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GeminiLover75
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posted January 06, 2007 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Somehow I feel like me and my Mr Gem might break up. It's like things have gone quiet. So I checked our composite transits, and yep... the trouble period is basically over. Venus stopped squaring our Uranus and Mars is no longer troubling us. It just feels weird not to have this constant brewing of trouble under the surface. Saturn is still in our 7th house of course. I feel like I need to give him some space so we can get some healing from all the arguments and hurts that happened during the last few months, and hope for the best.

This is the forecast I just looked up and it confirms how I'm feeling right now, but it seems promising... I so hope this will be a good period for us...

08/01/2007 (08/01/2007 to 19/01/2007) NEPTUNE SQUARE MC


Together you are both more susceptible to falling for exaggerated claims and promises, becoming too immersed in fantasies, or seeing and believing only what you want to see and believe. This is certainly not a good time to make important joint decisions or binding legal agreements. It may also be unclear to one or both of you where the two of you are headed, and you may simply have to live with that uncertainty for now, but do not delude yourself that things will somehow magically get better if there are clear signals, they will not at this time!



13/01/2007 (08/01/2007 to 17/01/2007) JUPITER OPPOSITION VENUS


A spirit of openness and spaciousness and ease characterize your relationship now. You are likely to spend freely and even extravagantly on gifts for each other or on something you both will enjoy, go out to eat more often, frequent more expensive places and in general be more liberal with both money and affection. In fact, without a touch of prudence you may later regret having to pay for the pleasures you enjoy now. As a couple you will also be generous toward others which will create a lot of goodwill and good feelings all around. If there have been any unresolved problems in the relationship, you now have the opportunity to right matters and bring some healing into the relationship. You are willing to give one another pretty much whatever the other persons wants, including perhaps a bit more freedom or "space".



15/01/2007 (14/01/2007 to 16/01/2007) MARS SEXTILE ASC


Together you will want to be active and getting something accomplished. You are prone to push each other to do more, but in an encouraging and positive way. Sports or outdoor activities are also favored.



17/01/2007 (16/01/2007 to 18/01/2007) MARS SEXTILE MARS


You bring out a spirit of enthusiasm and confidence in one another now and you can get a lot done together. You are apt to reinforce and aid one another rather than fight or get in each other's way. Anything you undertake as a couple should work out very well indeed.



20/01/2007 (19/01/2007 to 21/01/2007) MARS SQUARE PLUTO


If there is any underlying rivalry, hidden anger, or resentment toward one another for any reason, it will surface now to be dealt with. If this has been going on unacknowledged for some time, a fierce battle could erupt. Even if none of these dynamics exists in your relationship, beware of domineering attitudes now; any attempt to force your desire against your partner's will spells TROUBLE!



09/02/2007 (16/01/2007 to 09/02/2007) PLUTO SEXTILE ASC


When the two of you are together during this period you will encounter more than your share of mysterious and unexplainable things. Secrets are revealed, something lost or hidden re-emerges, and your relationship deepens through there encounters and revelations.



09/02/2007 (22/01/2007 to 09/02/2007) NEPTUNE TRINE URANUS


(not interpreted)


09/02/2007 (29/01/2007 to 09/02/2007) SATURN SEXTILE SATURN


This is a period of steadiness, stability, and peace between you, unless other, more stimulating astrological factors are at play. There is more emphasis on maintaining the status quo and enjoying what you have built between you than on generating new energy or introducing new elements. If yours is a new relationship, this time will serve as a solid time to get to know one another.



09/02/2007 (09/02/2007 to 09/02/2007) MARS SEXTILE MC


You work together efficiently and harmoniously right now, and you could get something significant accomplished in a joint project or goal. You strike a good balance between independence and togetherness, and help one another to succeed in your individual endeavors as well as in combined efforts.


Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers as we reach a new understanding and hopefully strengthen our bond... Like I said, I feel weird... but this relationship is so important to me.

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GeminiLover75
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posted January 06, 2007 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Edit.

(Had some wrong info in this post).

Just wondering, with Jupiter transiting his 8th house... is this going to make him more likely to have affairs/have sex with other people? I know that at any other time he would not do this... but if this transit sparks a psychological shift in him... ???

Not to mention that our progressed composite shows Pluto in the 7th house.

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posted January 09, 2007 03:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Glad to see you back.

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posted January 09, 2007 03:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks AG... how would LL ever survive without my regular instalments of paranoid anxiety?

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posted January 09, 2007 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message

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posted January 09, 2007 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
*sigh*. It's all going to crap again. We attempted to have sex last night and it was atrocious... just like the time before. He doesn't want to have sex anymore if it's going to be like this and he called himself a "failure"... says we don't communicate... but I feel like that's not my fault, it's his... ohhh we have so many problems!

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posted January 09, 2007 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
What am I doing wrong? Is my Scorpio moon SOOOOOOOOOOO BAD that it's ruining everything??

And we wake up this morning I felt depressed but he was fine... I didn't want to get up cos I was upset and depressed... and he said I think too much! He's acting like everything's fine but I know it's not!

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posted January 09, 2007 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Oh dear

So sorry to hear these things girl

Can you have a few days break from each other....maybe....to clear the air and get some perspective?

Sending love to you

Sue
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posted January 09, 2007 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah I think that would be good, even though we're not actually fighting... it's just confusing and somehow awkward, but not. We're getting along fine in a friendship sense. But on a deeper level there's something not right. He's got nowhere to go though.. his younger brother AND sister are both now staying at their mothers because they too have had romantic problems lately...

