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cutenadorablesagi
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From: Philadelphia,PA,USA
Registered: Jul 2010

posted July 24, 2010 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutenadorablesagi     Edit/Delete Message
I met this Scorpio guy on Facebook. He was a year junior to me at school. I added him thinking that he might want to get in touch "generally" after 7-8 years. Bang!!! He directly asked me that what do I think about him and how about being gf-bf? Well, he is in India right now and Im in USA. I dont know what struck on me, I said YES thinking (I wonder why do I think so much) that a long distance "flirt" wont harm me at all.

Now we talk daily. He told me about himself that he has been a "player" all this while. And darn it! I am still a virgin! he has the USP of his looks and career. So girls fall for him even before he targets them. I believe it because they way he approached me...I dont know but I am still not able to believe the fact that "IM HOOKED". I asked him why does he wanna invest his time on me...Im oceans away from him. To which he replied, "Well, u r hot! On a serious note, wen u said yes to me...I was amazed at the fact that u not materialistic like all other females. U could have said NO considering it a long-distance waste of time. U have been sweet to me inspite of knowing what I am...and I am overwhelmed"

I am not sure if I can trust him. Im apprehensive about this whole thing. Of course, how can I be serious about it! What I am afraid of is that I dont want to be left "heart-broken". He doesnt take me seriously, I can make that out but he doesnt want to call this "long-distance relationship" off. he says, "Let's have fun first..we can worry about the rest later."

You might want to ask me that why on earth am I even considering this stupid infatuation. But honestly, Im hypnotized! I so want him...

I wanted some serious advice from folks here. Plz be harsh...be rude whether its good for me or bad. I wont mind at all until and unless it jerks me and makes me shed all the gluey thoughts.
His Birthdate is Nov 21, 1984
My Birthdate is Dec 4, 1983.

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Master_Zeromus
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From: Stockholm, Sweden
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posted July 27, 2010 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Master_Zeromus     Edit/Delete Message
I bet he's manipulating you a lot! Noway that he will look up to you. Before you know about it he has already overwhelmed you and drown you into his depth. Scorpios can be pretty poisonous and believe it or not but I as a Cancer zodiac person avoid them like the plague. They are not much better than Aries.

Have you even thinked about that he has a different religion which might be stricter than your precious philosophy of life? You said that he's born 1984 and I'm a bit worried about your well being. They can be really nasty when turning on their overly pedanthic ways you know.

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cutenadorablesagi
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posted July 27, 2010 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutenadorablesagi     Edit/Delete Message
I wish you had replied before

He has already stung me and left me depressed. He started this whole thing and now it's he who is ending it by ignoring me. i don't know the reason for this...whether it is ego or the typical way of guys making the girls run after them!

I am feeling bad beacause all my life I had treaded carefully not to hurt myself and look at this guy...he made me feel like a stupid puppet

Now I m trying just to forget this whole thing... as if it never happened. But since this has never happened with me before...you know what i mean..."the subtle rejection"! It is difficult to take it in.

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SparklingSag
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posted July 27, 2010 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
I'm sorry you experienced this.I also got burned by scorpio men. My ex was a aries with scorpio moon, ouch!

You will feel better sooon, I promise.

Sparkling

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seeleah
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From: kokomo, IN, USA
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posted July 28, 2010 09:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message
yeah...I am sure there are SOME healthy scorpio men, I haven't met one yet..but I know a ton of healhty scorpio women!!! go figure..I too avoid them because of past abuse by scorpio boyfriend..and to make matters worse, I got juno in scorpio! anyways, I am so so so so sorry for your pain...*hugs*

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cutenadorablesagi
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posted July 28, 2010 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutenadorablesagi     Edit/Delete Message
awwww....I thought I was the only one to get bruised.

Gonna beware next time!

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Nine
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posted July 28, 2010 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message
When I looked at his chart and saw he had Sun & Moon both in Scorpio, my immediate advice was to run while your sanity was still intact.

To contact you after all this time could mean one of two things the way I see it; the universe is about to teach you a lesson, or you offended him many moons ago in HS and he's back for revenge. Who knows??

Always be on guard with Scorpio energy. They will never let you in without a thorough investigation/vetting process, and you should treat them accordingly.

That said, your progressed synastry with this guy is fabulous. You didn't give birth times, so orbs may be off by a minute or so, but you have DW Sun/Venus conjuction in Scorpio & Capricorn. This is the ultimate romance/relationship aspect. You also have a DW Venus/Mars trine in Libra & Aquarius. With pMoon in Libra he's definitely in a hunt for a relationship. Idk, but there's something about this pMoon that makes the most free spirited among us lonely, and desirous of a coupling.

Did he really sting you, or have you overwhelmed him with your enthusiasm??

The pSynastry showed a one year liaison ( the moving planets are one degree from exactness). I'm surprised things fizzled so quickly.

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cutenadorablesagi
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posted July 28, 2010 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutenadorablesagi     Edit/Delete Message
Woooffff!! You made me come back to life again!

My DOB is 4th Dec 1983.
Time of birth is 01:07 PM Indian Standard Time.
Place of birth is Calcutta (now Kolkata), India.

I dont know anything about him except his date of birth. His place of birth is Varanasi, India.

And, he is currently in India and I am doing my Masters in Philadelphia. We have done video chats and all. And yes, you are absolutely right. While we were in touch, the feelings used to run down our spine...especially mine! Yes, he overwhelmed me. The sparks are still there but we are stuck with our ego. Who should contact back now???? I tried a lot of times but not able to get through. Perhaps, destiny is playing a game here.

I again agree with you on the point that perhaps, I was supposed to learn a lesson here. I think I have already but I want to play more!!!

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charmainec
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posted August 02, 2010 05:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message
I'm 4 Dec too Romantic relationships with scorp men never really worked with me. They were too secretive and wore masks ( speaking from my own experience so I don't mean they're all like that because I have met others that are dedicated, loving and loyal).

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mintgirl123
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posted August 04, 2010 05:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message
My dad is a scorp sun and moon (and merc) and he's... hard to handle to say the least.

Ex was scorp moon.
Let me just say, prepare for the manipulation, vindictive words and paranoia.
And ^ Yeah.

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SparklingSag
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posted August 04, 2010 05:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
Oh my

My ex was Scorpio moon and mars. What can I say? Manipulative, secretive, vicious when wanted to cause pain. I cut him him out of my life for 4 months and he is coming crawling back now wanting me back. He has finally realised he misses me and what he lost etc. Well, he is coming to collect his stuff he left at my place in the next couple of weeks. I donít want anything to do with him and have arranged for a friend to pick his stuff up.

As a saggie, (I donít have many water planets either) i would run far away from an unevolved scorpio.

Sparkling

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