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posted January 14, 2009 01:32 PM         

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I can walk into a store, my breathing calm, my face pleasant, and someone will have a very strong reaction to me. It's startling.
Even in school, some kids bluntly didn't talk to me. They seemed to hate my guts. I could understand if I was a jerk, loudly and openly showing my perverseness, but I wasn't like that. We didn't even know each other.
This has become a big question in my life. I've been faced with strong reactions from people, and I'm downright confused. Sometimes I wish people would just leave me alone. They make me feel as if I'm some big, shaking mountain.
I have my own theories on what it is. Karmic implications, maybe. It might be something I'm not aware of. Anyone have any thoughts? I need some clarification.

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posted January 14, 2009 02:08 PM         

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People just project onto others, Fist. I'm pretty sure we all do it to an extent. It's often got nothing to do with you. A lot of people are completely unconscious about how they react to a person, and sometimes don't know why they react a certain way. You probably bring out feelings that they're not even aware they had. Or they feel threatened. You don't really have to say much or anything at all for people to have a reaction.

I get the same thing, btw. It's rarely anything neutral when people meet me. They either love me or can't stand me. And sometimes I really notice odd looks for no reason at all. Like a look of indignation. It's really bizarre, I don't get it. But I think it's just unconscious projections. Or maybe it's just extreme sensitivity on my part. So, yeah, I kind of get what you mean.

Of course, a lot of this can be resolved with your chart. Planets in first house or aspects to the ascendant. But no use walking that road

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posted January 14, 2009 02:22 PM         

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How do you present yourself to people? Do you look eccentric? Do you have an open and welcoming demeanor?

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posted January 14, 2009 02:25 PM         

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Hahahaha, no.
And I don't think looking 'eccentric' is enough for anyone to hate you.

Then again, not everyone that has a strong reaction to me hates me, but I do seem to startle people.
It's....really shaking my inner world.

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posted January 14, 2009 02:34 PM         

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Like yesterday. I had to pick up some papers from the hospital, so I went to the front desk. I asked this lady about an envelope, and as soon as our eyes met, she started freaking out. She looked like she was visibly sweating out of her pores, going from one end of the desk to the other, desperately trying to find those papers. I sort of stood there, watched this mess, and laughed inside myself because it was hilarious. I was creating some storm I never intended to.
I must have been more of an emergency than some of her patients.

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posted January 14, 2009 02:44 PM         

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Was it like Scanners? Did her head explode?

Honestly. Are you getting a kick out of people's reactions being that way, Fist? On some level, does it make you feel a small level of satisfaction? This is real question, btw.

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posted January 14, 2009 02:50 PM         

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I felt sadistic while she scrambled to help me, but it was completely puzzling. Why did she react that way?
My eyes weren't evil, I didn't sound angry, I wasn't looking around nervously. I simply asked a question.
This is getting really silly. That's why I laughed.

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posted January 14, 2009 02:52 PM         

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Other times, I wish people would have a little self-reflection. If you hate me but can't say why, I don't think you deserve the right to have that feeling.

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posted January 14, 2009 03:10 PM         

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I don't know.
Maybe you just project energy in a way which isn't obvious but is perceived unconsciously as threatening. It happens.
Use your powers for good, not for evil!
It's just a blessing in disguise.

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posted January 14, 2009 03:26 PM         

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It's what youre sending out.

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posted January 14, 2009 06:19 PM         

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In my case people who are guilty of something they have done or are planning to do react like that to me.
I have lost count of these reactions from people.
One of many examples...
I was at a store and made eye contact with a guy who freaked out.
I left the store without buying anything.
Later I read in the paper he robbed the store and a fast food place.
I can sense "bad intentions" and it drives guilty people nuts.
I often know what they are hiding.
It just flashes into my mind.
I hate crowds.
I pick up on too many people's guilt.

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posted January 14, 2009 06:23 PM         

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I still want to know what you look like. Do you wear all black? Maybe a trench coat? Hat? Are you hairy?

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posted January 14, 2009 06:30 PM         

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Do you wear all black? Maybe a trench coat? Hat? Are you hairy?

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Hmmmm....I would not be bothered by such.
Looks do not bother me unless accompanied by that sense and or flash vision warning of "bad news here"
Many well dressed so called lovely or handsome people have given me that creepy impression ....more often actually than the ones people label otherwise.

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posted January 14, 2009 06:48 PM         

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You're a maniac.
It's not rocket science.

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posted January 14, 2009 08:23 PM         

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Actually, I dress quite nicely.
I'm not speaking about negative reactions only. I've gotten some rather strange attention in the last few years, mostly too close for my taste.
In one instance, a woman was convinced we could be together. She passed by my house everyday with her dog. Finally, during Christmas time last year, she sent me a letter about her attraction for me. She somehow thought that I, too, was attracted, maybe by the way I noted her presence as she passed. I wasn't aware I had brought out those feelings in her.

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posted January 14, 2009 08:26 PM         

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I've had that kind of reaction too.
Even that can become unnerving or scary.
As you said:

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I've gotten some rather strange attention in the last few years, mostly too close for my taste.

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posted January 14, 2009 09:01 PM         

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Fist

What's in your first house? Sun conjunct Ascendant? Uranus aspecting what? Where's Venus?

Some people just emit certain qualities. That's quite a natural advantage to have. Use it wisely.

EDIT: Chances are you're probably a very good looking boy and that's all it comes down to.

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posted January 15, 2009 06:49 AM         

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Other times, I wish people would have a little self-reflection. If you hate me but can't say why, I don't think you deserve the right to have that feeling.

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fist, i can speak for myself;

first of all, i believe u are blueroamer; i like blueroamer style and when u develop your character of fist, by expressing yourself more than just a line, i see a similar wit;

so if u are, u know i like u.

the thing about my reaction to u, and that mean before i thought u were blueroamer, when i saw fist only as fist, i reacted to your attitude; u were obviously concerned by people otherwise u would not have bothered to open a thread about love and cheating, and read the whole post of GG. to me, that means that u are a loving person. but then you just bring up controversy, which to me is the trait of character that u want to play with the character of fist.

blueroamer is a sweet guy. reserved but always nice and polished; but where is the other side of him?

i believe BR and fist are one, i REALLY apologise to the two of them if i got it wrong.

i respect BR very much, im not the greatest fan of fist, but then i find him to be funny and laid back, so maybe my reaction to him is only due to the projection MVM was taling about; here projection is may be not the world, not sure, but i personally have problem to relate properly with people and may be i reacted to that.

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posted January 15, 2009 08:13 AM         

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First, I think you should change your name to Collective_Shadow

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posted January 15, 2009 12:03 PM         

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Think what you want, but our prints don't match.
I'd never use this forum to analyze myself.

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posted January 15, 2009 12:35 PM         

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my be u should

what do u mean by print

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posted January 15, 2009 12:37 PM         

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if i get what print mean, i got it with BR already. nevertheless i like u. cant stop because unrequited can i ?

dont matter.

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posted January 15, 2009 12:39 PM         

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no in fact it does, but nevermind

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posted January 16, 2009 01:34 PM         

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I don't think it's BR. I don't think anyone with Capricorn rising would choose "Fist of Legend" as their username.

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posted January 16, 2009 01:58 PM         

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