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posted May 01, 2008 04:56 PM         

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My boyfreind is really into in photography and is building a portfolio. He has done weddings and a few headshots of family and freinds. anyway, i ran into some dating sites and also some modeling sites that he was a member on. He never told me he was networking like this. It seemed flirtatious and i asked him about it and he said that it was just his way of being nice.
The modeling site has mainly female models which most aren't wearing much. anyway, i feel jealous. it is me..?

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posted May 01, 2008 05:06 PM         

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If it was me, I'd be annoyed!

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posted May 01, 2008 05:32 PM         

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This may be irrelevant but can you tell me the placements of your boyfriend? He sounds a lot like my ex. (He was a pisces with libra rising, cappy moon, pisces mercury, taurus venus and leo mars.)

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posted May 01, 2008 05:39 PM         

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placements.........

CANCER SUN
SAG MOON
CANCER ASC
VENUS LEO

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posted May 02, 2008 02:30 AM         

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Modelling sites I get, there's a connection of types there, but dating sites? What is he trying to achieve? If he wants to build up his portfolio there are more professional ways of going about it.

This reminds me of one of my friends who is into amateur photography and wanted to do some glamour shots. He showed me some, they were tastefully done. The model? His wife. She wasn't a lady you would expect to find in a modellling agency but he did a good job.

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posted May 02, 2008 08:42 PM         

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i told him that i would model for him idf he needed photos. he said ok but is still looking to do free photo sessions of women for his portfolio. i am just not sure how to deal with this.

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posted May 03, 2008 12:11 PM         

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No my dear he is not networking.

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posted May 03, 2008 12:45 PM         

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If he's networking on photography and modeling sites then that's totally understandable.

It makes no sense for him to be networking for photography on 'dating sites'. What do you consider a dating site, btw? Obviously if he's networking on Match.com or eHarmony.com then he's looking for a date and not a model.

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posted May 03, 2008 01:22 PM         

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ye-up.

I agree with the previous posters.
Just because Dr Phil says 'It's okay to look." doesn't mean you should.

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posted May 03, 2008 03:16 PM         

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well he dropped the dating sites he is on a site called ModelMayhem. check it out and give me or thoughts. he just thinks i have issues about this that are way out of context. thanks

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posted May 03, 2008 03:43 PM         

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"He never told me he was networking like this."

I would safely assume he's also not telling you other things.

What motivated you to go onto these sites? How did you find him?

Seems you already found the answers to your questions . . .

Good luck.

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