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fayte.m unregistered	posted October 18, 2005 09:10 PM Ok people.. What do you find sexy or attractive in another person..or yourself?!?! What do you find unsexy or repulsive or unattractive in another person or yourself?!?! Would you pick looks over personality or beauty over brains? IP: Logged
lotusheartone unregistered	posted October 18, 2005 09:35 PM it's not about looks for me eyes are very important humor and intelligence and caring turn offs cruelty boiling tempers selfishness Love is not made of logic and commen sense it is how you feel when you find that specail one that makes you feel complete IP: Logged
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8743 From: Dublin, CA Registered: Apr 2009	posted October 18, 2005 11:12 PM What do I find sexy in another? Wit Big eyes (preferably blue or brown) Confidence Vulnerability Good skin, hair I'm attracted to blonds and redheads, but the darker the hair is the more I tie into sexual feelings and thoughts. An exposed porcelain neck particularly if a hand is lingering around it in an elegant way. I can find just about every body part sexy except feet. Vocal in bed A fully comprehensible foreign accent Sexy in me: Tall Quietly confident Reasonably attractive Sharp mind Musical Good dancer Human -down to earth What do I find unsexy in others? hair that looks terrible or unwashed Women talking in a business-like fashion Superficiality Weakness Frigidity Vulgarity Prudeness No social graces, dim-witted Bags under the eyes Unsexy in myself: my teeth my moodiness The way I can get distant sometimes Not sure what else I'm not crazy about the 'looks over personality' question. I think you should be able to have both. However, when you're truly in love with someone you stop being able to objectively judge your partner's looks. In the purest sense of the terms I'd pick beauty over brains anyday. I think of the extremes of both. A woman with a sense of beauty is far more valuable to my love life, than a genius. IP: Logged
iAmThat Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Aug 2014	posted October 19, 2005 12:41 AM Things I find sexy in others: Sparkling Eyes, Height, Smooth Complexion (don't like body hair) Holds a conversation Good Heart Things I find sexy in me: Sparkling Eyes, Legs, Great Smile, Great Heart, Personality Things unsexy in others: Bad breadth, Attitude Things unsexy in me: My 33 in waist, I used to be 31 in My impatience I choose personality over looks in a work environment and looks over personilty in my private life. I told you I am ambivalent The Jekyl and Hide of zodiacs hahaha...just made that up. Kidding, I honestly like a fine balance between the two. I like balance between beauty and brain as well. Although I do believe that depending on professional area of work they can be separate. For example why would you need a blond (beauty) to be a computer programmer. IP: Logged
guy_me_19 unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 05:59 AM endurance IP: Logged
fayte.m unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 09:10 AM Well.... I am fat I have bags under my eyes..always have My eyes are green...not blue or brown my hair tends to be long and wild or braided I am short I do not have a lovely neck being somewhat a hunchback... But...I do not feel ugly...and if folks think I am....I do not care! I do not go by looks. Looks are nice as a pleasant perk.... but give me honesty sensitive caring unselfish intelligence open minded non religious..or at least not a fanatic Things I detest.. bad breath body odor green teeth liars bigots Things I will tolerate...look wise...but only if they have the things I like short hair military types macho types c-nt face beards/goatees the short kind that only hang around the mouth... It makes me think of Fruedian perverts..the sickos..not the fun ones.. baseball caps on backwards baggy butt crack pants overdone hair on men or women.. long fingernails..yuck..unsanitary... western/cowboy wear..on anyone except real cowboys I like feet...eyes...hands....body language... laughter..men who are men enough to cry... Find midgets and dwarves sexy.... Really old folks sexy Hhhmmm...will give this more thought... IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 09:30 AM Oh fayte you are bloody hilarious with some of them things on yer list......I nearly fell of the chair laughing......hahahahahahahahaha...... Great thread...will be back later....love anything to do with sex, doing it, tallking about it, thinking about it....LOL....and so apt coming from another Sexy Scorpio.... Gotta go, but be back soon, will leave ye with just one thing I find sexy........ Shocking men....especially unsuspecting ones.....one really nice fella said to me "oh Sue you are almost too much".....I found that sexy.....especially the "almost" bit, that really did it for me.... love to you fayte.......you rock girl.....goatie beard one fecking priceless....hahahaha...and green teeth.....hehehehe We need more outrage on LL.....back later xxx IP: Logged
