posted March 26, 2006 01:56 PM         

I used to be with a Scorpio guy (sun, moon, Venus, mercury) but he broke my heart and THEN told his friends, and a few other people, VERY bad things about me that weren’t true. I spent two months planning my revenge and then finally, Monday morning, I put it in action.

Monday Morning:
I went up to Garren and asked him if I could get in his car with him and leave school for a couple of hours. I expected him to say yes, but I was prepared for a no. He said “No you’ll get caught and I’ll be the one to blame for it all. Plus you’ll get suspended.”
Me: “It’s just ONE day, Garren. I won’t get caught after only one day.” (though I knew I would- that was the point)
Him: “Yeah you would. You’re a good girl, I don’t want you to get in trouble.” bullsh*t . HE doesn’t want to get in trouble. “I have been caught every time skipped school.”
Then I took his arm and yanked him to make him stop walking. I got in front of him and said “I want you, and I can’t show you that in public.” And I sent him a sexy message through my eyes. We used to always do that. Brain wave speak, lol.
Him: “Maybe tomorrow. Not today.”
Then I left him with that.

Tuesday- I didn’t go to see him on Tuesday. I wanted to give him another day to think about what it would be like taking me with him.

Wednesday- I DID go down to see him today to give him another shot at letting me come with him.
Me: “So…have you changed your mind yet?” I sent him another brain wave message.
Him: “No, Darlene. It’s not going down. Don’t ask me again.”
Then we made small talk while walking to his car.
He said “I’m not letting you get in my car.”
Me: “I know…I just want to show you something.”
Him: “What?”
Me: “Some pictures.”
Him: “Alright.” He sat down in his car but the door was open and I had my hand and chin rested on the corner of the car door. “Where are they?”
I took them out of my purse. My friend took them of me, they were pretty suggestive photos. Now I don’t usually take half-naked pictures, but they were part of the plan.
As he looked through them, I could tell he was getting aroused. I said “I took them for you. You’re the only person that can see them.”
He looked at me for a minute, and I had a devilish grin on my face. “They’re pretty” Was all he said.
Then I took them back and walked away.

Thursday- Saw Garren but didn’t I didn’t speak. I just touched his arm and gave him a slight smile.

Friday morning- He was waiting for ME today. He hasn’t done this in months.
Him: “Alright you can come with me today. But my name better not be brought up if you get caught.”
Me: “Don’t worry so much.”

Then we made it to his car. After we left, he tried to get me to ‘fall back in love’ with him, but I wasn’t about to do that. I told him:
”I know you think I’m just young and naïve, but I’m not. I was fooling you the whole time. Now you’re trying to sweet talk me into dating you again so you can take my virginity and then dump me again. You really shouldn’t tell people what you plan to do because it all gets back to me.”
We talked about that for a while. Then it was time to go back to school.

During 4th period, I got called to the office. I had been caught, or, should I say, HE had been caught.
Mrs. St. Laurence asked me : “Did you skip 2nd period?”
Me: “yes, ma’am. I didn’t want to. Garren made me go with him. He’s my ex boyfriend, and he said that if I didn’t, he would spread rumors about me.”
Her: “Garren Tidwell?”
Me: “Yes Ma’am.”
So she called him down to her office and asked him about all this while I was sitting there.
Him: “What?? That’s a lie! She’s been asking me to take her since Monday!”
Me: “No he’s been asking me and then finally he threatened me. I know how fast gossip spreads in this school, and if I didn’t make him happy, no one would like me.”
I saw him look over at me through the corner of my eye, but I just kept looking ahead like I was afraid.

She believed my case and now he’s got a ten-day suspension, plus it goes on his record and he’s getting ready to graduate. Hahahaha!

