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Tiny Sia

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posted January 15, 2014 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tiny Sia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, I am a Pisces woman. I need some sort of help or advice. Will do my best to make this short n to the point.

I used to be with a libra man about 3 years. We were solid but he left for the military in the states on the third year. Thats when things got extremely complicated and very frustrating for the both of us.

That year, 2012, we both did things that hurt eachother. And I really complained about it with my family n close friends. I will admit, I let my negative emotions take over n said really horrid things. But after some time, I realize I was terrible for being so awful and learned not to ever do that again or even others. I took the time to better myself and always be mindful of my actions.

During the end of that year, the holidays, he came to visit but I could sense he was different and we argued. I thought we made up n everything was okay. But after he left, I found out he cheated on me. I was devastated.

Fast forward a few months and we were talking again n doing well. (He was still taken but we kept a respectful distance)Then he came to visit again and after a few events he broke up with his gf. Then he said he didnt feel our spark but wanted to try.

Recently, his ex went on his fb and saw my convo with him. He was furious and wanted to get back. He asked to use my fb and I let him because I trusted him. Eventually, I felt something was off n I talked to him tge next day. He had found the old convos of when I was angry with him.

So now he doesn't want to talk to me and I keep telling myself I accept that but I dont. So the question is: Would he eventually realize im not perfect either and forgive me for making a terrible mistake?

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posted January 15, 2014 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gracha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe he'll eventually come around. Just give him some time to process everything. But you should be careful because this guy has cheated on you and even admitted he "didnt feel the spark" so you shouldn't get your hopes up too much. I'm not sure why you still want to be with him after everything that has happened. I'd be be very cautious.

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Mystic Melody

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posted January 18, 2014 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You were together 3 years and he cheated on you and you were mad and told your friends and family. He stayed with the girl he cheated on you with and then one day she looked at his Facebook and saw conversations he had with you about possibly getting back together. He was so mad AT HER about THAT (catching him cheating) that he wanted to "get back" at her. Then you allowed him to use your Facebook account to "get back at her"? And HE then found and read things YOU wrote that HE didn't like. This sounds like so much instant Karma that's it's unbelievable.

I know it must be emotionally stressful and I hope you find a way to work though it and learn from your experience. I think this man will just bring you more pain. Remember that the opposite of love is not hate... it is indifference. If he has so much emotion toward this woman that he felt the need to use your account to "get back at her" then he is not detached from his feelings for her at all. He also won't handle your mistakes kindly. He is now involved in an extremely messy and sad way with BOTH of you. I pray you have the strength to go your own way and to find your own peace.

Have you read Linda Goodman's Love Signs? Find out both of their birthdays and give that book a try. It will start you on the journey to the answers you are seeking. You will understand more about your relationship with him and their relationship with each other as well (the highest and best vibration of both relationships anyway). Most importantly, you will learn more about your own strengths. Blessed journey to you.

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posted January 19, 2014 12:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome to Lindaland, Tiny Sia!

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posted January 19, 2014 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted January 20, 2014 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Enjoy your stay.

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