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Topic: i need a wife
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monad Knowflake Posts: 366 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 04:55 AM
For survival and happiness(thats all) IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 05:19 AM
Are you sure you know what you are letting yourself in for - maybe better to settle for a loyal friend?? xIP: Logged |
monad Knowflake Posts: 366 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 08:20 AM
I need a Female HumanIP: Logged |
Danny Knowflake Posts: 210 From: I wanna be where you are Registered: Jan 2005
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posted March 20, 2005 08:24 AM
monad, as opposed to? IP: Logged |
monad Knowflake Posts: 366 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 08:36 AM
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neptune's mermaid Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 09:28 AM
monad, You’re definitely missing something in your life, but I don’t think a wife will change anything. Whatever it is that you’re missing…it can only be found within. There are no quick fixes ( OMG!! This sounds so cheesy I’m actually being sincere monad ) Look within…and think deeply on why you feel the way you do. You’ll find the answer there.Now excuse me, I’m off to find my lightsaber
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sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 11:06 AM
Ive been a wife three times and I bet if you spoke to lots of guys they wouldn't advocate getting one!!!! If youre in need of female company, you can always talk to us - I know its not like the real thing, but until we can magic you up a lovely woman??? xIP: Logged |
Philbird Knowflake Posts: 3396 From: Here, there and everywhere. Registered: Jun 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 11:12 AM
I need a wife too!IP: Logged |
monad Knowflake Posts: 366 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 12:11 PM
NM: My request is based on a perceived need. I believe I would die, alone. I also believe that it would be BETTER.SG: Thanks, I feel the Love . "I need a Woman, (for without her I would die)"
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virgotaurustaurus Knowflake Posts: 2474 From: upstate NY, USA Registered: Oct 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 12:26 PM
I need two wives...just because I am a pimp like that.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 5301 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted March 20, 2005 02:06 PM
ohh, VTT- daddy, I'll be yo' biatch.Monad~ Trust me, as a 'wife'... you don't want it. Sure, the loving times are nice, but man, if life were like that the world would be a much nicer place. Consider that 'wifey' will have the same thoughts and feelings you are expressing, even different ones, you will have to deal with and synthesize.. defintely not a panacea to your internal searching.. just more wood to add to a raging inferno.. maybe even gasoline. Find it within first, and then find it without. IP: Logged |
26taurus Knowflake Posts: 13411 From: * Registered: Jun 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 02:30 PM
VTT, Be careful what you wish for monad. And look at pixelpixie goin' all zen-like on us! It's true monad. Love yourself first. Sometimes the more you want something, the more you are pushing it away. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 5301 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted March 20, 2005 03:04 PM
no worries, I am still striking a balance, I did offer to be VTT's biatch in the preceeding sentance.... IP: Logged |
monad Knowflake Posts: 366 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 03:58 PM
I love myself. I have found Me. I need her now. It is better.IP: Logged |
neptune's mermaid Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 04:16 PM
whoa!! Okay girls Monad No one wants to grow old alone - but rushing marriage could leave you miserable. You’re relying on someone else to make you happy…a big mistake. Look at the Dalai Lama, he says he’s truly happy!! But he doesn’t have a woman I hope I’m not being disrespectful.
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BloodRedMoon Knowflake Posts: 932 From: somewhere out there Registered: Apr 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 08:11 PM
Seriously - be careful what you wish for. You might find out a wife is a huge pain in the ass.There's my dose of sunshine for the day IP: Logged |
26taurus Knowflake Posts: 13411 From: * Registered: Jun 2004
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posted March 20, 2005 08:26 PM
I knew you were going to say you love yourself monad. I'm sure you do. You also said you have found You. I think both of those things are never "done". "You" will change alot. "You" will keep "finding yourself" over the years. Don't be in such a rush or so needy for a wife. That will scare them away. You arent missing a wife, you are only missing something within yourself that you are searching for in someone else. That is very dangerous and asking for unhappiness. Sure we all want to be with our soulmates but until you can be happy alone, you will never be happy with someone else. Fill yourself up so you can properly fill another. "I need her now" .....Figure out what you really need. It is not a wife. You are looking to express yourself through another. That is all. You want someone to love you and you want to play "husband". Romantic fantasies are not all they are cracked up to be. If you want something bad enough you might get it but if you are not ready, you are going to learn some hard lessons. Trust me. I also thought I was "ready or done - found myself" many times, but found out otherwise. Have a few long term relationships before you go off and marry someone. You just might change your mind. All the best to you monad. If it is your time, love will track you down like a cruise missile. -Lynda Barry Busy yourself with life and the rest will fall into place. Be passionate about other things while you wait for "the one" and when the time is right, it will happen. Love comes when you least expect it. IP: Logged |
14stars Knowflake Posts: 88 From: between the line Registered: Jan 2005
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posted March 21, 2005 04:04 AM
I agree with 26 taurus. ~~~Busy yourself with life and the rest will fall into place. Be passionate about other things while you wait for "the one" and when the time is right, it will happen. Love comes when you least expect it.~~~ + seriouly be carful of what you wish .IP: Logged |
Danny Knowflake Posts: 210 From: I wanna be where you are Registered: Jan 2005
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posted March 21, 2005 12:34 PM
It doesnt need to get complicated. All the guy says is he needs a wife. No biggie.I would love to have soemone pop into my life who I want to spend the rest of my life with. It doesnt mean I want all the BS that that stands for these days. I want a husband in the purset sense of the word. I could get all technically and wordy.........but I'm not gonna. IP: Logged |
26taurus Knowflake Posts: 13411 From: * Registered: Jun 2004
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posted March 21, 2005 12:38 PM
And all I did was give him some advice. Same advice I have given myself and I dont think it was too complicated. You dont need to agree with it. No biggie. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 5301 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted March 21, 2005 01:20 PM
I want a pony.IP: Logged |
26taurus Knowflake Posts: 13411 From: * Registered: Jun 2004
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posted March 21, 2005 01:25 PM
I wanna big tall glass of cocke. IP: Logged |
Philbird Knowflake Posts: 3396 From: Here, there and everywhere. Registered: Jun 2004
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posted March 21, 2005 01:38 PM
Hey pix, you're as good as I am putting a blunt end to threads! IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 5301 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted March 21, 2005 01:48 PM
I want a big glass of.. ah, never mind, you beat me to it, horny bull..... Hiya Phillie-birdie. There's a pretty bird. Blunt end? Nah, don't smoke much reefer anymore.IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Knowflake Posts: 4992 From: Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 21, 2005 03:08 PM
It's pretty rare for a Dude to vent about the opposite sex.So kudos for Monad! I hear ya. It's a lot of work finding the right match, but eventually it will happen. Take care and best wishes. IP: Logged |