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taurean_scorpion
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From: santa monica, california
Registered: May 2005

posted October 12, 2006 11:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurean_scorpion     Edit/Delete Message
I am stuck in the friends zone with a guy although we both like each other as a guy/girl. Because of the fact that he wanted to stay friends, I am scared to even touch him. I don't think he'd mind if I touch him, but I don't want to look needy or (weak). I don't know if he likes the way we are now. He asks me out to the movies at night on the weekends. I like him a lot but I don't know how to show this, because I don't want to lose him as a friend either°¶That would be devastating.
He is independent, adventurous, restless and willing to try just about anything. I am quite the opposite of that. I have one best friend that lives in a different state. Basically, I have no friends that I spend time with regularly. He, on the other hand has lots of friends. Maybe he likes his freedom and don't like the restrictions...Neither do I, but I do want a close bond with him. I mean, I am willing to give him a lot of room because I need it as well. Do you think I should confront him about this? But I have a feeling he won't like it. Guys don't like the "Where is this going?" talk, do they? Should I give up on this and let it go?

-Composite-
Sun Pisces 28°∆37'57 in house 9
Moon Aquarius 9°∆09'00 in house 6
Mercury Aries 13°∆01'08 end of house 9
Venus Pisces 26°∆23'25 in house 9
Mars Pisces 17°∆54'24 in house 8
Jupiter Aries 18°∆17'15 in house 10
Saturn Sagittarius 25°∆28'02 in house 5
Uranus Sagittarius 28°∆03'59 in house 6
Neptune Capricorn 8°∆29'11 in house 6
Pluto Scorpio 10°∆33'28 in house 4
True Node Aries 2°∆39'41 in house 9

-Synastry-
My Sun in His 8 house
His Sun in My 10 house
My Moon in His 3 house
His Moon in My 11 house
My Mercury in His 9 house
His Mercury in My 10 house
My Venus in His 10 house
His Venus in My 6 house
My Mars in His 5 house
His Mars in My 11 house
My Jupiter in His 8 house
His Jupiter in My 11 house
My Saturn in His 4 house
My Saturn in My 6 house
My Uranus in His 4 house
His Uranus in My 6 house
My Neptune in His 4 house
His Neptune in My 6 house
My Pluto in His 2 house
His Pluto in My 6 house

I'm a Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer rising
He's an Aquarius/Aries/Virgo

You can see that our big threes are incompatible, expect for his Virgo Asc.

My Sun opposition His Pluto orb 2?30'
My Venus opposition His Uranus orb 1?33'
My Mars conjunct His Sun orb 2?24'
My Uranus conjunct Danny's Venus orb 1?47'
My Sun square His Sun orb 2?19'
My Mercury sextile His Jupiter orb 1?58'
My Venus square His Jupiter orb 0?7'
My Mars sextile His Mars orb 1?23'
My Mars sextile His Saturn orb 1?32'
My Jupiter square His Sun orb 2?11'
My Uranus sextile His Mercury orb 0?37'

My Moon trine His Jupiter orb 3?4'
My Mercury square His Mercury orb 4?9'
My Saturn trine His Moon orb 4?45'
My Saturn sextile His Mercury orb 2?4'
My Saturn conjunct His Venus orb 3?14'
My Saturn conjunct His Neptune orb 4?43'
My Uranus trine His Moon orb 3?18'
My Pluto square His Sun orb 3?38'
My Moon sextile His Ascendant orb 3?3'

His Natal Chart
Sun Aquarius/5th
Moon Aries 27°∆/8th
Mercury Pisces 0°∆/6th
Venus Sagittarius 28°∆/4th
Mars Aries 18°∆/8th
Jupiter Pisces 23°∆/7th
Saturn Sagittarius 18°∆/4th
Uranus Sagittarius 25°∆/4th
Neptune Capricorn 6°∆/4th
Pluto Scorpio 9°∆/2th

My Natal Chart
Sun Taurus 12°∆/12th
Moon Scorpio 20°∆/6th
Mercury Taurus 25°∆/12th
Venus Gemini 23°∆/12th
Mars Aquarius 17°∆10th
Jupiter Taurus 12°∆/12th
Saturn Capricorn 2°∆/6th
Uranus Capricorn 0°∆/6th
Neptune Capricorn 10°∆/7th
Pluto Scorpio 11°∆/6th

ANY comments would be appreciated.

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Mama Mia
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posted October 13, 2006 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
In all honesty and this is coming from a girl that has mad expereincec with Aqua's..

You guys are better off as friends..That is just looking at the information provided to me. I see to much friction..

But go with how YOU FEEL...

I hope I don't come off as negative just giving my honest thoughts..

Good luck!!!

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themysteryclub
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Posts: 140
From: caspian's kingdom
Registered: Nov 2005

posted October 13, 2006 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for themysteryclub     Edit/Delete Message
Hey GOOD LUCK! I think that you should talk to him about your feelings. Honosty is always the best policy...because if you don't say anything the tension that your feeling is apt to destroy the relationship eventually. You don't have to tell hiim you love him or anything too dramatic, but you can tell him that you are feeling stronger feelings than friendship feelings and you were wondering if he returned those feelings. If he does, great for you and him! If he doesn't, then he will respect your honosty and chances are you will still be able to be good friends, naybe even closer friends.

I am on your side, because I am going through EXACTLY the same thing right now!

Lots of love and light!

TMC

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themysteryclub
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From: caspian's kingdom
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posted October 13, 2006 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for themysteryclub     Edit/Delete Message
I was just looking over all your chart info and it looks like your venus is opposed to his uranus and saturn. TRICKY! I also have this same aspect with the person that I am going through the same thing with. So again, I would stress HONOSTY...as hard as that may be, but if nobody says anything than you could miss a big opportunity. Of course, these are my thoughts alone. I have cancer sun and moon, and sag rising.

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taurean_scorpion
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From: santa monica, california
Registered: May 2005

posted October 13, 2006 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurean_scorpion     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you for the feedback guys.
I enjoy the excitement and unpredictability our relationship brings but at the same time it makes me nervous...It would be nice to know where it's going but that would take away the fun wouldn't it?
As for being honest, I'm all about honesty and straightfowardness, but this is extremely hard. I don't want to risk it (losing him).
Maybe he'll make the first move? Or is it ridiculous to expect the first move from an Aquarius? Lol You can see that he has strong Aries/8th placements so he 'may' do something, (I am waiting!). But his way of expressing himself is subtle (Mercury in Pisces/6th) I have noticed. I am not flirtatious around him so he probably thinks I don't like him. I've learned to control myself because I don't want to look needy as I mentioned before.
I find his Aquarius/Aries nature fascinating because It's something I find hard to express in myself. I really like him for his modesty and Virgoan intelligence too. My Venus and Mars in Air loves that. Lol
I'm feeling a bit better than yesterday when I posted this topic. I was going crazy because I couldn't get him out of my mind, and I'm not a person to call that love either. Personally I find it to be irrational and makes me uncontrollable so I try to avoid it. Hopefully, more detachment and time will let it pass so I could be more like myself again and not be swayed by these feelings.

Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer

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