posted January 21, 2009 03:23 AM         

Particularly if you voted that you would put out for Chicken Soup Boy in the Militant Feminist Quiz. You need our help and friendship!

tell him to get stuffed because you are a vegetarian, the dirty bleeder.

posted January 21, 2009 03:32 AM         

Monsieur La Lune Bleue says the local boxer could do the job quicker, or alternatively he can offer his services but this is likely to leave me with a lump on my nose.

Hopefully the N.H.S will pull through.

posted January 21, 2009 03:39 AM         

Greetings Mr bm if you're reading. Your wife needs some tender love and attention. Even some feigned sympathies. No wonder she turns to Sean, Christian, James, Russell, Richard, Mellors, etc.

posted January 21, 2009 04:30 AM         

Mini-Moon #1 is a triple Libra and said: mommy you look more beautiful than before. I would say it if it wasn't true, but it is true anyway.

posted January 21, 2009 04:59 AM           

So do I .

The man is an NRI tycoon , much respected with a glamorous ex - beauty queen wife ( or so i thought ]

I crossed paths with him under the most wierd circumstances. An indian friend introduced me to a jaw - dropping gorgeous local Indian Lady, with 2 adorable daughters, a self made Fashion house that has everything from Versace to Armani flying off shelves. At 45 she makes me look like a scarecrow with her hot bod , flawless skin and joi-da-vivre.On knowing that i am a healer she asked me i could talk to a friend of hers...who had closed himself following some marital troubles and was drinking hard.

She told me he wouldnt accept help directly and if he knew it was she who had sent me he would clam up. she didnt explain any further so i dropped it. I was thus introduced to this man thru a common friend who was concerned like the lovely Lady , who we shall call R.

So i end up at a light brunch with some common friends of the man, and he subsequently is manipulated into seeing me for a healing session .We start talking - and i hear a story so cliched i didnt know whether to laugh or cry.

He was infact an ex - husband ( sort of ) of Lady R herself...i wondered Ex ??

Who would leave such a beauty and why ?

They started out as a middle class ,ordinary couple. They had an 8 yr old girl and 1 yr old in diapers when this man who had by then gone on to make it big felt lonely, bored, out of love with R.Somehow in her dedication to being a good mother she has forgotten how to be a partner to him, the flames had turned to ice. Then he met a beauty queen , half his age at a party and felt what his wife had made him feel when he first fell in love with her.Promptly striken by the mid - life crisis or whatever his problems with wife R led him to asking for a divorce so he could be with this new flame, lets call her Q.R being a traditional girl, morever in love with him refused, thinking it was a phase and that he would return to their children whom he adored so...

All that happened was he married Q in a ceremony and they started living as husband and wife regardless of R not giving him a divorce. R , meanwhile couldnt let her heartbreak take her down. Her 8 yr old was clinically depressed herself , she missed her daddy - mummy being married so much she was failing school and started drinking by 10. .

R encouraged her to visit her father but that made it worse , now he had 3 kids with Q, two girls and a boy and this new family only drove the girl to manic - depression.

The infant who had grown up by now , mericfully was much less damaged.With no help from anyone, R started doing what she knew best before letting herself go as a mother. She had loved dressing up and had been quite the diva growing up. Now she started her own small time desiging business relying on her clique to send her clients. Talent never fails and she was hired by Versace to work on their asian forays.Today she is a force to reckon in the fashion middlemen chain . Not to mention wears nothing but Valentino dresses and gowns that have my jaws hitting the floor - if there ever was a more glamorous womanly woman ...

posted January 21, 2009 04:59 AM           

He hires a private investigator - turns out they had a best friend couple. The husbands and wives were best friends, he was a doctor she was an architect. So basically beauty queen Q was having an affair with her best friends husband who was her husband best friend

The infuriated K, confronted her a - la Richard Gere. Then he summoned a family meeting where his parents, siblings and children were told of the fact.then he told her he was kicking her out without a penny more for her diamonds and clothes.

Wrong she said, taking their kids with her, much to his shock and going underground.

Being as they were unmarried she couldnt technically ask for 50 % but their kids turned out to be great investments didnt they ?

now the husband sees them once a month in exchange of half the GDP of Somalia every month.she is dating a new stud every weekends and their kids have anew daddy every week in addition to the " Bank account - Sperm Donor "

All this drove him to drinking and depression and landed me in this one hell of a professional predicaament.

As a healer i cant judge him, i am to be compassionate and help him.

as a woman, who can imagine being in the wife's shoes every cell of being screams " Did you honestly think a skank who didnt mind you leaving your kids and breaking your marriage vows would care about YOU when it came to her happiness , you dumb, rich freak !!!! "

All i mutter is some sympathy , give him the usual prana treatment, suggest some books and parapharse a lot of Deepak Chopra...

Gawd what a mess !!!

posted January 21, 2009 05:20 AM         

Beautiful little triple-Libra. Bless him. That he sees you as perfect - what else could you want.

My son is a quin-Aqua kid. He's something interesting. Love the air factor. Actually, I posted our synastry in Astro forum. My youngest has Libra Ascendant. She's like a ray of sunshine (with Sagi Sun). Always happy. What a great way to get through life.

posted January 21, 2009 05:23 AM         

So I noticed that you didn't dream of me!!! What's that about then? And I thought we were going to get matching tatts and be arrested together.

posted January 21, 2009 05:39 AM           

Postings have been sweet & sour (as life tends to be} however, we have digressed so very far off topic that I feel it needs redress......

BRING ON THE MAN SPAM BABY

I think the theme of the night is SUAVE

posted January 21, 2009 05:42 AM         

Bitterness would top my list of destructive emotions.

The odd thing that I find is that it is often the person who seems to have least to be bitter about that ends up the most sour.

The man in the story feels angry and betrayed. If we disregard whether or not he deserves it, his quandry here is processing these feelings so he can avoid traipsing down the bitterness trail. Helping that along will be recognising his own personal responsibilities for what has happened in his life.

Just my view.

posted January 21, 2009 05:43 AM         

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In reference to what, girlfriend? What are you trying to say?

posted January 21, 2009 05:45 AM         

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My thought on that again is that this is because she will be the one least likely to analysis her personal behaviour.

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posted January 21, 2009 05:51 AM         

Not that I wish to imply he is perfect. He most certainly isn't, he can be quite the little gobshite. Worst of all for me is when he gets aggressive. It's like a mirror. The power of DNA. He has Mars Conjunct the ASC, I have Mars Square the ASC. Spooky.

The other fella can get aggressive but more like his dad. Both Sun OPP Mars.

posted January 21, 2009 05:58 AM         

Just to add..I think yes, it is painful, but the healing process generally isn't pain-free.

posted January 21, 2009 06:13 AM           

ENJOY