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downforten
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posted October 21, 2006 12:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i'm in love with an aquarian and as much as i'd like to be happy about it, it's becoming a source of huge discomfort to me knowing that either a) he will never reciprocate or b) he's as slow as most the other aquarians out there or c) i'm just insane and need to move on!!!
so i'm going to go with option C, but things get complicated becuase the truth is i still have some hope that one day he will somehow come to the realization that he, too, likes me. i wish i could talk myself out of it and i've tried on numerous occasions (esp. recently) but he's just created a permenant corner for himself in my head and heart!!!!

i can't begin to explain how frustrating this is for me as a gemini - i'm so used to being all over the place, having my interest switch from one guy to another in a short span of time but with him... i don't know...

we've known each other for about 8 years. i was his first girlfriend and vice versa, although we were so young (12!!) that i doubt it matters or that he even remembers. ever since that we've been casual freinds, only recently have we gotten somewhat closer...and i wish he was boring and unintersting but he is so much fun to talk to and i can actually see myself in a serious relationship wiht him (eep!!). call me crazy but becuase he is so friendly and open with me, he is usually very shy, i think he might like me too? i feel like a mess right now! and i know that there are tons of girls chasing him so where does that leave me?

it was all fair and good, im currenly dating a wonderful libra, and hardly thought of the aquarian. but on the occasion i do see him or talk to him, about 3-4 times a year, my mind goes biserk! i become a nervous wreck becuase i dont have control over my feelings. and i found out that he is mvoing to my city in a few months...how will i survive with him in such close proximity!!! i need help!! how do i get over him, someone please tell me!

maybe it would be better if i just confessed and got some closure, but knwoing me i would never do a thing and i guess part of me doesn't want to let go of the "what if" possibitlity. he's told me on more than one occasion that he is not looking for a serious relationship, but when we meet and talk why do i feel like he's notioning towards something more?

please take mercy on this poor gemini girl and give me some advice!! i feel internally tormented!! lol. seriously...i would really appreciate it since i can't seem to bring myself to tell any one of the million ppl in my life about this particular situation or how i feel


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downforten
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posted October 21, 2006 01:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
mine:
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Gemini 29.36
Moon Sagittarius 16.57
Mercury Cancer 24.22
Venus Leo 6.26
Mars Capricorn 22.09 R
Jupiter Pisces 22.08
Saturn Sagittarius 4.42 R
Uranus Sagittarius 19.59 R
Neptune Capricorn 4.35 R
Pluto Scorpio 4.42 R
Lilith Gemini 12.46
Asc node Aries 27.59

Ascendant Libra 15.39
II Scorpio 15.41
III Sagittarius 15.17
IV Capricorn 14.40
V Aquarius 14.49
VI Pisces 15.42
VII Aries 15.39
VIII Taurus 15.41
IX Gemini 15.17
XI Leo 14.49
XII Virgo 15.42

Sun Opposition Neptune 4.58 -107
Sun Trine Pluto 5.05 60
Moon Square Jupiter 5.11 -29
Moon Conjunction Uranus 3.02 335
Moon Sextile Ascendant 1.18 121
Mercury Opposition Mars 2.13 -274
Mercury Trine Jupiter 2.14 140
Mercury Conjunction Midheaven 9.42 10
Venus Trine Saturn 1.45 86
Venus Square Pluto 1.45 -85
Mars Sextile Jupiter 0.01 426
Mars Opposition Midheaven 7.29 -26
Jupiter Square Uranus 2.09 -77
Jupiter Trine Midheaven 7.28 5
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.07 87
1270 -598 672

His:
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Aquarius 19.59
Moon Libra 3.12
Mercury Aquarius 12.13
Venus Aries 5.43
Mars Aries 4.35
Jupiter Aquarius 0.31
Saturn Scorpio 27.32
Uranus Sagittarius 17.13
Neptune Capricorn 2.49
Pluto Scorpio 4.44 R
Lilith Aries 17.21
Asc node Taurus 23.19

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 7.47 112
Sun Sextile Uranus 2.47 56
Moon Opposition Venus 2.31 -161
Moon Opposition Mars 1.23 -381
Moon Trine Jupiter 2.42 93
Moon Square Neptune 0.23 -103
Venus Conjunction Mars 1.08 484
Venus Square Neptune 2.54 -33
Mars Trine Saturn 7.04 18
Mars Square Neptune 1.46 -85
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 2.59 46
Jupiter Square Pluto 4.14 -27
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.56 47
856 -790 66

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"the sea is flowing ever, the land retains it never"
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neptune5
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posted October 21, 2006 08:43 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think why people havent replyed to your (several) threads is because you didn't show any synastry or composite info or you didn't narrow your topic down. What is it that you like about this Aquarian, what is your strongest position in your davison? Yea be sure to get your davison, its about the relationship on a whole and not just pieces like the composite chart would give you. I hope that helps.

