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posted February 23, 2009 02:24 PM         

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One glorious night of getting to kanoodle and then sleep on a sofa with a guy I have a definite bit of enormous hots for............ and a day later I am paranoid he has gone off me because he hasn't replied to a text I sent at midnight! (It's 19:21 now) Hahahaha I laugh at myself!

He spent the whole night (I think...) physically and verbally expressing how into me he was and now I'm going "Ooo did I do anything wrong?" I just want to slap myself.

Just because the last guy you liked went off you after a day doesn't mean every man will.... I hope.

Not that I want anything serious.

Hahahahaha.

Help.

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posted February 23, 2009 02:34 PM         

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haha you sound like me. just sit on your hands and dont do anything crazy.

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posted February 23, 2009 02:41 PM         

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haha sit on your hands??

What would happen if I didn't??

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posted February 23, 2009 02:52 PM         

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you'll scare him off if you dont.

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posted February 23, 2009 06:15 PM         

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Here's three things not to do
1. Don't send another text.
2. Under no circumstances send another text
3. If it's not too late don't send another text

He doesn't know you and you don't really know him so you are just checking each other out.
It is time for you to sit back and do nothing.
The answer one way or another will soon be forthcoming.
If he does or doesn't reply you will know.
And yes sweetie....he DID get the text!

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posted February 23, 2009 09:02 PM         

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Yes, I hate the waiting game like hell myself. Over the years I've gotten way too good at 'sitting on my hands' - I hardly ever call or text afterward, just sit there and wait, and brood

Don't worry about it. Allow up to 4 days -up to a week - for contact, especially when things are so new.
Bunnies and Writesomething are right!

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posted February 24, 2009 04:36 AM         

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They are SO right. Relax relax relax. You know he likes you, you just know it, right? Switch off your brain and just remember the nice feelings he inspired in you. Shouldn't be difficult.

Patience child! *touches MNF's brow in the manner of the Pope*

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posted February 24, 2009 01:45 PM         

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Hello, thank you for the replies!!!

I didn't send a text! haha. Thankfully I still had some sense. Crossed my mind fleetingly but never happened!

bunnies- we do know each other! No text back but the answer today (in person) was forthcoming, like you said! Still interested

MVM- You're right 4 days is still pretty cool for an answer... I was just being silly because previous texts had always been replied to!

WoC- haha! Yes nice feelings are pretty easy to conjure up again! A little too easy, I have to stop myself!
*crosses self* holy thoughts!

Anyway thanks for the help, I think I am temporarily cured.....!

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