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Topic: I'm frustrated. Can anyone think of something good to hit?
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The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 1451
From: England
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted December 23, 2005 10:12 AM
 
I'm really really peeved. Like practically crying tears of frustration.My Aries Moon has taken over for now and wants to deal with this the only way it knows how. I really want to hit something! But unfortunately he is not nearby so something will have to substitute for his face and/or groin. Any suggestions? Preferably not living/without teeth, not hard or painful to hit. IP: Logged |
thirteen
Knowflake Posts: 1107
From: Rochester Hills, MI USA
Registered: May 2004
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posted December 23, 2005 10:57 AM
Hit the air with your foot.Turn the chair around and kick up a hissy fit.
Sorry for the problems. I think x-mas time brings a lot of crap to the surface.
I hate to say this but I am feeling bettr today because I only have 2 days of putting up with people I don't care to see and then its my time. I hate hating xmas.IP: Logged |
neptune's mermaid
Knowflake Posts: 1069
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Registered: Dec 2004
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posted December 23, 2005 06:49 PM
I know the feeling…mars in Aries in 1st here - tho I don’t want to hit anyone right now!!
Have you tried exercising or dancing? yes I said dancing  I know dancing is good with Aries ascendants, so it might work.IP: Logged |
hot_ice
Knowflake Posts: 1012
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Registered: Oct 2004
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posted December 23, 2005 11:18 PM
The last time I got angry I broke my mouse and my modem,tried pillow yet?i throw my pilow around punch it soc it....or turn up the volume play some limp bizkit or any screaming guitar songs.....anD SCREAMM!!! That really helps... Or I play god of war or devil may cry,feels good to kick digital @&&! Or the best....go out and break the guys nose....in my opinion the best way to deal with pent up anger,when its on someone... Last resort...goto sleep IP: Logged |
future_uncertain
Knowflake Posts: 2681
From: ohio
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted December 24, 2005 12:24 AM
Neptune's Mermaid?!Not to hit!  I was distracted! I like to break things when I'm angry. It's not pretty, and it's not big of me. But sometimes I can't help it. Glass is especially soothing... IP: Logged |
funkyaquarianpixie
Knowflake Posts: 325
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Registered: Aug 2005
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posted December 24, 2005 08:19 AM
glass bottles against the wall is great therapy..mars conjunct asc here lol! IP: Logged |
Lauren
Knowflake Posts: 1158
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Registered: Aug 2005
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posted December 24, 2005 08:38 AM
Watch something really funny. Listen to music that makes you smile and calms you. Or you can always get a punching bag.. take a kickboxing class, something that burns all the extra energy(fire)
In the mean time.. Hit him!! jk, don't.. You can slap him though.. if you really want to.. Not hard.. he might sue you (this *is* the cap right?).. careful not to leave marks.. long nails? it's a no no
K and after you hit him, remember it never happened.. and make sure no one sees it.. just in case heehee, na but seriously I'm kidding IP: Logged |
ariestiger
Knowflake Posts: 1136
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted December 24, 2005 10:01 AM
Even better - say to yourself: "I do not need to hit or break anything. I do not need to upset myself over this guy (or anyone else). Sod him!" And then go out for a good walk and be especially nice to all the people you meet.  AT IP: Logged |
neptune's mermaid
Knowflake Posts: 1069
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Registered: Dec 2004
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posted December 24, 2005 10:54 AM
lol hi future  IP: Logged |
steelrose
Knowflake Posts: 810
From: Spain
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 24, 2005 11:33 AM
Place a big cushion on the couch and punch it really hard. Until you are exhausted.Go somewhere isolated in the contryside, drive away to a remote place and yell. Fill your lungs deeply and feel them close to burning when you shout. For the stars to be able to hear you. Play gothic-like music or hard rock. Sing it… Yes, dancing is a good idea, especially if it’s fast moving and you get tired and sweating at the end… Visualise yourself riding a horse very fast. Or driving a high-speed car… Fighing with a sword… Or even better, visualise him and tell him what you’d want him to hear that you don’t dare or can’t say in a real situation…
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Iqhunk
Knowflake Posts: 2132
From: Chennai
Registered: Oct 2005
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posted December 24, 2005 12:20 PM
Just think of the weakest and most helpless little baby abandoned somewhere in Africa or Asia and think what healing thoughts you can send out to enable some love/affection to reach this child. This exercise will automatically help transmute your pent up anger into a positive energy and will uplift you several notches as a human being.
Try it.IP: Logged |
hot_ice
Knowflake Posts: 1012
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Registered: Oct 2004
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posted December 24, 2005 05:47 PM
hey iqhunk,that make her anger worse,She'lll think about how bad the world is and how cruel it is,and become even more angry!!!Have you tried making a dart board? print out a pic of who your angry with and throw darts on it!! or better yet, rip it up! IP: Logged |
hot_ice
Knowflake Posts: 1012
From:
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted December 24, 2005 05:50 PM
Or call up the person your angry with and irritate him,why should you be the angry one,get some company,Call up and tell the person that god forgives him for all his sins,you fogive,and damancy katamari still loves him and other absolute nonsensical **** !!Aaaahhh the pride that flows through you when he/she slams tha phone down.... IP: Logged |
nove731
Knowflake Posts: 943
From: Antioch, Tennessee, USA
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted December 24, 2005 08:11 PM
quote:
I know dancing is good with Aries ascendants, so it might work.
I agree with this suggestion. I'm a horrible dancer, but it still works pretty well for me. I just turn up the music really loud, and dance to it in my room until all my energy is spent. I used to just force myself to go to sleep...but the dancing works better. IP: Logged |
Rainbow~
Knowflake Posts: 5927
From: The Little River Indian Reservation
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted December 24, 2005 08:53 PM
H I T ~ ~ T H I S !   IP: Logged |
Johnny
Knowflake Posts: 2056
From: Colorado, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted December 24, 2005 09:53 PM
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hot_ice
Knowflake Posts: 1012
From:
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted December 26, 2005 05:01 AM
so did ya' hit anything muta?IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 1451
From: England
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted December 26, 2005 10:03 AM
Thanks to everyone for the advice... pleasantly varied! 
Thank you thirteen, NM, hot_ice, future_uncertain, funkyaquarianpixie, Lauren, ariestiger, steelrose, Iqhunk, nove, Rainbow and Johnny....
So everyone who's posted. It's nice to get replies  Good suggestions! I've tried a few of those. Many a pillow has felt the wrath of my fist. Dancing I do only when I'm happy usually, although I could try that next time... Lauren, yeah, it's him, but he hasn't doneanything so he doesn't really warrant a punch in the face. He's just pretty much blunt and oblivious to the way I feel sometimes but then he can't be blamed cos I'm damn cryptic and, well, he is a guy after all.
hot_ice- "hey iqhunk,that make her anger worse" I'll wait til I'm cross again and see! IP: Logged |
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