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pseudofemme
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From: Boston, MA
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posted January 31, 2009 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pseudofemme     Edit/Delete Message
We had such a fairy tale beginning. Got engaged after just weeks of knowing each other. There was never a lot of passion and the physical chemistry wasn't exactly hot, but we were so compatible in every other way, it didn't seem to matter.

Things fell apart in December and we've been "on again, off again" ever since. I am having trouble getting myself to seriously give it another shot... I feel like something is missing. He is a wonderful man, everyone loves him, he's extremely intelligent and attractive... yet I cannot get myself to think of him as more than a friend at this point. I love him tremendously but it is platonic.

I now have to decide: should we give it another shot, or is it time to part ways?

Would love any outside input on the synastry or composite.


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pseudofemme
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posted January 31, 2009 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pseudofemme     Edit/Delete Message

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bunnies
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posted February 02, 2009 06:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bunnies     Edit/Delete Message
If he's so wonderful why did it all fall apart in December?
Would that be because you are not "in love" with this guy?
It will not be your friends and family who have to live with him for the next however many years no matter how much they love him.
You are WAAAAAY too young to settle for comfortable.
Settle for comfort in your twenties, by the time you are 30 you will be eyeing up anything in pants no matter how ridiculously unsuitable, just to allieviate the boredom.

The time to settle for Mr Wonderful (but we don't do sex except on his birthday) is when your idea of a good night is removing your support garments, settling down with a cup of Horlicks and watching the programmes you have circled in the tv guide.

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LetsDance
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From: Where there's dancing...
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posted February 03, 2009 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message
Hmmm....I'm having a hard time understanding the charts posted. Looking at the dates, I see Cap, Aries, and Taurus. Looking at the grid at the bottom of the second chart image, I see Pisces.
Whooozy/whatza???

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Arnicka
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posted February 05, 2009 01:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Arnicka     Edit/Delete Message
ummm the 2nd chart is a composite chart. their composite sun is in pisces

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LetsDance
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posted February 05, 2009 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks, Arnicka. I'll google "composite chart" to see what that means.

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Lucia23
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posted February 05, 2009 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
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The time to settle for Mr Wonderful (but we don't do sex except on his birthday) is when your idea of a good night is removing your support garments, settling down with a cup of Horlicks and watching the programmes you have circled in the tv guide.

Hee!! Except, there's NEVER any reason, no matter how old you get, to settle for anything less than epic love, fireworks, and daily glee.

Compulsory marriage is a relic of an era when women were used as their father's, then their husband's, economic property. Today, the only reason to be paired with someone in a romantic relationship is if you are madly in love with him. Otherwise, the guy is meant to be your friend. Or acquaintence.

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