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JustAmanda
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posted May 31, 2008 03:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
yeah...not a good mix...

once again my heart has been ripped out...I've decided I'm never going to be loved by anyone...there is no one out there to love me ever...I guess I'll find a nun suit...and what a shame..I have so much love to give and every time I do someone just doesn't give a damn about it...I have never felt so doomed in love and relationships in my life as I do right now...

My relationships that I know of the signs have been as follows...
Sag and Aquarius
Sag and Pisces
Sag and Leo
Sag and Scorpio

and NONE of them have worked out...maybe it's me and not them..

oh well...so much for love huh? I'll just be fat and alone forever.

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IWDWSWLM
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posted June 01, 2008 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IWDWSWLM     Edit/Delete Message
This was the combination Ike and Tina Turner had. She is a Sagitarrius Woman and he was a Socrpio man... and we all know how that turned out.

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Yin
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posted June 03, 2008 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message
Oh, Amanda, my heart goes out to you...
I am really sorry to hear that it is not working out with your Scorpio.
But have you thought that maybe it has happened for a reason and it is time now for you to do something for yourself?
From what I remember reading a post by you here a while back you were unhappily married to a Leo.
Is that now over?

At any rate, please don't despair - do something good for yourself, really.
You can take up yoga or swimming - it helps with those round hips and insatible appetite we Saggies have Trust me, I know
Focus on yourself and give yourself some loving, the universe will follow shortly after, you'll see

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Scorpio Chick
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posted June 03, 2008 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpio Chick     Edit/Delete Message
I was married to a Sag. Worst mistake of my life.

I find that Sag and Aqua are a great mix though.

You just have to weed them out honey. Love takes time. It doesn't always come when you call it. And believe me, I know that when Sag wants something, they have a way of getting it.

Several of my Sag friends have had the yearning to fall in love. When it hits them, they find themselves pregnant and married within a matter of months!!!

Don't lose hope. It will happen. People are not meant to be alone.

Use this time as a way to find out what YOU like. What you will tolerate. Find out what you must have and can't stand about a partner. The better you know yourself, the better you will give of yourself, and be recieved.

Good luck.

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posted June 04, 2008 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
hey,

I had a bad experience with a scorp too...far too charming with words and meant none of them. I felt totally deceived and my saggie sense of honor and honesty didn't like it.

Have now fallen for a Cappie sun/Saggie moon and feel alot more stable with this guy!

take time for yourself, enjoy something you like to do and remember to be grateful for all the positives things in life. Like the sun shining on a beautiful day or a nice lunch with a friend. Keep smiling :-)

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JustAmanda
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posted June 18, 2008 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
I really love you guys...thank you so much for your kindness and caring...from the bottom of my heart.

Light and Love
Amanda

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Tigerlily
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posted June 19, 2008 03:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tigerlily     Edit/Delete Message
My mother is a Sag and my father was a Scorpio. They were happily married for 40 years, when he died.

Semi-sextile Suns often work out long-term. I don't think the problem is astrology.

I'm sorry you're having so much heartache. Maybe you need to examine the common denominator that links all your past failed relationships. Do you keep picking the same type of guy? Is there something they all had in common? Do you have unrealistic expectations about relationships? Are you too needy? Are you too giving? Do you pick guys who treat you badly?

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posted June 19, 2008 07:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Snookie     Edit/Delete Message
Hm, scorpio+sags can work depending on the other planets.
I have a cancer moon and mercury in scorpio, so I'm more understanding + patient with him
the thing you have to watch out for most in scorps+sag combos is ego problems .... our saggie tongue can sometimes hurt scorps feelings if we're not careful.

as for aqua+Sag... im surprised! I get along pretty well with aquas.

Don't worry though hun , don't give up on love. just dont look for it too hard, it will come to you when the time is right. right now you're just growing as a person, learning from mistakes you made in past relationships to make your next one even better.

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JustAmanda
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posted June 24, 2008 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you again everyone...I appreciate your wonderful support and thoughts...

do any of you do tarot readings and if so would you be willing to do one for me?