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Virgo Rising, Sagittarius Sun, Pisces Moon

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InLoveWithLife
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posted October 21, 2006 10:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey downforten !!

you r in the throes of a huge crush!!
i know, i'm not a gemini myself, but hv a gemini moon.
but tell me the truth, isnt it half the reason for your crush that u hv no clue whether he likes u, and is being chased by several girls?? i find it a big turn on, to confess ) the thrill lies in the anticipation
so enjoy this phase darling....let your heart flutter wild....enjoy it while it lasts...dont be in such a hurry to get over him

ILWL

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InLoveWithLife
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posted October 21, 2006 10:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And in the mean time i wud suggest flirting right back with him, which i am sure u being a gemini can do with finesse. just leave him guessing. beat him at his own game. don't go the 'confess' and 'closure' way tht soon....its just a crush !!


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Mirandee
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posted October 21, 2006 12:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And, that is so true. You can only read so much about Aquarius men and Scorpio women on these threads without needing a break.

I love your outright honesty, And. It may rile some folks here but I truly admire you, girl for being so honest and direct in your replies.

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downforten
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posted October 21, 2006 04:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i just did a search on aquarians and it came up wiht A WHOLE LOT OF threads
i didn't realize what a much discussed topic this was...i guess they all operate in the same way
and as much as i would like to post davisions and what not, perhaps it would just be better to go with the flow...
i just dont know!
the main thing i wanna know is why he stays away for so long and all of a sudden pops into my life? what kind of a person does that!!!
i'll have to just accept that this is one sided

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Annepisces
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posted October 21, 2006 05:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
downforten

i dont know why aqua just disappear but That is just how the male aquarius work you never know when you going to see them next or where. when you think you have worked it out they suprise you and turn up out of the blue!in a random place! i know how you feel i have a huge crush on my aqua friend

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downforten
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posted October 21, 2006 07:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you all for your posts
anne, if u know how i feel u know how hard it is to get him out of ur head and move on...!!
are u planning to act on ur feelings towards this aqua of urs?

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sue g
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posted October 22, 2006 06:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Most of my main relationships, the guys have been Aquarian influenced. My second hubbie was Aqua sun, my present hubbie aqua moon and I have a very strong soul tie with a guy who has three planets there too!!!!

I feel, cos I am so intense and demanding in love, they were sent to me to teach me to detach a little...but....aaaarrghhhh.....it drives me crazy at times!

There is no answer really....it depends on what you want to learn I suppose...cos they do come for a reason...

Dont they?

aaarrrghhhhhh!!!! again!!!!

xx

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evenstarr
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posted October 22, 2006 10:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquarian males are nearly impossible but oh so charming =) It takes a very strong woman to be with one, me thinks. Sometimes it feels like you have to make a decision right away, but it doesn't hurt to wait it out. In the meantime, it might be a good idea to keep busy, surround yourself with supportive friends, meet new people, take up new hobbies... or simply get away for a weekend or two. It's frustrating and hard, but oh so good, non? I had a huge crush on a Scorpio with an Aqua moon once . At first it was agonizing but after a year, I kind of started to enjoy it lol Good luck girly =D

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breakfast on pluto
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posted October 22, 2006 11:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
downforten;

dont be sad...i know your feelings;be sure..i am in the middle of the game with an aqua man..he is so clever,detach,charming..but he is also so lonely,feels bad and needs people...he is so lovely to people..not selfish..but his weak part is that he is not devoted to one person..it is bad..because we know all;when we are sad,angry or happy we live these easily and forget our loneliness..but this man is not like that..for my aqua;he is in depression..and we begin to as friends..and we close to each other every passing day...at the and;i dont know if we have an end;we may not be lover..but i gain an perfect friend..he talked to me every day much closely;he choose every environment;he come to me..because i dont push him;only i listen him..and give some advices about his life..and he said me'you are right;i need to shock..'..

sometimes;we work in same place;i give some coffee suddenly;or such as last day i send him an email with a meaningfull song;and i dont have take him anything..but he saw me at the far;and came to near to me;and looked my eyes;and talked to me very softly..

i have been thinking for daysssss.dayssss..what i want really ?
relation,romantism,friendship,or what else?

i realized that i just want to be know this man and support him..and as i am strong period myself ..this is good..but i know your pain..as scorpio girl somatimes we want passion;love;anything else..and these men are not like that...

be calm and be in control..dont lose yourself..if you want him;you have tobe strong..and if you want friend;he is always there..but as love we have to wait...i realized that i can not control somtimes life,people...i learnt that....

be wise,enjoy;for his frienship..if he is true man for you;love occur in good way..

be control..

breakfast-

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sue g
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posted October 22, 2006 12:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like and, I have also been hurt by an Aqua man in the past, but funnily enough never get sick of hearing about em ....I feel I am still learning about what went wrong in my marriage.

Keep talking guys.....intriguing for sure!!

xx

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Annepisces
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posted October 22, 2006 02:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
downforten,

well i did try and do something i told him i liked him but he did the whole i think of you as a good friend thing so i left it at that. i tryed again months later he said im not ready for a relationship so we are just friends at moment. i dont see he as much now we text each other now and then but i still care about him and i now he does about me but i guess only time will tell but yep it does drive me crazy waiting and thinking about him all the time so good luck downforten

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