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Topic: she sent him back...
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Virgo-AriesArtist Knowflake Posts: 1409 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 17, 2005 03:10 PM
For those out here who knew anything at all about my home situation and littlest bro from out of state that my mom was constantly struggling with, well...she sent him back to his home-state a month ago, and it's been tearing me apart missing him...He is a little Pisces sun, Virgo moon, Saggitarius rising guy who's now 10. I know I complained sometimes about hating his behaviors, but I had grown to love him over the year and a half he was part of my family...and my mom and I are totally at odds now because I can't look at her and feel any real love. I fake it when necessary, but I can't stand the c*rap whe's put us all through with her lack of responsibility and crisis-addicted lifestyle. I could go on for half a page about the drama my family has gone through cause of her in the last 2 years, but I don't think anyone wants to hear it. I'm just hurting more right now, cause yesterday was his 10th birthday, and I couldn't wish him a happy b-day cause we're not in contact. **edited** He is/was a pre-adoptive brother, so nothing was 'offical' yet... ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
maya-v Knowflake Posts: 1534 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 17, 2005 03:29 PM
Aww VAA, I know exactly how it feels - my two yer old son is away from me and sometimes its so hard to believe there is anything good in the world.Dont worry, sweetie, the cosmos has great plans for all of us, and Im sure you will be able to getin touch with him and tellhim how much you love hima nd miss him somehow ... I often dream of my son and even though they make me restless, they assure me that he loves me and feels my love for him too. and loads of ((((((((((HUGS))))))))) Maya IP: Logged |
miss_apples Knowflake Posts: 632 From: white bear lake, MN, USA Registered: Oct 2004
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posted March 17, 2005 03:49 PM
Your mom sounds like my mom Virgo...maybe our moms should get togther for tea. Wait no, that would cause more anarchy!So you cant contact your brother at all? You cant even send him a letter? Im so sorry hun IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Knowflake Posts: 1409 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 17, 2005 03:54 PM
well, I got in touch with his caseworker today via e-mail, she says I can write him at her address and as long as my letters to him are "positive and encouraging", she will pass them along...sort of a good thing, I suppose...IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Knowflake Posts: 4992 From: Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 17, 2005 04:08 PM
Aww I am praying for my guardian to wrap you and the little Pisces in an additional layer of love and comfort with the ones already around you both. Hugs Amy IP: Logged |
trillian Knowflake Posts: 4050 From: The Boundless Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 17, 2005 04:25 PM
An angel for the young one... IP: Logged |
26taurus Knowflake Posts: 13411 From: * Registered: Jun 2004
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posted March 17, 2005 05:07 PM
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