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Writesomething
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posted April 25, 2009 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Writesomething     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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DD
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posted April 25, 2009 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don`t agree.

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posted April 25, 2009 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Depends what "crazy" means.

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posted April 25, 2009 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the crazier the better

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charmainec
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posted April 25, 2009 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you mean crazy as in obsessed then no. Passion is good so why not?

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posted April 25, 2009 05:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
if they are crazy back, yes. if they aren't no. that is the dumb stuff. an older woman told me a long time ago forget the dumb stuff, find someone that really loves YOU and thinks about your best interest, if it is just you doing that it is dumb. took me years to realize she was right.i mean years wasted on relationships where i would give everything, heart, money, time and not get much in return. it should be a 2 way street. if it isn't it is just a waste of time, and time is our most valuable commodity.

if its both people, hell yes, burn the block down with the heat of some crazy love.

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DD
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posted April 25, 2009 06:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To the last statements I agree.


I also want to mention that I donīt think passion and destructive obsession are the same. Obsession is unhealthy, passion is the spark of life.

And yes, of course, two people being mutually passionate about each other, that just sounds like heaven on earth.

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posted April 26, 2009 12:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Totally agree with original post. 100% If they can't fulfill the rather simple role of being a friend, they won't be a lover for long. Libra rules partnerships, and is symbolized by the scale. It says to me, "Get the balance right."

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posted April 26, 2009 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fleurdelis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
At first I would agree, but then passion is a very strong glue. If they won't be together, they'll find _replacements_ (termed replacements), and see each other as their true partner.

It really depends on what is defined by 'too crazy'. Sometimes, it is pure lust. Sometimes it is true love. Being too crazy about someone has its downfalls, but alot of the time, that is the only thing that makes a partnership endure. Also, check the saturn bonds. A passionless relationship fits some, but not others, so it depends on what they really want in a partnership.

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posted April 26, 2009 02:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coffee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Errrr....disagree.

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posted April 26, 2009 03:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You might end up with kids that say, "can't you leave him alone? It's embarrassing!"

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DD
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posted April 26, 2009 04:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Speaking from experience, BM?


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DD
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posted April 26, 2009 04:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, do passion and being friends exclude each other?

I guess, I must have a different perception of passion then.

What is passion?
What is friendship?
Is it the same for everyone?


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posted April 26, 2009 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Writesomething     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You might end up with kids that say, "can't you leave him alone? It's embarrassing!"

this brought up beautiful imagery. yes, thats a lovely thing to have i bet, esp after children.

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posted April 26, 2009 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gabriella     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personally, I don't like it when there's not equality in the relationship, but most relationships are unequal. It goes back and forth with who likes who more.

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posted April 26, 2009 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Totally agree with original post. 100% If they can't fulfill the rather simple role of being a friend, they won't be a lover for long. Libra rules partnerships, and is symbolized by the scale. It says to me, "Get the balance right."

Oh yeah!

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Deux*Antares
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posted April 26, 2009 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Deux*Antares     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 26, 2009 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Deux*Antares     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 26, 2009 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Deux*Antares     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't want crazy passion directed at a person. I want crazy passion for LIFE itself.

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posted April 26, 2009 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree! Like AG I think there should be a balance. I've witnessed the excessively passionate relationships that have little or no friendship in them and I think I'll pass.

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posted April 27, 2009 03:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bunnies     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is a saying

"Passion and reason cannot co- exist"

And I agree wholeheartedly!

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posted April 27, 2009 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bunnies     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=92dWk89e0Nc

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venusmars
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posted April 27, 2009 09:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusmars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
disagree..but passion has to be mutual..

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Yin
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posted April 27, 2009 10:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What an extremist statement!

I prefer to believe that is possible to be in a relationship with a lot of mutual passion.

Otherwise what else is there to live for?

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AcousticGod
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posted April 27, 2009 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If your passion allows you to say that he's your very best friend, that you talk about everything, and that you prefer his company over your other friends, then I'd say you're alright being passionate. I've seen and been in relationships where there's been passion on both sides, but there was never stellar communication, or the parties had to be careful what they said, or one of the partners wasn't really interested in the other partner's aspirations. The passion is misleading in cases like this.

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