I just get the feeling he really doesn't want to be in this relationship. Even though he SAYS he does.

I'm really sad today. I thought putting on Marc Bolan's 'A Beard of Stars' would make me happy but it's making me worse because it reminds me of when me and Mr Gem used to listen to it all the time and we were HAPPY!

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posted January 09, 2007 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Later today or tomorrow, just for a self-indulgent exercise I suppose, I'll post the whole story of everything that's been happening. I think I have a pretty clear picture of what's "going on", but don't know how to solve it...

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posted January 09, 2007 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
Sweetheart like you said Saturn is still in the 7th house, there is a point when it goes retrogade and then its back again. Scares the daylights out of me. {quote] feel like I need to give him some space so we can get some healing from all the arguments and hurts that happened during the last few months, and hope for the best.[/quote]

I think that would definately be best for the both of you. But mostly think of it as not giving him space but giving yourself space. You need it too.

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Even if none of these dynamics exists in your relationship, beware of domineering attitudes now; any attempt to force your desire against your partner's will spells TROUBLE!

Be careful of this I know it surfaces in us Scorp moons. I saw my mr gem today and he told me he wants to change schools and the first thing i screamed was "not where that b* is and then he said another and i was like phew good my best friend can watch you". I know its not anything and it was jokey but things like that do add up.

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Secrets are revealed, something lost or hidden re-emerges, and your relationship deepens through there encounters and revelations.

Thats good!

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What am I doing wrong? Is my Scorpio moon SOOOOOOOOOOO BAD that it's ruining everything??

NOOOOO as bad as we are we are also trying soooo hard! Not everything is in our power and it does take two to tango.

best of wishes to you sweetheart, you know how much I adore you and how I would totally be lost without you. Everything will be okay because it has to be and you're definately in my prayers. *hug hug hug hug hug* Hope everything gets better and you cheer up and hope you feel as awesome and beautiful as you are!

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posted January 09, 2007 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you BUD, I'm just so incredibly depressed today... seems like our sex life is DEAD so why don't we just bury the whole f***king relationship.

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posted January 09, 2007 10:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
Noooo dont think like that it happens!!! Plus u have emotional conflicts thats a BIG BIG role in that, dont try to force it that would make it harder. Plus i hope you got my message i send u, i hope that works

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posted January 09, 2007 11:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah thanks I did get that... but then I was replying and myspace accidentally switched off.

Well you know, the thing is that sex has been a problem for us... or actually, for HIM, for the last three months. On and off. He keeps saying he feels like a failure, he doesn't feel sexy... I just wanted to make him feel good last night with no pressure but that didn't work. I feel so ugly now and a failure myself!!!

And I feel like saying ohhhhhh thank you EVERYONE in my life who set out to wreck things between us from the beginning, looks like all your interfering plans are WORKING. Thanks evvvveryone for making me feel insecure about him, thanks for stressing me out and then passing my stress on to him, thanks for making him feel unwelcome in family, thanks for judging him based on his past, his paganism, and based on gossip, thanks for making him feel unwelcome in my house, thanks for making me emotionally guilty for a year and a half for leaving my ex, thanks for the eye wrinkles caused by crying, thank you sooooooooooo much for that it's been so helpful to my life!

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posted January 09, 2007 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
I just checked our progressed composite and although we have Mars trine Venus, we have Moon conj. Uranus in the 8th house squaring Venus (this is sooo freedom/breakup time) and Mercury. The 8th house moon is also trining our Sun and Saturn.

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posted January 09, 2007 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
I think Saturn is retrograde on our DC right now... anyone know when it will go direct again?

Also I don't get it... we have a very well-aspected Pluto in the composite 8th house (it trines moon, Jupiter, sun, Venus, Mercury and Neptune)... does the progressed composite mean this aspect of our relationship is GONE?

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posted January 09, 2007 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Oh. And now he's sitting here making light of the crappy sex we had last night. And acting like everything's fine. And asking me if I've got PMS. NO I DO NOT HAVE PMS!

Am I taking all of this too seriously?

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posted January 10, 2007 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
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I feel so ugly now and a failure myself!!!

Whyyyy oh why!!!! You just said its him, why would u feel like a failure. Plus look he feels like a failure too so if you two tried to deal with that together. Plus stop telling yourself its breakup time, its only breakup time if you let it, you can overcome ur charts remember. Plus u guys broke up before, worst comes to worst its another big fight and then everything will be okay again.

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I think Saturn is retrograde on our DC right now... anyone know when it will go direct again?

I believe either February or March.

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Oh. And now he's sitting here making light of the crappy sex we had last night. And acting like everything's fine. And asking me if I've got PMS. NO I DO NOT HAVE PMS!

Am I taking all of this too seriously?


Not at all...its serious to you. I mean it just dont give him any when he wants it, he will get all confused and start to chase you. Just say no...hes a Gemini the moment he thinks he cant have something he will start wanting it like a toddler...im a Gem myself lol

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posted January 10, 2007 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah... thanks. I just read your myspace messages too... I feel MUCH BETTER now. I'll reply later when I get back home.

Sorry for the ranting!

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posted January 10, 2007 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
No problem thats what im here for

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posted January 11, 2007 05:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks...

He's still acting normal but I feel so negative about the whole thing. Everything has built up into one giant PROBLEM that I don't know how to fix.

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posted January 11, 2007 09:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
Well perhaps the reason for that is because your trying to fix a series of follow up problems and not dealing with the problem at hand = you dont feel that happy and you should. Find ways to make yourself happy, do things u enjoy etc and then the others will ease up or fizzle out

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