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eatbooks
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posted March 04, 2007 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eatbooks     Edit/Delete Message
not in a romantical sense, but something much deeper, anyone have a good poem on letting it go (that isnt about relationships)?

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pixelpixie
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posted March 04, 2007 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
There is this one, it's popular for a reason... it is a tad romance minded, but not really.....


After A While
by Veronica A. Shoffstall

After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn
that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of woman, not the grief of a child
and you learn
to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down
in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
you really are strong
you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodbye, you learn...

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pixelpixie
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posted March 04, 2007 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
I found this too.

LETTING GO TAKES LOVE

To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for,
but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny,
but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.

To let go is to fear less and love more
Remember: The time to love is short

------ author unknown

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pixelpixie
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posted March 04, 2007 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
This is beautiful.
http://www.aish.com/family/mensch/Letting_Go_.asp

I just googled letting go.

Lots came up.

I am thinking in terms of inspiration, you'll find no better than Tao te Ching.
http://www.mountainman.com.au/taotrans.html

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lalalinda
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posted March 04, 2007 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
The Serenity Prayer

"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
courage to change the things I can,
and wisdom to know the difference."

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