posted June 21, 2006 12:23 PM         

There's his chart...not exactly sure why you need it, but there it is. Not sure about the time, but I think he has an Aquarius ascendant like me.

posted June 21, 2006 01:23 PM         

You seem to have a good head on yer shoulders for a person of your age! 1st thing I'd like to put out there for you is if it were one of your friends asking for the same advise from you, what would you tell them? After you think about that, substitute their name for yours and see what you come up with.

It's interesting that during the 1st part of life, the beginnings of love for the opposite sex, we do tend to look for someone else who is very similar to us. Just like you said he is perfect for you (how you are right now) and that he's the guy version of you. Then when we grow more we start looking for someone who is very different from ourselves, yet still complimentary, perhaps in order to grow even more.

Anyhoo, being opposite on things like math and stuff, who cares? Is math really important in the matters of love heheh?! If you've found someone whom you have a great liking for, and you have a great raport with, then why cut them off completely? If he is a true friend then you are not weighing him down and he will wait for you and will adjust to your 'pace'. I bet it's hard if you feel that you both know that you both like each other, but you must let things unfold naturally. Don't 'write the script' for yourself that you are holding him back from getting a 'real girlfriend'. He will do what he wants to do, so you need to as well. You set your boundaries girl and stick to them, if he likes ya he will wait and it won't matter cuz your intention isn't to be a burden or to be cruel. Your fear is steppin in a lil bit you need to take things a step at a time. When you feel the discomfort of your emotions, you are either re-living the past or projecting into the future too far. Keep in touch with him, communicate with him as best you can, but remember YOU set the pace. Good luck m'dear.