fayte.m unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 10:01 AM Edited: from: sue g Knowflake Posts: 7086 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004 posted October 19, 2005 09:30 AM quote: Oh fayte you are bloody hilarious with some of them things on yer list......I nearly fell of the chair laughing......hahahahahahahahaha...... Great thread...will be back later....love anything to do with sex, doing it, tallking about it, thinking about it....LOL....and so apt coming from another Sexy Scorpio.... You and I are not the same type of Scorpio Sue. My issue with you is your going too far, over the top here at LL. You even had a thread removed due to overt x-rated content that even I told you I felt was inappropriate for LL.(yet when women you encounter at pubs in your real life act as you do...you apply a double standard to them;and call them names....) You called me a real piece of work, citing my indescretions of youth as my acting holier than thou now(in your opinion) as showing contradictory behaviour.....only because I told you there is a time and place for getting heavily into talking about your sexual variants, lusts and fetishes. Go for it by all means, as long as no one gets hurt. But Lindaland is NOT the proper place for TMI Sue, or attempting to entice and titillate. There are plenty of ways to talk here of sexual issues without resorting to x-rated or rutting behaviours. quote: Gotta go, but be back soon, will leave ye with just one thing I find sexy........ Shocking men....especially unsuspecting ones.....one really nice fella said to me "oh Sue you are almost too much".....I found that sexy.....especially the "almost" bit, that really did it for me.... That is your cup of tea, but to do that here is not the proper time nor place. (again, in my opinion)I am no innocent or prude. But here at LindaLand is not where I would air my wilder sexual personal information. quote: love to you fayte.......you rock girl.....goatie beard one fecking priceless....hahahaha...and green teeth.....hehehehe I am glad I made you laugh. quote: We need more outrage on LL.....back later. I must in part disagree with you Sue. A little talking/discussing sexual issues and light off color bantering is fine. Speaking clinically and philosophically about it it fine.(Tantric/medical)....but when you joke about sexual/sex matters as being dirty. nasty, naughty,(sex is not any of those unless you make it so and have an immature attitude about it) and ha ha your devilment, and so forth, flirting too heavily with the young fellows (a Mae West you aint!)and attempting to titillate with talk of whips and chains and c-m drinking, the moistness of your nethers, etcetera... sorry Sue....but that(in my opinion)....that is best taken to a forum meant for that, not done here at LindaLand. Do your own thing. But tone it down here at LindaLand please. I have been repremanded too....we all got carried away...but you continue to push the boundaries of what is socially acceptable LL/public behaviour. And indeed.... Lotus often goes to far the other way at times, but that does not get threads deleted as your sex one was. We often disagree with her but her talk against sex is not as far out of public socially acceptable behaviour as yours often is. Hers does not step over the boundary of fun, into the x-rated arena...as yours too often does. And Lotus dear... you need to chill out a bit, and only speak out against sexual talk when it goes too far, just as Sue should tone her sexual talk and flirting down. Maybe then we can all meet and discuss sexual matters in a middle ground way. Hope I made my point. Sorry if I have offended either of you, but I am getting annoyed with you, Sue, going too far publicaly into the x-rated arenas. And you Lotus going off all preachy against any and all talk of a sexual theme at times. quote: Lets find some middle ground please. IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 11:53 AM LOL....Fayte......a woman after my own heart (again).... AG, interesting what you said about "but the darker the hair is the more I tie into sexual feelings"........would you mind explaining a little more....??? xxx IP: Logged
