul connection, you will do this hundreds more times and it won't bite! (If she does back off quickly)

So, do you believe you can do it?..

Let us know how it goes

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Sheaa Olein
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posted December 10, 2004 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
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taylor90
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posted December 10, 2004 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
will do!

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Philbird
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posted December 11, 2004 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Philbird     Edit/Delete Message
What kind of skateboard tricks can you do? I'll let my son know you're a board fan! Maybe a male companion here, the same age, you could chat! His name is Jay. I want to get him involved with this site. So another guy might encourage him. You game?

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taylor90
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posted December 11, 2004 03:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
*YAWN*Yeah im game! just got up from my nap that should keep me going for a few for hors sure i'll talk to your son.
Im always happy to make a new friend!

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Sheaa Olein
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posted December 13, 2004 04:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
Taylor!

Did you speak to her??

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Philbird
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posted December 13, 2004 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Philbird     Edit/Delete Message
Hey taylor,its Jaybird. My mom introduced me to this site.SOOOO you like skateboarding,and funny movies. Well have you seen "Evil Dead 2" scarey but funny. How about "HotShots part 2". If you haven't there really funny.

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taylor90
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posted December 14, 2004 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taylor90     Edit/Delete Message
hi ppl its me well ne way jay if u can read this then have a look at my new thread k?

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