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Author Topic:   This is NOT a good way for a man to lower his own libido
pidaua
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posted January 20, 2005 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message

Reno man taken to hospital after self-castration procedure

Staff Report
RENO GAZETTE-JOURNAL
1/19/2005 10:23 pm




A 50-year-old Reno man told authorities he castrated himself to lower his libido and learned of the procedure on the Internet, police said.

Washoe Medical Center officials cited privacy issues on why they could not release any information on the man.

About 1:30 a.m. Monday, police said the man called 911 and asked for help because he could not stop the bleeding from a self-castration operation.

Reno police and medics responded to the man’s home near Brinkby Avenue and Robinhood Drive, and he was taken by ambulance to the hospital.

Hospital officials said the man successfully castrated himself, police reported. No further information was available.

“The man obviously needs some sort of counseling,” Reno police Lt. Ron Donnelly said.



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Philbird
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posted January 20, 2005 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Philbird     Edit/Delete Message
He may just well have a gambling problem!

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trillian
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posted January 20, 2005 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
My guess: he's a pedophile with remorse. A rarity.

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pidaua
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posted January 20, 2005 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
or maybe he is married to a woman that doesn't like a rousing game of hide the salami..LOL..

Sorry..I just can't imagine what went through his mind..I must follow up on this story

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virgotaurustaurus
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posted January 20, 2005 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgotaurustaurus     Edit/Delete Message
Maybe he's a woman who has been trapped in a man's body for years and years!

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Johnny
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posted January 20, 2005 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message
I guess that would probably work for what he wanted, though...

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delerious
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posted January 20, 2005 11:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for delerious     Edit/Delete Message
ewwwwwww.......

Can't imagine the self-control and determination it would take to do that to oneself!!!!! (it hurts and I don't even have a set of those )

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LibraSparkle
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posted January 20, 2005 11:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with Trillian.

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miss_apples
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posted January 21, 2005 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for miss_apples     Edit/Delete Message
All I can say is...ouch!

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lovely*
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posted January 21, 2005 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely*     Edit/Delete Message
actually i've heard castration is not all that painful. they use local anethesia if i recall (for vasectomy at least). it disgusts me to think this guy was a remorseful pedophile--but i think trillian is correct in her assesment.

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Moonshine9
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posted January 22, 2005 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonshine9     Edit/Delete Message
That's really horrible.
someone would want to inflict pain on themselves like that.
Maybe the guy was sexually molested himself and not a pedophile, many neither but we should never make assumptions about someone we know nothing about.
Remember Randall's quote!

Peace and Love

PS. Has anyone ever seen "The Realm of the Senses"? After hearing this story it took me back to that movie.
Poor dude.

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miss_apples
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posted January 22, 2005 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for miss_apples     Edit/Delete Message
But lovely, he casterated himself, I highly doubt he had any anethesia!

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trillian
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posted January 22, 2005 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
*shrugs* We always make assumptions about everything, no matter what.

My guess was actually a deduction, based on reading, studying, talking with people who work with pedophiles, and even visiting a pedophilia building at a local state prison. They are kept separate from the other inmates. There is no cure for pedophilia. None. The only thing close is the lowering of the libido. There are pedophiles (though few, as many cannot admit they have done anything wrong) who come to aggreeing that their sexual desires are abberant in our western civilization, and try to do something pro-active to preempt themselves from their behavior.

My further deduction was that he didn't do this as a masochist, to feel pain as any sort of pleasure, but again, as a means to an end (the end being the lowering of the libido).

I'm not a psychologist. I've no idea what really went on in his mind, and prefaced my post with "My guess is..." And my further guess is that while he may or may not have been molested as a child, it doesn't really fit any patterned behavior that I'm aware of as an act in response to that molestation. This wasn't so much an act of self-harming, as it was, again, as an attempted means to an end (the lowering of the libido).

If there is someone here with first hand experience, perhaps he or she can share more with us.

But we all make assumptions and deductions, Moonshine, whether we like it or not. You assumed it was terribe for that person to harm himself, but if he was trying to keep himself from molesting children, then it's not so terrible, is it? It may have been painful, he may have performed it incorrectly, but he was trying to achieve a higher good.

Peace.

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Moonshine9
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posted January 23, 2005 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonshine9     Edit/Delete Message
Your right Trillian, everyone does make assumptions and it's important to do that when we seek answers that make us question other peoples actions. I didn't mean to dispute what you were saying. I guess living with a lawyer, I can't help but do that!
No harm done?

Peace and Love

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trillian
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posted January 23, 2005 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
Of course no harm done, Moonshine. I was just clarifying my opinion, and an opinion is all I have. I'd like to know more about this case...

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maklhouf
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posted January 24, 2005 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maklhouf     Edit/Delete Message
It's not quite so rare as all that. Many people have performed drastic operations of all kinds on them selves. Look at it this way. You are convinced an operation is what you need. You go to your doctor and he says no way jose, in my opinion you don't need this op/ or you can't afford my fee.
What option do you then have?

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pixelpixie
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posted January 24, 2005 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Well.. one option would be, I assume, to cut off your happy bits.

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GingerB
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posted January 26, 2005 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GingerB     Edit/Delete Message
I'm just gonna *shake my head* here...

*shew*

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pidaua
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posted January 26, 2005 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
Unfortunately, there is no update on why he did it. I hate when the media puts out an article and then doesn't follow up..Bad Reno-Gazette....

I will keep looking though.

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maklhouf
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posted April 11, 2005 05:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maklhouf     Edit/Delete Message
A perfectly ordinary british woman has been talking to our "president", Tony B Liar, about how she had to pull out her own teeth wiht her husband's pliers owing to her inability to register with a dentist.They are as scarce as hens teeth on our National health service.

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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted April 14, 2005 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heart--Shaped Cross     Edit/Delete Message
For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake.
He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.

- Matthew 19;12

And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.

- Matthew 5;29

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fayte.m
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posted April 14, 2005 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
When my son was a pre-teen, one day he wanted to go out to the woods(some 200 acreas in back of where we lived. about a half mile away. Well, I usually let him, but that day something just felt very very bad. I told him absolutely NO, because something is very wrong there today. About two hours later the elderly lady up the road had a strange visitor. A man without pants and bloody from the waist to feet, with bloody hands shows up at her door! How she kept her composure, I'll never know! The man asked her to call a doctor. He said," maam, I need a doctor, I cut my penis off and I lost it." Well she threw him some towels and called for help! Seems he was an escapee from a mental institution and for some reason cut off his own penis while hiding in a little cabin in the woods. The very place my son had wanted to go to and I didn't let him that day!

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lalalinda
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posted April 14, 2005 01:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
right on for "mothers intuition"

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maklhouf
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posted June 16, 2005 08:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maklhouf     Edit/Delete Message
There was at one time a following of the idea that the brain did much better with more oxygen. Adherents of this beleif drilled holes in their own heads, having presumably, failed to persuade a doctor to do it for them.

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Saturn's Child
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posted June 16, 2005 12:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saturn's Child     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with Trillian, that this man may well be a pedophile or rapist with a guilty conscience...and yes, rare in both. However, if it's true that he was trying to lower his libido, he is misguided. The libido has little to do with the motives of the pedophile or rapist. It's a power thing. Sex is only the vehicle. They generally feel powerless and can gain power by preying on someone weaker. A pedophile does not need a penis or testicles to molest a child, nor does a rapist need them to sexually assualt. The only thing that will keep them from offending is to lock them up forever or kill them. Sad but true.

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