Aen unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 12:44 PM What I find sexy? Deep voice sunny laughter sharp & bright look in the eyes beutiful hands that you see and know they are used for something good... Did I already mention voice? Rest is negotiable. IP: Logged
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8743 From: Dublin, CA Registered: Apr 2009	posted October 19, 2005 01:58 PM Sure Sue, I think that maybe I associate sexiness with a certain amount of passion, and to me darker haired women appear more passionate. A blond haired woman may BE passionate, but I don't think I'll necessarily see her that way...of course she could give me reasons to see her that way. Does that make sense? I honestly do love all hair colors, and I feel an affinity with blonds as my mother is one. It's just a matter of how I define sexiness I guess. AG IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 02:48 PM Oh thanks AG.....and I know exactly what you mean cos my perception is the same.....dark hair seems mysterious, strong, sexy, alluring almost.....strange we both saw that....which leads me on.....to what I find sexy in others Long DARK hair in men, and dark eyes...brooding looks like Johnny Depp, that gypsy thing does it for me.....but then again Ive been drawn to guys who aint handsome at all, but they just got something......and they have been blonde or foxy !!! Men that are artistic, musical, guitar and fiddle players......love to watch and listen to them..... Sense of humour...I heard someone say once "he could laugh you into bed"......so true, sexual energy and humour are very closely linked I feel..... Shyness. mystery and a kind of innocence (younger men) but with wisdom too...... Outrageousness....someone who pushed the boundaries and isnt scared to speak their mind on TABOO subjects.....I like extremes, sure I would, am like that myself. Eyes that really look into yer soul.....my hubbie described it well he said to me "you hook people in with yer eyes"... Good movers/dancers....guys that got that hip thing going, especially when wearing tight flared jeans (with a slight bulge showing) hahahahaha.. And what I find sexy about myself.......oooohhhh too many to name hahahahahahahaha....... Oh I think lots of things are sexy,,,,,so might be back more later........ xxx IP: Logged
Svetlana unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 03:47 PM Sexy: Johnny Depp in almost every movie and "21 Jump street" William Hurt when he was yonger (esp in "Body Heat" and "Children of a lesser god") Angelina Jolie in "Girl Interrupted" James Marsters as Spike on "Buffy" Why? I don't know, I just find them sexy. ------------------ We are the ones we've been waiting for. IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 04:37 PM Not sexy..... People with very loud voices....makes me wince BIG egos......low self esteem drunks who fall all over ye cold and insensitive ones men who arent sexually keen clingy men looking for a mammy bigots, narrowminds body odour.....gotta smell good bad dancers bad losers bad lovers good liars good...bye xxxxx IP: Logged
MAGUS of MUSIC unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 05:04 PM Green Teeth ??? Fayte,,, youve meet peaple who have this ? And by the way- another great topic from Fabulous Fayte ! IP: Logged
fayte.m unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 05:20 PM YES! GREEN TEETH! Or combo black snaggly green teeth! I told you where I live the government is trying to reclass as part of Appalacia!(sp.?) Lots of folks can't afford dentists! And old farmers..or Amish...often have green teeth! BAD breath too! Yuckkky! Lotus You said: quote: lotusheartone it's not about looks for me eyes are very important humor and intelligence and caring turn offs cruelty boiling tempers selfishness Love is not made of logic and commen sense it is how you feel when you find that specail one that makes you feel complete Lovely words there Lotus! That is exactly the kind of "middle ground" I spoke of before. IP: Logged
MAGUS of MUSIC unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 05:42 PM YIKES !,,,, I havent been to the dentist in years [he was my uncle,, and I was black sheeped from the fam damnly], but my teath arent black ,or green,,,. Maybe you should sugest they bleech ?! Or maybe some of the ladys out there find it sexy ? "Nothing gets me goin more then my mans martian mouth !" ??? hehehaha IP: Logged
fayte.m unregistered	posted October 19, 2005 11:03 PM IP: Logged