As we were leaving he said “You f*cking b*tch you planned all this out, didn’t you? I hate you so f*cking much. Don’t think you’re going to win this. Now I’m the one getting in trouble because you think it’s funny to make me look like some godd*mn psychopath!!”
Me: “You shouldn’t have done all that to me.”
Him: practically yelling but trying to keep it down since we were at school. “You stay the h*ll away from me, Darlene. You’re godd*mn lucky I don’t kill you for this! YOU DESERVE ANOTHER SMACK IN THE FACE FOR THIS! YOU KNOW WHAT? THIS TIME IT"S GONNA BE A PUNCH IN THE FACE MUCH HARDER THAN LAST TIME I HAD TO TEACH YOU A LESSON!"

posted March 26, 2006 02:20 PM         

Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind. Juvenal

Revenge is the naked idol of the worship of a semi-barbarous age. Percy Bysshe Shelley

Revenge is profitable, gratitude is expensive. Edward Gibbon

A man that studieth revenge keeps his own wounds green. Francis Bacon

There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness. Josh Billings

Life being what it is, one dreams of revenge. Paul Gauguin

Men should be either treated generously or destroyed, because they take revenge for slight injuries - for heavy ones they cannot. Niccolo Machiavelli

While seeking revenge, dig two graves - one for yourself. Doug Horton

Nothing inspires forgiveness quite like revenge. Scott Adams

posted March 26, 2006 02:57 PM         

I hope you're proud of a stupid immature victory.
Get over it, people do jeuvenile things in highschool, messing with someone's record is not the same as a few rumours, that any thinking person knows is only a rumour and should be ignored.. setting someone up and lying is incredibly innappropriate, and I hope you come clean. Your innocent act will be seen through eventually.... and you will shoot yourself in the foot because of it.

Scorpio/non-scorpio.... sure he's an ******* ... get over it, be happy he isn't in your life. Leave it alone.
I sure hope you grow up soon so you don't feel 'pride' over such a horrid thing.

posted March 26, 2006 03:06 PM         

I kind of tricked someone once, actually it was my own mother (though I didn't land her in the sort of mess that you are describing), because she had given me years of heartache and I wasn't sorry since I figured it couldn't happen to a nicer person and yes, I did (and still do) believe her to be evil...I can still live with myself, but the situation didn't make me any happier...fact, it made me quite ill. Being totally honest about the way I felt about her and the kind of relationship I wanted to have with her was the key to improvement, not revenge.

Aren't you a Virgo? I have a Virgo Asc...perhaps we have a strong desire to see justice done...

AT

posted March 26, 2006 03:19 PM         

He hurt me so badly, I had to get him back somehow. Though it doesn't seem immature to me. I think he deserves every last bit of it from the way he treated me and all his other ex girlfriends. Maybe I shouldn't have told you all this without you guys knowing the whole story behind this guy.

arietiger- I thought about telling lies about him, but I didn't feel that was bad enough. I do feel kind of sick about all this now. What if it gets too out of hand? I mean, he does out rule me with the scorpio placements.

Pix- He was never out of my life. He still continued to torture me by calling one day saying he was sorry and then the next thing I know he's telling someone his sick plan of messing with my emotions. I've been trying to ignore it, but I felt that I wanted him to think I was strong. I knew he thought I was weak, and that's why he did everything. He knew he had complete control over me and I hated that.

posted March 26, 2006 03:46 PM         

I'd smack you too, and I am a woman who doesn't smack people.

posted March 26, 2006 03:48 PM         

I believe you will be apt to feel your hairs prickle on the back of your neck for a long time to come......

posted March 26, 2006 04:12 PM         

But I'm a firm believer in self-control. We've a choice. Sometimes when things really get out of hand, I lose my temper and act barbaric (verbally though not physically). Now you've done what you've done, but I think you should be straight and upfront about it. Do whatever you can to fix the whole thing. It will be hard but believe me you'll be so much better off after this. You should go tell the administrator that it was your fault and not his fault and you should go to him and communicate, clarify why you did what you did. The thing is people will spread rumors about you all the time, but the best way to get revenge on them (IMHO) is to be totally UNAFFECTED and bored with it. If he sees that its not working, he'll stop it. Spoiling his college record is a very drastic way of getting revenge.

