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posted April 15, 2005 02:26 PM         

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I want to now! (GOD IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS!!!!)
I've known of him for a while but am just starting to know him for a couple of weeks and technically we aren't anything yet, but I prolly just want an excuse to talk about my crush!

LoL I'm lame, like a lil school girl!
Pixie doesn't want me anymore, she has become one of the "Sex Goddesses of Linda Land" and forgot about us little people that were with her when she was a mere Peter Pan charachter

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posted April 15, 2005 02:36 PM         

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I could not wait a minute when I met the right person. lol

Follow your heart!

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posted April 15, 2005 02:40 PM         

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LoL it's hard to follow your hard when other parts of your body are yelling

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posted April 15, 2005 02:42 PM         

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Follow your heart is right... or whatever strikes your fancy at any given moment. If you wanna, then do... just be safe and smart about it.

Ghani

...go get yours, girl

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posted April 15, 2005 02:47 PM         

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yeppper!!! Listen to Ghani! you don't have to be in love to DO IT!!

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posted April 15, 2005 02:47 PM         

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LoL thank you, love

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posted April 15, 2005 03:35 PM         

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ya.. wha... huh...?

Whaddya' mean?
Me?
Come here and gimme some lovin' then.....

Oh, go eff yer brains out..
j/k..
give it a while, your body is a temple and all that. Is that what I should say?
Yes, don't give up the wooey already.. That is the conservative and smart thing to do.
I never give it up right away. Nup.
Un-nuh, no way... gosh no... um...

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posted April 15, 2005 03:49 PM         

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LoL it's hard to follow your "hard" when other parts of your body are yelling

Sounds like advice a man might give?

There really isn't any hurry, is there. If all you want is a one-night stand, go for it. However, if you want to develop a relationship, slow down some.

Personally, I never respected a lady that was too fast off the starting gun. Which is not to say that I wasn't happy to have a tummble, but I never thought of it as more than that. With relationships where our friendship had time to develop, most relationships lasted for a much lomger time.

Just a man's prespective.

Lanny

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posted April 15, 2005 03:53 PM         

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if a chick is hot enough to you to approach, if you are interested enough to pursue, if things are going well, then who's to say that 'giving it up' will then change all that? What was there in the first place? Does that go away once you play?
Not in my opinion.
It's the icing on a delectable cake, and if both parties are in party mode, it can also be the glue.

*edited to say..
break out the streamers!! *and tie him up with them*

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posted April 15, 2005 04:32 PM           

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Three days.

Worked for me

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posted April 15, 2005 04:32 PM           

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(And, no, we didn't plan it that way...we were just that hot.)

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posted April 15, 2005 04:34 PM           

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Addendum: I mean, because I waited from highschool til we were 22 for one (if you're liberal about it - we knew each other in HS and then met again later) and nearly a year for another. Neither of those worked out.

I married the three-day-er.

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posted April 15, 2005 04:36 PM         

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I think I'm gonna wait.

But remember you guys, the KEY is 2 YEARS!

So if he's wearing some Issey Miyake and he
messes with my earlobe or DARES to say anything in spanish . . . . .

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posted April 15, 2005 09:00 PM           

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*so out of the loop that she has no idea what/who Issey Miyake is*

2 years, three day, same diff

Seriously, you're right - go with your soul on this one.

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posted April 15, 2005 09:37 PM         

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Follow your instincts, when you're really ready, and there is absolutely no hurry!

-StarLover

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posted April 15, 2005 09:55 PM         

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You guys are the best

BTW, proxieme, that's a cologne

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posted April 15, 2005 11:01 PM         

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I've never been able to commit to a man. The guy I'm dating now made me wait for him. Okay, it was five weeks, but it really felt like forever! We were spending nearly every day together. In any case... this is the most committed I've ever been! The waiting game worked on me. Just my two cents.

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posted April 16, 2005 01:41 AM         

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What does 'waiting' mean?

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And I skate on a knife on a wire ~ That is strung from this song to a distant shore ~ And then I say Intuition is just another phase of chance While we're crawling through the old pyramid's floors
(little pharaohs)

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posted April 16, 2005 01:42 AM         

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Whoa nelly!

I love Issei Miyake. I wear the women's version. Kissing on the ear lobe? Spanish?

May be it's because I've had too much Sangria to drink tonight, but eh . . . but if the chemistry is good, and the love is mutual . . . why not?

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posted April 16, 2005 08:29 AM         

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Oh Marcia what are we going to do with you, huh?
LOL I like your posts

Two years!!!!!! Ummm ok
It all depends on what you want…as in, in the long run. If it’s a one night stand go for it, why not?? You’re an adult…I’m assuming.

But if you actually want something to come out of this then maybe you should be patient.

Honestly if it were me, I would go for it.

• To get what I want
  
• To find out what he’s like - you learn a lot about people using this method Perhaps it’s a fish thing. Plus, you can find out if he’s any good. Think about it, you spend months with this person, but in the end it turns out you’re not…um…compatible in that way.
  
• If he dumps me i.e. he was useless and couldn’t face me again, then the hell with him. I can do soooo much better.
  

But honestly, if I were you I wouldn’t do this. I’m incredibly detached when it comes to relationships, you appear much more gentle in that area…so you should probably wait.

You know what, ok I’m sorry but, if someone dumped me or lost respect for me - for doing exactly what they were doing - then he can just……………………. sorry, but I’m a lady in the street.

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posted April 16, 2005 09:53 AM         

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posted April 16, 2005 11:25 AM         

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Neptune's Mermaid,
LoL everytime I read your posts I imagine this cute lil woman with a cute lil British accent. How do I seem gentle at all? I always imagined that you guys see me as this big mean NYer LoL.
Well you're right, I am gentle, so gentle that it scares me and I wind up doing all these weird things in order to either make the person so angry that he'll flip out on me so that I have an excuse to dump him, or I just fill things up with dumb comments and sarcasm to cover uphow much I like the guy. I post this damned thing making it seem like sex is just fun and action, but then I contradict myself by saying it's been 2 years, duh, stupid Marcia, it IS important to you or else you wouldn't have been celibate for that long!!!
So yeah it's a big deal, it's a huge deal!
So in that aspect the last thing I am is an adult. I'm so afraid of my emotions. Do you get what I mean?

Fayte, LoL, God you're one of them oldies but newbies, you fit here perfectly,like a puzzle I'm becoming very fond of you!
Yeah, you're right about me not being ready
and the "other thing" too

Oh the earlobe thing . . .for some reason if anyone licks or sucks my earlobe I will lose it. That's also the same for Spanish (I'm used to dealing with hispanic guys) I love hearing a man speak spanish (not the Zoro stuff, just regular old Bronx broken Spanish LoL)

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posted April 16, 2005 12:36 PM         

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Masterbate on it... if you don't think he could live up to your fantasies, I say keep your hand busy till they get boring. Then go for the guy! MMMMMMHHHHHHHHWWWWWWWWAAAAAAA!

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posted April 16, 2005 01:34 PM         

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posted April 16, 2005 02:13 PM         

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Point and shoot is what I want!

Ummmm, Phirdy don't you dare make any comments (you have a potty mind)

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