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Registered: May 2009	posted October 20, 2005 08:26 AM HaHa, Fayte, your smilies made me laugh! Well, I, like you, have always had bags under my eyes (genetic), and my hair is pretty hopeless. I should have gotten braces at some point, but I never did. To look at me in photos, one probably wouldn't find me sexy, but the boys seem to like me alright! I have something going on... they always tell me they don't know what it is. I think it's that I have a very expressive face that doesn't come across in photos. Boys also like my sense of humor (which is another of my traits that comes across more readily in person rather than online.) My happiest compliment? It came from my boyfriend who is super-uber hilarious. He always gets everyone laughing... very very funny guy. He said I'm the funniest girl he knows, and the fact that I can make him laugh, and we make each other laugh so much is pretty darn sexy to me! I will be posting up some more pics in photoshop later today (for the hair thread), so you'll be able to see what I mean about not coming across so well on camera. It's not awful-- it's just not... me! LINDALAND PEOPLE ARE SEXY! MEEEEEEEOW! IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted October 20, 2005 09:31 AM The other huge sexy thing I forgot to mention (how did i forget that one) When making love....for the other to talk into yer ear...almost so quiety you would barely hear....and no I aint gonna tell you what I like to hear..... that is....PRIVATE....hahahahaha !!! xxxx IP: Logged
fayte.m unregistered	posted October 20, 2005 09:51 AM I have been told that I am approachable...easy to open up to...and my favorites: I love your mind! Ilove your outlook! I love how I just seem to open up around you! You make me feel... safe understood pretty handsome beautiful Well...it seems that people in person feel comfortable spilling to me...and this has led to even sexually intriguing encounters with people others would not understand... Based on my looks. I would rather be found sexy and or intriguing for me not my looks! The physical follows through then with more sincerity and passion than if it were only about my physical being. Now we can talk Tantric and more....... IP: Logged
fayte.m unregistered	posted October 20, 2005 10:01 AM Sexy... holding hands while cuddling..even while sleeping. Mellow voices..any pitch..with that hint of music in them expressive eyes.. not afraid of deep eye contact. neck ravishers... shoulder ravishers... People not afraid to really talk about sex in all it's aspects. quote: but not overly explicit here at LindaLand...the proper time and place must be considered Honesty...complete openness. quote: In the right time/place/company, not in public...social decorum should be observed..."When in Rome" as they say.. Sexy eaters..like licking the cream off the sides of an overflowing cup of hot cocoa in a seductive sensual way.... or nibbling or licking as if making love to food or drink.... even using the finger to dip and lick off cream or honey or whatever...sensuously...slowly....while maintaining eye contact...... IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted October 20, 2005 10:18 AM SSSSSexy SSSSScorpio woman..........very very ssssensual and as usual.......one after my own xxx IP: Logged
fayte.m unregistered	posted October 20, 2005 10:47 AM Thanks for keeping it(the sex talk) a bit toned down here sue g. I do however wish you still felt this way: quote: sue g Knowflake Posts: 8515 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004 posted October 19, 2005 11:53 AM LOL....Fayte......a woman after my own heart (again).... quote: sue g Knowflake Posts: 8515 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004 posted October 20, 2005 10:18 AM -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- SSSSSexy SSSSScorpio woman..........very very ssssensual and as usual.......one after my own xxx Sue g...I still understand you, but you have become exceedingly angry at me and offended because I felt you were overdoing it here at LL...going to far into the x-rated.(private talking "off forum" about sex I did not find improper, only the overt public displays) Others thought you were going too far also, and you have declared me an enemy now because I would not reveal their names to you. They, as myself did, only cared about you, but agreed that you had gone too over the top after your sex thread was deleted by a mod, IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted October 20, 2005 10:54 AM "We are a couple of hotties" OOOOOHHHHH........WE SURE ARE........AND I AM GETTING WORSE AS I GET OLDER........MMM...MMM....MMM..... or should that be better..... I think I need the opposite to Viagra if theres such a thing....didnt they used to give it to guys in the army or something....well I need that....hahahahahahah xxxxx IP: Logged

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