Anyways you're human, and you've made a mistake, it happens . I've done some pretty pathetic things in my life too. I believe such kind of big mistakes actually teach you stuff about life. I believe you'll never make the same mistake again . Like for example When I was young I used to blow the hair-dryer on my face, cause it felt nice, and I felt a serious addiction to it. I used to use the hair-dryer all the time, use to steal the hair-dryer just for you know blowing the air to my face, and one day, the hair dryer wasn't working properly and in the process it burst and my hand got burnt real badly. It did burn my hand but it taught me a really valuable lesson, and so I didn't repeat the mistake at all.

Good luck

posted March 26, 2006 04:15 PM         

I'm a Scorpio and you know how I get "revenge"? I do nothing. Because someone like that guy you're talking about will bring himself down all by himself without any help from you - it's only a matter of time. If you see through his manipulations, don't you think it's only a matter of time before everyone else does too?

Sounds like he's conniving...and as someone else pointed out, you have just lowered yourself to his level by playing "get back".

The best way you have to show that he doesn't have power over you is to pretend he doesn't exist. By exacting revenge, you show that he STILL has power over you - power to **** you off so much that you lower yourself to his level to try and hurt him back. You give him the power by feeding into his petty BS.

Not to mention, you've just made yourself an enemy - do you really think this is going to stop here? Sounds like you've really ****** him off, and he's a young Scorpio who doesn't sound too evolved...you think it's over now? Do you really think that a unevolved Scorpio is going to let this go? You could have stopped the downward spiral of "get backs", but now you've just given it strength and momentum.

posted March 26, 2006 04:18 PM         

Read Zala's first post again. And think hard about the words there.

What you put out there, always comes back. Put good stuff out. Not more negativity.
Unless you want to live these kind of soap operas over and over again with different casts of characters.

posted March 26, 2006 04:19 PM         

I agree with Cappyme.
The only way to really fix anything is to admit to it.
I would tell the truth.. of course, you will bat your eyelashes and 'oopsie' your way through it as you see fit.... and feel free to mention the nature of it.. the start of the rumours and why you felt justified to get him in trouble to teach him a lesson.
The result is that you will most likely get into trouble yourself, but it is the honourable thing to do.... a growth experience.
I have a feeling this whole thing is bigger than you are deluding yourself with.

Admit it.
By the way, you have used last names and identifiable people on here....
Use your brain, would you?
More than pride at stake.

posted March 26, 2006 04:27 PM         

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I do nothing. Because someone like that guy you're talking about will bring himself down all by himself without any help from you - it's only a matter of time. If you see through his manipulations, don't you think it's only a matter of time before everyone else does too?

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posted March 26, 2006 04:33 PM         

Trust me, I was once a young, un-enlightened Scorpio...you do not want to know what deviousness lower level Scorpios are capable of.

I will pray for you, and him as well, and I hope others will do the same. You will need as much positive Light and Love, surrounding you both, as possible.

posted March 26, 2006 05:26 PM         

I should have left him from that point..

>>>>>Ok....
You should have never went near him again after that.
He was/is a creep...
But creeps do not respond well to having revenge done to them.
Maybe you will get lucky and he will leave you alone.
But leave him and the situation alone from hereon.

posted March 26, 2006 09:45 PM         

Fayte- yeah, I remember that. I tried to get away from it all but he kept apologizing and I couldn't leave. It was all just a big mess & it still is.

D*mn maybe I should have consulted with you guys before I acted on this whole "lets-see-if-I-can-break-the-ex-down" move.

Isis- Yeah I once talked about him with my mom (another scorpio sun & mars), and she said "If you act like he doesn't exist, he'll see that he doesn't bother you."
I thought that sounded rediculous. I finally understand it now that you've explained it a little better.

Now the thing that I'm afraid of, is Garren's way of never losing. He always used to say that he can't stand losing and it won't ever happen to him because he'll fight to win.

posted March 26, 2006 11:20 PM         

What's done is done, all any of us can do from what we do is learn from it and move forward.

I agree that from his past behaviour, is someone to stay away from. I know some people who hurt people and twist it around so they end up looking like they were the ones hurt, he sounds like one of those types.