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Topic: Sue, I need your help!
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Peri
Moderator Posts: 2447
From: Kyiv, Ukraine
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted November 15, 2005 02:33 AM
 
hey Sue  I think it's time for me to join I-need-your-help-dear-Sue club  I need your wisdom and advice to help me to protect my mom. There is some insane woman at my mom's work that has been harrasing the life out of her (and some other people too!), kicking up quarrels and saying/reporting nasty things about my mom (including mom's boss and other colleagues) to their superiors. The thing that really scares me is my mom gets very upset because of all that while she must not worry because she is cardiac!  Maybe there is anything I can do to help her? Any advice is very welcome. Thanks.  IP: Logged |
Iqhunk
Knowflake Posts: 2132
From: Chennai
Registered: Oct 2005
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posted November 15, 2005 04:19 AM
Hi Peri,
I am sure Sue will give great advice but here is something complementary.
Ask your Mom to wear deep Violet clothing to work and mentally imagine that she is surrounded by a violet color bubble before she goes to work. Every day. The harasser will back off. IP: Logged |
delerious
Knowflake Posts: 800
From:
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted November 15, 2005 04:55 AM
dear peri, your mom is a worry wort like most in her generation.... (must have cancer in her chart)we all have to deal with gossip
it rots
maybe tell her no matter what people say she knows the truth about herself...... they make things up anyways so give them something to talk about !!!! she needs to be brave enough to take action if is being harrased at work or just get a new job, nobody deserves that abuse.... IP: Logged |
delerious
Knowflake Posts: 800
From:
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted November 15, 2005 05:13 AM
also wanted to add as a PS if she can't deal with it properly don't take it upon yourself + make yourself sick over it  might just be her karma has to deal with - don't let it freak you out.... IP: Logged |
Peri
Moderator Posts: 2447
From: Kyiv, Ukraine
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted November 15, 2005 05:39 AM
Iqhunk Thanks for your advice but I have already asked her to try and do it! She is too frustrated to be able to protect herself. Delerious My mom is Leo Sun/Cappy Moon/Sag rising with a stellium in VIII. She can't deal with it properly because she is ill (she has heart trouble) not because it is something common for her generation I think (she has Mars retrograde in Cancer though). If she was in good health I would not get sick over it really. I have Sun conj IC  I guess cannot separate my karma from hers(or dad's). Anyway, thank you both for your kind words.
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8591
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 15, 2005 03:31 PM
Sorry to hear about yer mum girl.....I can only reiterate what the others guys have said really....she needs to learn to protect herself, its not really your job to mind her......  If it was my mum, I would imagine a white light around her when she was leaving for work and of course say a prayer for her.......but she really needs to mind herself better....maybe speak out more or at least remove herself from the negative environment. You have yerself to look after........ Good luck..... love Sue xxx IP: Logged |
Peri
Moderator Posts: 2447
From: Kyiv, Ukraine
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted November 16, 2005 01:50 AM
thanks Sue, I will try and talk to her again, you are right guys. IP: Logged |
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