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Happy Dragon
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posted June 29, 2008 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
~ Just Amanda ~

this is your astrology transit setup ..
( i've your natal chart .. but no birth time )

transiting Chiron .. squaring natal Venus and natal Saturn since april 2007
end of full transit .. november 2008 .. when it squares natal Saturn and turns direct ..
( t.Chiron is currently retrograde at 20 deg aquarius )

( re scorpio .. t chiron is squaring the scorpio sector .. maybe hit his sun ? )

transiting Pluto squaring natal Pluto ( Pluto being currently retrograde at 29 degree Sag. )
*will include all 1969 and 1970 birthyear folk* ..
next exact hit will be in november 2008 whilst Pluto is direct again
Pluto will be retrograde once more march thru august 2009 and move . 3 deg Capricorn back to 0 deg ..
nataly Pluto aspects your Sun and Chiron .. albeit by 5 and 6 degrees respectively ..
~ http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/017112.html ~

transiting Neptune ( now retrograde ) is sextiling natal Sun ..
this will continue on and off 'till end 2009

transiting Uranus squaring natal Sun
on and off .. feb 2009 thru feb 2010
( it got to within 2 degrees of an exact square recently .. but is now retrograde )

ditto for Uranus trining natal Jupiter ..
so who knows .. time for something new .. out of the blue ..

that chiron transit could feel like the pits i guess ..
'specially since it's been working over the venus-saturn opposition in your chart ..

btw .. transiting Jupiter goes back to 12 degree Cap before it turns direct again ..
which means it will be sextiling your natal Venus and Jupiter ..
plus trining your natal Saturn ..

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btw i've similar with natal sun ..
'xcept neptune is squaring and uranus is sextiling ..
an odd mix of transits ..
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blue moon
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posted June 30, 2008 04:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Tina Turner calling Scorpio men a pain in the @ss (autobiog) was what I thought of when I saw the thread title, so funny to read IWDWSWLM's post right after.

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JustAmanda
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posted June 30, 2008 08:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
Such wonderful advice from everyone..I truly am blessed.

And you know, I can relate to Tina as she loved Ike but just couldn't take him anymore. My Scorpio is an untreated alcoholic and if you want to call smoking weed daily a drug addict then so be it. He is the most...extreme...man I've ever known. He has the most wild mood swings too. One minute he will be obsessing over a conversation he had YESTERDAY, then an hour later he would pet my hair and say things like "My father said I should always treat girls like a lady"...VERY BIZARRE things.

He also has some violent tendencies as I saw him punch a wall on two occassions and I thought to myself ..wow..I need to get away from this guy. He's quite pecular (spelling?) and I'm not really used to anyone like that, so I had no idea how to respond to him half the time. A lot of times he acted like a spoiled child and I felt like his mother scolding him.

He is a ladies man as well, and has several women in the wings, as well as having me AND another woman at the same time, but when I found that out I removed myself from the relationship. Not to say it hasn't hurt like hell either because I would be lying. It HAS hurt like hell.

Tonight I feel..VERY anxious..like I'm waiting on something to happen..or I am feeling him...I do have that "curse" where I feel others especially those who I've had a strong connection with and I felt him a lot. He's had the same thing. I have a card he gave me when the relationship first began and I've been considering burning it in a ritual of sorts, to try and break the connection.

He was a rebound and actually my psychic told me this but I held onto the fantasy that it was more...I was wrong...

so here I am now...hurt again...maybe doomed...who knows.

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posted July 01, 2008 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
*Tonight I feel..VERY anxious.*
when you posted that ..
the Moon was squaring your natal Lillith ..
( might account for a few hour of slight anxiety )
and .. i noticed that transiting Lillith is starting to square your natal Lillith ..
that's about a 10 day transit .. and .. it can lead to increase anger levels for a short time ..
it's 'exact on the 22nd of this month .. so aprox 5 days either side ..
t.Mars trines your natal Mercury at the same time ..
and also conjuncts your natal Lillith ..
( Mars has about a 2 day peak period ) ..
so with Mars in the picture as well .. careful with the anger .. :-)

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JustAmanda
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posted July 01, 2008 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Happy Dragon for explaining that to me...I'm not a novice on this stuff and I've been coming here for quite a while...years even. Some of it I just can't take down the roadblock in my mind that keeps me from retaining the info.

