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ListensToTrees
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posted August 21, 2008 08:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
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ListensToTrees
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posted August 21, 2008 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
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PeaceAngel
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posted August 21, 2008 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
sweetheart, stay away from him. that's really frightening.

my advice to anyone - if they do it even once - get out. that's once too many times. that he is now your ex is a testament to your strength and that he didn't control you.

lots of love to you.

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robyn.c
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posted August 21, 2008 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for robyn.c     Edit/Delete Message
its happened to the best of us...really the only solution is to have 0 contact. you have been assulted, thought about phoning the police? you are in UK right? what about womans aid. gather some support. have a cuppa. big love xxx

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wheelsofcheese
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posted August 21, 2008 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheelsofcheese     Edit/Delete Message
Shivers down my spine time. God I hope you are ok. Stay away from the nutter and call the cops again if he comes anywhere near. Hope you can make the break you need soon.

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AquaGuy
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posted August 21, 2008 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaGuy     Edit/Delete Message
I don't mean to sound alarmist or cold in this post, but, I might come across like that - sorry in advance...

You need to get away from this person now...

You need to surround yourself with equally or ideally more powerful people that can help defend you and keep you safe...

Get the police involved -- perhaps the reality of him going to jail will scare him straight...

You need to look hard at yourself and figure out what attracted you to the Abuser in the first place so that you don't repeat the pattern again with another abusive person...

You don't know how far this idiot's abuse can go - it could lead all the way to eventual murder...

It's not your fault - get help and be safe...

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fieryscales
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posted August 21, 2008 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fieryscales     Edit/Delete Message
Have no contact with him anymore, he doesn't deserve you ( or anyone else).

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ListensToTrees
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posted August 21, 2008 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
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fieryscales
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posted August 21, 2008 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fieryscales     Edit/Delete Message
Good luck then in your move listens

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ListensToTrees
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posted August 21, 2008 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you, fieryscales.

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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted August 23, 2008 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heart--Shaped Cross     Edit/Delete Message

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lookingoutfor
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posted August 23, 2008 06:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lookingoutfor     Edit/Delete Message
Keep your lovely self safe. love and good luck.

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lalalinda
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posted August 23, 2008 06:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
Honey get yourself some pepper spray and use it,
you've got yourself and your children to protect.

There's no excuse for spousal abuse.

You'll be so surprised the first time you use it. The tables will turn and you will no longer be the victim but instead a force to be reckoned with.

Give him the same break he gave you
the element of surprise.
Take care

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AquaGuy
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From: NJ
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posted August 23, 2008 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaGuy     Edit/Delete Message
Don't bother with pepper spray - it does not work on crazies (ask any cop) and you're more likely to spray your own eyes in the process...

If you find yourself in that position again just castrate him as hard as you humanly can...

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