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posted August 12, 2005 01:14 AM         

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1) to let the man of your dreams walk away.
2) to be completely honest with yourelf.
3) to see the world around you for what it is.
4) to keep on smiling when you've got nothing left to smile for.
5) to watch the ones you love most hurt because you hurt.
6) to feel yourself change slowly but surely into a person you never thought you'd become.
7) to slap yourself to wake up.
8) to remember there is a great big world out there.
9) to look at pictures of the past and not feel the urge to cry.
10) to remember where you put each person that touched your life in your heart.
Finally...it takes alot to admit you are wrong but to also remember that the mistakes of the past can only be forgiven but they can never be taken back.
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I'm so tired right now..lol. My brain is fried and I don't think I've slept a full night through in gawd knows how long. I wrote this tonight hoping to realize that I need to take my own advice...still haven't figured out if I'm right but we'll see. Love hurts..but only if you let it and for some reason unbeknownst to me..I have let it.
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Kt

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love is not love which alters when it alteration finds, or bends with the remover to remove.
William Shakespeare

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posted August 12, 2005 08:00 AM         

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It is hard, Kt! We learn much from mistakes and pain. Time will heal most wounds.

to you and yours!!

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posted August 12, 2005 11:28 AM         

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“brain is fried” that is when you get the best ideas

That was lovely And yes time is a great healer. Hope you get some rest.

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posted August 12, 2005 11:41 AM         

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Love hurts if you let it?

No, no, sweetie. It can hurt, and you shouldn't stop it.

Work through the hurt, and you will be stronger because of it.

I think the best thing you can do is allow yourself to hurt. Identify why you are hurting... and just feel it.

Feeling pain (and not suppressing it) is the healthiest way of releasing it.

If you don't let your hurt hurt, it will never heal.

Look at those pictures from the past and have a good cry. Crying is very cleansing.

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posted August 12, 2005 11:48 AM         

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LS is right..walk right into the pain, wallow around in it with some chocolate, cry about it...let the tears wash it away, then when you're done, get up have a nice shower...wash it off you, and get back out there into life!!

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posted August 12, 2005 02:30 PM         

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Wise words L.S.!

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posted August 12, 2005 05:08 PM         

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Ditto.

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