Yes, I have felt VERY angry at times at him...I just feel like I want to argue and argue and argue...but I don't. But I certainly could. Course, he's moved on to someone else and I'm not a concern anymore.

Ironic thing is, he was seeing a girl right before me...and he told me about her, ALL about her..and said what a crazy girl she ended up being, full of drama, cried all the time etc...I'm starting to understand WHY this poor soul acted that way. For that is how I have felt. So, I know that the new girl he is seeing has heard all kinds of things about me. And that bothers me a lot. But, when you have a narcissitic disorder I shouldn't be surprised...

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Happy Dragon
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posted July 02, 2008 07:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
~ JustAmanda ~

from what you've written .. i'd say rejoice that your free of him ..
( although .. i can understand why it must hurt you )

re Chiron ..( i.e. that transit i posted above )
i aim to type out what liz greene sais about it from one of her seminars ..
( she views it as an important placement to include in an astrology chart ..
( i think the key words she used for Chiron .. is ' an accidental wounding'
not sure what to type first .. as i found 8 good pages of her talking about venus-pluto aspects
and someone did ask me if i had any liz greene info on those aspects .. at the time i didn't ..

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posted July 02, 2008 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
I can give you my birthtime if you need it...it's 1:55pm

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Happy Dragon
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posted July 03, 2008 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
~ J.A. ~
ok .. time noted ..
can you post the map co-ordinates ?
be no 'place' noted here ..

and re transiting Lillith ..
i mentioned 10 days ..
that could very well be the period 'till exact degree ..
i.e. the build-up-applying period
i got that number from observing my own Lillith transit once ..

and re your transit .. t.Lillith is 2 degrees from exact at the moment ..
( lillith takes about 9.x years to circle the zodiac .. never retrogrades )

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posted July 04, 2008 07:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
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Happy Dragon
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posted July 15, 2008 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
~ J.A. ~
re: Chiron as mentioned above ..
here's an astrology seminar excerpt ..
~ http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/018404.html ~
the post is about Venus in aspect to Chiron ..
however Chiron itself is discussed as well ..

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posted July 22, 2008 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
What a complete and total jerk he has turned out to be. He's been texting me for about 2 weeks now, telling me how much he misses me and wants to see me etcetc...and cares about me...

and then...today, he sends me the nastiest email about him "moving" on and how he can't give me his new address because his new girlfriend lives upstairs from him etcetc..so he NEVER meant to see me again at all! He's LIED this whole time.

I am getting a big fan and blowing this black cloud away from over top of my head...

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posted July 22, 2008 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message
..... and burn the card, like you planned. Or maybe bury it under a big rock.....

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posted July 23, 2008 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message
JustAmanda,

His loss.

Better days ahead for you. (((0))) Hugs to you

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JustAmanda
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posted July 23, 2008 07:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
thank you LetsDance and Aza....and yes...I'm burning that card for sure now.

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posted July 25, 2008 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
The Scorpion called me today...I normally do not have my cell turned on at my desk, but for whatever reason I left it on by accident...fate...coincedence? At any rate, I answered. He wasn't asking to see me...he wasn't asking for sexual favors...he just wanted to tell me that I always have a place in his heart...that he messed up...that we had a very strong bond and he would never forget it...that the time we spent together was the happiest he'd ever been in his life and he didn't know why he messed it up...and that I had been a glimmer of light in his darkness...


I didn't know what to say. For the first time I was speechless. I was shaking and I could have smoked a whole pack of cigarettes when I hung up the phone.

And I think my head spun around..ha. It was very...bizarre.

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posted July 27, 2008 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
I ran into him last night...I had almost forgotten how handsome he is...and intoxicating...I wanted to kidnap him...I began shaking while standing there talking to him...I was that nervous.

What is wrong with me????

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