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Topic: Weirdness, Taureans, and reappearing apologies....
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Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 1409
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted January 15, 2005 02:07 PM
 
What the heck?! There is this Taurean, whom I'm sure you've all heard me mention, who I sent the letter/poem to, and he ignored me and was a total jerk.
But....Guess what?He told my close friend Natalie, when he come home from college over winter break, completely randomly that he had a dream that he realized he was being an a**h*le to me and he apologised to me for how he acted, and that I forgave him. He also said that he felt bad for how he was to me and he thinks that he's changed his attitude since highschool... Now, all this was said to my very close friend, so assumption being he wanted her to tell me and knew she would, right? Do I contact him, or let him be? Cause I did rid myself recently of his demonic presence that had been hanging on, and realized I can love someone more than they love themself, and it's ok if they can't/wont reciprocate... What are your thoughts on this drama?
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-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
Nephthys
Moderator Posts: 3800
From: California
Registered: Oct 2001
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posted January 15, 2005 03:51 PM
Hi!  I say wait and let him contact you. This is a really popular new book that recently came out. I think every girl should get it. I'm still waiting for the price to go down: He's Just Not That Into You
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AWAKE
Shake dreams from your hair
My pretty child, my sweet one.
Choose the day and choose the sign of your day
The day's divinity
First thing you see.
~James Douglas Morrison
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Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 1409
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted January 15, 2005 04:20 PM
Ok, Nephthys...I think I'll do that, as another Virgo pal (the inital receiver of the apology) also suggested that. She said it's not like I won't see him again. Besides, I really need to get the apology face-to-face and letting him be the one to initiate it would be the only easy to accomplish that. I know not to fall for him again or anything, but the apology would mean an awful lot if its really sincere.I would consider "friends" territory with him at some point, perhaps, if the opportunity ever presented itself, and he was able to handle it...
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-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
Nephthys
Moderator Posts: 3800
From: California
Registered: Oct 2001
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posted January 16, 2005 04:32 PM
 Good Luck   IP: Logged |
trillian
Knowflake Posts: 4050
From: The Boundless
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted January 16, 2005 04:47 PM
Nephthys, have you checked ebay and www.half.com? Often there are used copies that are very inexpensive. Amazon.com,too.Good luck with your love-life, VAA. I don't like to comment too much, because your relationships are approached in such a different way. I'm just saying there is a significant age difference between us, which changes perspectives a lot.  IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 1409
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted January 18, 2005 09:30 AM
Thanks for the luck, Nephthys and trillian. I can certainly use that as much as advice.IP: Logged |
Nephthys
Moderator Posts: 3800
From: California
Registered: Oct 2001
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posted January 18, 2005 10:18 PM
Hi Trillian! Yes! Actually, I did check and I have been checking frequently both places ~ they are competitively around $9-10-11 ish lately, + shipping of about $3, so I'm still waiting for it to go down. There was one on E-by for $6.50 but I never win auctions so I didn't want to get my hopes up over that one. IP: Logged |
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