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posted April 17, 2006 03:15 PM         

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There is NO perfect love, it is all relative!

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posted April 17, 2006 03:46 PM         

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There is no perfect love?!?!?!? Blasphemy!!!!

It depends on how forgiving you are of you lovers/friends/relatives faults. And they of yours

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posted April 17, 2006 09:29 PM         

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... and, sometimes even, of your own Then again,... what's your definition of 'Perfect'? Personally, I believe that to experience period, opposites or, some kind of polar force, is necessary.... without the darkness, how is light recognized? But, as I said, that be only my own opinion....

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posted April 17, 2006 11:54 PM         

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Hmmmmmmmmm........ I can define "true love".
True love is being honest with yourself, following your heart, being "true" to yourself. Take this truth of being true to yourself, and *share* it with someone else. With that significant other, be truely honest with one another, having common ideals, goals, interests and passions in life.
True love cannot be forced. It simply is.

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posted April 17, 2006 11:55 PM         

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True love is made of magnificent energies of being *fully open* with another, the "right stuff".........remember - it's in the "stars"........your personal planets must be compatible with his planets, and vice-versa and remember, synastry aspects never lie.
And love is FREE. Loving someone should never be at any cost of devalueing of your beliefs or your foundation of life. Full support should be given on both sides. Compromises should be small - not major.
Your intuition always knows. Follow that little voice inside!
I hope this helps, sorry if I went on too far.

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posted April 17, 2006 11:56 PM         

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(Sorry, I had to post this in 2 parts, because my computer won't let me post long posts. It always hangs up forever.)

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posted April 21, 2006 12:03 PM         

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What is perfect love?

Perfect= (according to dictionary.com)

1. Lacking nothing essential to the whole; complete of its nature or kind.
the only complete love you can feel ( I assume ) is through self love - the real kind, not the narcissistic kind
2. Being without defect or blemish: a perfect specimen.
this is what I was referring to in my first post. Loving someone so much, you look past their flaws. Babies have huge flaws…but not many people complain, and it’s normally overlooked.

Perhaps perfect love = universal love = self love = enlightenment
Or should that be the other way round?

Very true gemstone about forgiving your own faults.

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posted April 21, 2006 01:06 PM         

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perfect love?

my mothers love. she IS God for me!

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posted April 21, 2006 08:21 PM         

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no such thing..but if your talking close to that id say the love we have to have for ourselves..
if your talking with the opposite sex.. when it flows even with hiccups..it still flows.. ive had that and i miss it..
HUGS Aphrodite!! Big HUGS!!

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posted April 22, 2006 09:33 AM         

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Hmmm... in my opinion maybe unconditional love? As in 'I love you as you are, as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be..' ect.
Interesting topic!

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posted April 23, 2006 09:31 AM         

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Perfect love hmmm...I used think that perfect love was those GQ men.LOL,LOL.Boy was I wrong!.That was my teen years.Nowadays,at the age of 27,from what I've learned, looks can be deceiving .What may seem perfect on the outside,(physical appearances)doesn't necessarily means that person is "all that".Kinda like peeling the layers of an onion.Know what I mean?.

"Life is like a box chocolates,you just never know what your going to get"-Forrest Gump.

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posted April 23, 2006 12:20 PM         

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Perfect Love is Loving Unconditionally

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posted April 23, 2006 01:15 PM         

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aw! We're in agreement then Nephthys!?

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